there was these guy and these woman thay meet on line

thay talked every day on chat and then strted calling one another on
the phone at list ones a week

these keep going for a bout a year and thay new one another good bye
now

so thay deside to meet and do thay meet and go get somethang to eat.

as thay are talking she says to the man I dont thank I want to date
any one right now

thay go on talking and eatting and she lives gos home he gos home and
thay steel talk she aske him to come up to her house help her with
some work she needs dune

he says ok he gos and helps her
he realy likes her so he desides after getting back from her house and
helping her to aske her out

so he duess now she tells him sorry she oready seeing a guy and
then tells him your a nice man you have a good hart some day some one
will come along for you

see what happions to nice guys she stotyped him out that day when she
meet him for real life thats why she sead she did not want to date

be hide hes back she looks for a new man see so being your salf
being a nice guy got him were ?????????

... Hmmmmm

Very interesting indeed of this story. Sounds like what I've been going
through, and have been dealing with, in most ladies out there.

But what do most ladies "MEAN" when they say they want a "NICE GUY?"...
do they mean a "GOOD-LOOKING, HOT or SEXY" looking type of guy or
average looking?

I see ladies profiles on this website saying they are seeking a "NICE
GUY OR PRINCE CHARMING!" but when I see profiles like this really
confuses me. Because mostly in the end, when my pic is seen with my
charming messages. You never hear from a "Nice Lady" that is seeking a
"Nice Guy".

... So most likely the majority of most ladies out there put up "FRONTS
or COVERS" to what they are truly seeking in a special other.

But if it's LOOKS that a lady truly will see in seeking that guy. I'd
just wish they'd be more upfront and HONEST about what they are looking
for to begin with and stop sterotyping out NICE GUYS like myself because
of my LOOKS.

Ladies continue to do this and they know it and purposefully sterotype
out a person based on LOOKS and if most ladies cannot be upfront in what
they are seeking. Then they are FAKE to begin with and use TERMS over
MEANINGS to finding what they really are NOT looking for.

... They simply say they just are. When deep down, when a lady says she
wants to find a "NICE GUY!" still... what type of NICE GUY are they
truly seeking when it comes to... LOOKS / AGE / PREFERENCES??????

I think that a lot of ladies who say they are looking for a "nice guy"
or "prince charming" are looking for a bad ass who is supposedly wild,
crazy and exciting that they think they can chenge into a "nice guy" or
"prince charming". It never works and they end up getting treated like
dirt, they get hurt mentally and or physically and the relationship
ends. Then they go right back out and look for the same type of person
all over again. Remember "it is foolish to do more of the same thing
and expect different results."

You know what there is a world out there besides the computer and
millions of ladies out there wanting to be loved. And here you go the
biggest secret ever told to man kind is this love your self and be
confident and strong women chew it up all right.

i don't give a **** what happens, if it takes my whole life to meet a
girl that can accept me for who i am then so be it, but i will not lie
to myself and everyone i know, i am a nice guy, and if girls don't like
that, too bad for them.

jon, you are so right, hang in there the right one will come along. My
son went through the same thing. People would tease him cause he never
had a girfriend,all his pals had girls. He used to tell me Mom nice guys
come last. Well he did meet some one,a very nice girl at that. They've
been going out steady for the past year and half and they're planning to
get married when he's done college. The right one will come
along.