South Jersey Mutha F*cka's .....

Good Topic :)

Is It Just The Looks????

HELL NO!!!!!

Looks dont mean a damned thing and I know this for a fact.

I was with my ex wife for 7 years, and everyone I know wanted to get with her and they thought she was soo hott!

But after being with her for this amount of time I no longer found her attractive.

After you get to know a person you dont really notice the physical appearence, but you see the person as who they are and what they are about.

She looked very ugly to me after the years.
I didnt see what everyone else saw on the outside, her personality is what I saw, and I didnt like what i was looking at.

How do you overcome fear of rejection and shyness?

I think that I am a decent looking guy, and i know that I am one of the nicest, and caring MEN around, yet I have been single for a while now, after the end of a 7 year relationship with my wife.

I have confidence in my self and my sexual abilities, and can be quite the charmer, however I notice that unless its a digital conversation, I almost never start one.

What advice can you provide a guy like me????

Just figured I would join the bunch and post a welcome Topic.

So ....

I am 26, from New Jersey ( yea, I know ... It Sucks)

I am a dedicated internet marketer, and also attending college seeking a profession in network management.