Don't feel sorry for that..welcome to being human and having a HEART!

I could write a book on so much I have learned.

Just remember...

Never be afraid to LOVE...
Never be afraid to LIVE...
Because we won't get those chances back!

It could be either or neither, but you mentioned something more important in a previous post. He is not interested in a LTR at this point. It sounds to me like you are getting ready to ask a question that you already know the answer to. Perhaps you did not like the answer...

LOL..no! I'm not a shrink..but I have about 12, wanna borrow one??

It's really just simple. When you can finally realize that so much precious time is spent in all the WRONG things.

Life is for LIVING! And love is a GREAT thing! So do what you need to do to find it! No need in playing little games like you are a teenager (but if you are young it is understandable).

Love and rejection are BOTH a part of life and we ALL go through it. We all have feelings..and if they are good feelings towards someone, well I don;t think that EVER is a bad thing!

OK, so you don;t get the response you wanted. You were honest, open and took that chance. but remember..one of those times you try...BINGO!!! You found it!!

You can't ever hit a home-run unless you get up thier and swing at the ball. Sometimes you strike out...other times you can get a hit. At least swing the bat!

One of the ABSOLUTE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS you can learn in LIFE is GOOD COMMUNICATION!!!!!

This applies to EVERY aspect in LIFE! Anything from work to personal life, from friends to a spouse.

WHY DO PEOPLE MAKE SUCH A SIMPLE THING SO HARD!!??

Say what you mean and mean what you say!

There is nothing worng with just asking him..or better yet, telling him how YOU feel! Then if need be ask him how he feels. It's better than having to GUESS at everything.

of course you risk "rejection" of not getting the same feelings in return, but you can also GET THAT FEELING IN RETURN! How are you going to know??? JUST COMMUNICATE!!!

no no no no don't take the direct approach, thats much too easy. what you need to do is be sneaky and underhanded about it all. first get yourself some of that date rape drug and slip it into his cereal in the morning..... get a pregnancy test and mark it so it'spositive and leave it on the nightstand for him to find in the morning. he'll wake up, see it and freak!

when he's all in a panic tell him got drunk and just found out he was pregnant, but don't worry you'll do the right thing and if he needs any help while he's knocked up you'll be there.


that should do it.

I am going thru something VERY similar right now! I have met a guy, in my hometown (myex's sister fixed us up).... we had been together 2 months, had STRONG feelings for eachother, then on Christmas Eve, he told me that he needed tome to "Sort things out"... We have talked a few times since then, but nothing like before. I really miss him being here with me. We were supposed to spend the evening together last night, but he never called. I was very hurt, and upset. I spent the evening alone, sittingon the couch or on the computer. But I did find out today that he was in the ER last night with an allergic reation to some new meds that his doc put him on (he has MS). So I felt like an A**!!! He did apologize for not calling, but he left both his cells at home... and didn't even call his kids that live with their DA mother.
So if you figure out how to deal with these situations... let me know too!

Talk to him. Be honest and tell him how you feel. Figure out where he stands too.
If he doesn't feel the same way you'll be hurt but not as much as if you keep waiting and hoping.
He might be feeling the same way you are too.

How long have you had any time together like to talk chat you know the usual?