Is this the fundamental reason why some men like to chase and women enjoy playing hard to get in return? Seems to be a lot of the reason a man feels he has to work hard to get "the prize." Whatever happened to passion in relationships anymore? Has this drained out because women stopped being "women" or rather "self sufficient" and can make their own decisions, their own money, have a choice in a guy? I was thinking this could explain a lot of what is really going with broken relationships lately. Today's woman is very different from what she was in the 20s on to about the late 60s. Seems like it could be a factor in the demise in a lot of relationships.

Guys, are you bothered by a feminist?

you should always say ,no the outfit doesn,t make you look fat ,your fat makes your look fat lol.

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Do not try this at home, it may cause serious injury lol.

A man should always be honest and say, "No, no, there is absolutely nothing wrong with the outfit."

So I'm thrown back into the dating world and have been picking the wrong types of men i.e., selfish,have sex a few times and then bail.

I've been told I am not vetting properly. What is vetting and how do you go about it?

What should I be looking for/questioning about when out on a couple of dates with someone?

When do you start asking them what their intentions are when it comes to dating. You might believe as I foolishly did that everyone is looking for "the one" where they are going to quit cybersurfing for the BBD or window shopping.

Why can't a person when they are beginning to date someone, there's a spark, why can't they take the time to get to know you, instead of immediately dropping you and hunting for their next prey, especially once they have sex. It's almost as if they are afraid to have sex with you more than once or twice and don't want to go further.


I know some are going to say to wait on the sex part, which is what im going to do next time, but how long do you wait?

Hi I am just beside myself and sickened to have found out my husband of 27 yrs has been picking up street corner whore's. I am devastated and in between shock, anger and sorrow. What would you do if you found this out about your husband ?

can sumbody can give d meaningful difference of love and sex????

Kk...hello everyone...here is my dilemma...I have just recently started dating my ex, and I have a few problems with the advice given by counsel...We are not in a typical relationship as we have a kid together, but have been separated for 5 yrs...

the rundown: he has already been to my house, slept overnight, due to traveling to see the kid, knows my parents, friends, family...I know this guy very well, and he will not attempt to manipulate me emotionally or in a sexual manner...My questions are, do we really need to involve ourselves in group dates...quite honestly, our church doesn't even have singles events for those over 30, and we are no rookies and don't need the accountability...in my opinion. other factors are that he is native Guatemalan and therefore Spanish is his primary language...he doesn't mind going places or hanging out with my friends; he does speak English, probably not as much Spanish as I speak, but still...I am more comfortable going with his friends, church etc, just because I understand more than he does at my church etc...I know his intentions are to be married, but we both know we need to guard our hearts...

so I guess my question is...in a situation as such, how many of these godly dating guidelines should one really follow.

time off is a seperation , or a break up that isnt definite

break ups are more of a permanent intention to move on

where as time offs are break ups with the option of gettinhg back together if the breakup deosnt work,,,

voyeur?

Why some people are afraid or intimidated by rejection? We probably could come up with a million things.
Some people play it safe because they are afraid of rejection. Some people don’t try new things because they are afraid things may not turn out the way they want. Females don’t approach guys because they are afraid of rejection. I am old skool, I think a man supposes to approach a female in public places not the other way around. Dating sites makes it easier for people to communicate or approach opposite sex. Just my opinion.

Carol, I don't understand why you say this. To me it seems obvious that it's possible. I'm not sure it's even manipulative. Some people are great at being romantic, affectionate, all that, but just don't have the capability for true caring. It's a personality defect (IMO) but I don't think it's necessarily intentional, especially with younger people who haven't figured themselves out yet.

Caring but not romantic is also highly possible, in my book.