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Sun 08/21/11 09:19 PM


I was married for 8 yrs and been single for 2 now.

(Got divorce because my ex was cheating.)



I find it easy to get dates but can't seem to commit to a LTR Its always in the back of my mind that they will cheat.

So how do someone get over it?



Best not to get seriously involved until you are over that notion.

It is not fair to hold the new person responsible for the old persons sins.

Women are guilty of this also.

It just shows that you still need to work on yourself.

We trust because we choose to. It is never the other person's responsible to "help" us to trust. If we do not do it, it is our problem to fix it.


Very well said. I agree it's our problem to fix. ...But how do we fix it? hmmmm? I've Been burned too.

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Tue 08/16/11 07:07 PM
Edited by AJ8 on Tue 08/16/11 07:41 PM

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Tue 08/16/11 06:50 PM

:smile: Easy question no lengthy answer required just be honest. I joined this site in hoping to find the woman who could move my heart and hopefully at some point marry and build/be a family with. :smile:


....to meet you waving smitten

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Mon 03/21/11 11:02 PM
Can you really trust anybody?