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Topic: Is It Just The Looks???????
cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 06:57 PM
Do we all look at the other persons looks first??????? Yea Yea Yea, I know it hepls,but isn't it what's on the inside that counts?????

Dragoness's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:00 PM
Welcomebigsmile

cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:02 PM
Thank You for the Welcome!!!!!!!! I guess i have never gone by looks,strange i know.But just me!!!!

no photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:03 PM
welcome to jsh, and beauty is only skin deep, what lies beyond some ones phsical attributes, doesn't intrest me really because in the long run, we all grow old and we won't look the same as we do in 10 or 20 yrs. but that's just mw

no photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:03 PM
welcome to jsh, and beauty is only skin deep, what lies beyond some ones phsical attributes, doesn't intrest me really because in the long run, we all grow old and we won't look the same as we do in 10 or 20 yrs. but that's just me

bluebell's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:04 PM
hi and welcome
i dont go for the looks but what they have to offer

no photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:04 PM
I am kind of that same way how person looks changes on how much I have had to drink ... and real beauty is only a light switch away.....


ok seriously now yes I believe there needs to be a physical attraction , but that could be ones eyes.. other than thought i think what makes a person is there personality and body language, etc...

MichaelPrice's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:06 PM
Good Topic :)

Is It Just The Looks????

HELL NO!!!!!

Looks dont mean a damned thing and I know this for a fact.

I was with my ex wife for 7 years, and everyone I know wanted to get with her and they thought she was soo hott!

But after being with her for this amount of time I no longer found her attractive.

After you get to know a person you dont really notice the physical appearence, but you see the person as who they are and what they are about.

She looked very ugly to me after the years.
I didnt see what everyone else saw on the outside, her personality is what I saw, and I didnt like what i was looking at.

wmyers4u's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:07 PM
I think we all try not to judge by looks, but they do have an impact regardless.

It is just like weight, we are all trying to be nice to everyone, but some people are just as turned off by someones weight as some people are turned off by people piercing themselves or having tattoos.

We all have characteristics that we are looking for and others that we are not looking for. Wouldn't it be boring if we all wanted the same thing in a person?

unsure's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:11 PM
Looks fade after a period of time...but inner beauty can grow the more you know someone flowerforyou

I do think that you have to have some kind of an attration to that person...but it can be their smile or their dimples. Or better yet, they just might have a great personality that draws you to them.:heart:

cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:11 PM
I don't think we all want the same thing in a person.Me i want someone who knows how to laugh and just be who they are not what others want them to be.

mry's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:11 PM
No it not just their looks, I also check out their wallet and bank accounts! LOL laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:16 PM
theres a certain look about a woman that catches my attention . she doesn't have to be miss america , but she has to take care of her self. i look at he eyes and the lips why i don't know. i think all woman are beautiful in general. i just want one that is happy with who she is well, at least 78% of who she is will be fine. i think thats the way we are programed ,you know, no attration, no interest. but i like to talk with most to see if we might have anything in common. any way most profiles just seem to be enough to get your interest.

cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:21 PM
Yes i think the eyes tell so much!!!!! They say you can see the soul through the eyes(don't know for sure)

Arc's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:21 PM
Who you are on the inside can change without platic surgery...what u are on the outside can only be changed by plastic surgery...its better to look good. What you are on the inside can always be changed...:D

Arc's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:22 PM
Who you are on the inside can change without plastic surgery...what you are on the outside can only be changed by plastic surgery...its better to look good. What you are on the inside can always be changed...:D

cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:29 PM
Why would you change on the inside if that's who you are???? I don't think the outside should change either.We are who we are.

no photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:31 PM


<----- chick magnet inside the box..bigsmile

andreajayne's photo
Wed 10/24/07 07:45 PM
There has always been a certain look that I have been attracted to, and I find myself often times going by that, but over time I have learned that I was missing out on some of the greatest people by judging. One of my bestest friends never would have been if I had continued to judge people. Treat me well, and you will be one of the most beautiful people to me!

cher4you's photo
Wed 10/24/07 08:05 PM
Now bear has a look(smile)

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