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Wed 12/12/18 07:43 PM



No cannot move, I have family depending on me



I find a lot of people say that.

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Wed 12/12/18 07:42 PM

The world really is getting smaller and smaller. Relocation is not what it used to be. In the last year I have been in Iceland, China, Greece, Mexico, the USA and of course Canada.. and in each place I have thought of the many things that would make it great to live there.
So yes I would definitely relocate



Kewl, Wow world traveler. Kewl. I have never been across any oceans.

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Wed 12/12/18 07:40 PM

If it involves having to leave my dog
in quarantine, or worse, giving up my dog?
The answer is a flat Hell No.




I agree.

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Wed 12/12/18 07:38 PM

I think of relocating all the time. I've lived in 4 different states in my life. I haven't found the perfect place for me. I'll probably stick around here, maybe for the rest of my life. It's a lot of work and expensive to move.



Yes it gets expensive to move. I like where I am but it does get boring. Small town. No money. rofl

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Wed 12/12/18 07:30 PM


I guess I would, for the right person. Just brings up another question. Of when & how do you know they are the right person? mmmmmm smile2


Hopefully sometime before you get married! Do you believe someone should get a divorce first before relocating to live with another person?


Edited in... To answer the question, yes I would relocate. I'm single and in the position to do so.


Do you believe someone should get a divorce first before relocating to live with another person?

No I believe that if it is over, well it's over. Divorce can take years sometimes. No one should have to put their life on hold just because of it.

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Wed 12/12/18 05:50 PM

It's not like walking into a restaurant and ordering take out food. You need time, patience, and probably a better approach to starting conversation.


Good luck!



Well said.
Yes takes time.

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Wed 12/12/18 02:52 AM
Well women have to worry about stalkers a lot more than us men do. So I will give them a benefit of a doubt. Just like putting your full name on it. Mmmm Security reasons maybe some of it, mmmm shades

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Wed 12/12/18 01:59 AM
You are welcome. My apologies.

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Wed 12/12/18 01:52 AM
Headlines that state will not send money or ITune cards, oops Joking. LMAO smile2
Yea the looking for marriage headline , naw
Not even filling out the simple part of the profile, naw.
Putting the "I am model" picture up, naw.
Kids in picture, naw. not dating your children. You and only you in picture.

Just my opinion.rofl oops

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Wed 12/12/18 01:35 AM
Hope that was some what relevant to some of your questions.
I have no problem with anyone's life style choices. I live mine and let them live theirs.

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Wed 12/12/18 01:29 AM





I love all women! :heart: Will I find what I seek? Nope. I have been on, off, around just about every online dating site out there. Including the Polygamy web sites. 1 thing I have noticed about every one of them is that most of the people on them have their own lives filled with family, friends, house, car, dog, cats, kids, job. In an area they will not leave. As most of you know every one is too far away to even just meet. So what do I hope comes out of this? Well FATE pushes me to keep seeking.


Not trying to be judgemental, but you're still married! Maybe the sites that support extra-marital affairs would be a better fit for you. Most of the woman here are not interested in married men, whether they are separated or not.


Nope Not Married. Just live together and yes she knows and approves. Polygamy is real. I have friends that live this life style. This site is just like all the rest. You just have a forum where people can visit.


Yes, everyone is welcome in the forums. And some meet and date, and some have even gotten married. And others just hang out in the forums to socialize.

Your profile says your married... hence my comment.

If you have friends that live that lifestyle, surely they would know where you might find a second or third wife/live in.

Good luck!

Personally, have nothing against polygamy. Personally, I choose to enter into a monogamous arrangement.

The topic of this thread is how men react to a woman that is 'forward'.
So, on topic, how has your 'open' lifestyle been affected by women making the first move?

Considering that you are an established polygamist, are the women openly pursuing you or are women a target of your intentions?
Knowing what I know about the values of women, I believe not many actually approach you to be 'part' of your...'harem'?
However, having never attempted to have more that one woman at any given time, I do not know?
Please enlighten us?




My reaction is I like it. I think it helps them weed out the ones they don't want. It has a positive effect with this life style. It has made me more aware of women, like in check out lines. I tend to notice more indicators better now. I do like them to make the 1st move. But no I don't just go out on the prowl. I really don't like chasing, but I am not afraid to ask, get answer "ya" "na" and either continue interaction or move on. If I see a woman that is interested in me I will ask. I have had actually mmmm quite a few pursue me and some stalkers too LOL. Lots of hate mail along the way. But no this is not for everyone and there is nothing easy about it. Jealousy can and will arise. But.... That being said.
You would be surprised at how many women that will live this life style. Economics will play a big role in it. In most cases it is out of love for each other. But splitting the household expenses between all helps all. Leads to more money to put in savings accounts of their own. Something I insist on. While splitting the household chores makes life easier for all too. But remember this life style is NOT about sex. You will go weeks without it. Contrary to popular beliefs. While being the only man in the household you still get opinions from everyone before any major decisions are made.
Been a few yrs ago, before late wife passed and I relocated. But there were 4 of us living as a family in the same house. That went on for 7 years. Fantastic times! But as fate would have it. The 1st one " fell in love " with one of my band mates and left the household. No hard feelings, no regrets about it. That's life. Things and people change. Still friends. 2nd one left to take care of her parents. So wife then passed... anyway it hit me really hard ... I will leave that there.

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Tue 12/11/18 10:31 PM
I have not but wanted to try my hand at it. Any advice?

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Tue 12/11/18 10:24 PM
I joined cause I thought it would be fun. Maybe meet some people and make friends. But ..... mmmmmm

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Tue 12/11/18 10:10 PM
Yes I agree, stop hating each other.

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Tue 12/11/18 06:33 PM
But I do thank you one and all. And wish you the best holiday season. Gots to go wash dishes. BB later. LMAO

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Tue 12/11/18 06:31 PM


I love all women! :heart: Will I find what I seek? Nope. I have been on, off, around just about every online dating site out there. Including the Polygamy web sites. 1 thing I have noticed about every one of them is that most of the people on them have their own lives filled with family, friends, house, car, dog, cats, kids, job. In an area they will not leave. As most of you know every one is too far away to even just meet. So what do I hope comes out of this? Well FATE pushes me to keep seeking.


Not trying to be judgemental, but you're still married! Maybe the sites that support extra-marital affairs would be a better fit for you. Most of the woman here are not interested in married men, whether they are separated or not.




Nope Not Married. Just live together and yes she knows and approves. Polygamy is real. I have friends that live this life style. This site is just like all the rest. You just have a forum where people can visit.

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Tue 12/11/18 04:13 PM
Nope, If we can't talk here, what would texting get me. LOL

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Tue 12/11/18 04:06 PM
I love all women! :heart: Will I find what I seek? Nope. I have been on, off, around just about every online dating site out there. Including the Polygamy web sites. 1 thing I have noticed about every one of them is that most of the people on them have their own lives filled with family, friends, house, car, dog, cats, kids, job. In an area they will not leave. As most of you know every one is too far away to even just meet. So what do I hope comes out of this? Well FATE pushes me to keep seeking.

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Tue 12/11/18 11:16 AM
While I have had good luck in the "online" area. I have had a lot of BS with it. I have found that looking at the within the 50 mile radius is best.
( Lets you check their back ground easier. ) Church outings, town arts crafts in the park outings. 4th of July gatherings. Stuff like that, have been a best meet & greet thingy for me. You will find some men are intimidated by your looks & confidence. And you are a very lovely woman so, intimidate them
ha ha ha ha !!! Good Luck wishing you the best.

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Tue 12/11/18 01:31 AM
I guess I would, for the right person. Just brings up another question. Of when & how do you know they are the right person? mmmmmm smile2