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Sat 03/14/20 06:45 PM
Things were dull and boring,
Seemed like a normal day,
Then something happened,
Things became colorful instead of grey,

Like a forgotten memory,
A ghost from the past,
Someone made an appearance,
But will this last,

The heart wants what it wants,
But is it worth the pain,
Same attitude, arrogance and stubbornness,
No, I can't handle it again,

Made up my mind though,
The choice is tough,
Not taking a chance,
Not going to sway,
Its better to ignore him,
And go my separate way..


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Sat 03/14/20 12:59 PM

Nice poem:thumbsup: :wink: .


Thanks :slight_smile:

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Fri 03/13/20 09:01 PM
I feel blank,
Which lines to write,
Can't think clearly,
Been having sleepless nights..

I wonder if you are also going,
Through the same,
Thinking about my face,
Saying my name..

Maybe its my once sided crush,
Maybe I am thinking too much,
Coz if you are feeling the same,
Why you not getting in touch?

You not giving up your ego,
I am not giving up my respect,
We are both suffering,
Causing more stress..

Wish we could talk,
Wish we could compromise,
Coz its not true,
That love is unconditional,
Maybe like everything else,
Love also comes with a price..

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Fri 03/13/20 08:49 PM



Don’t go Jasmine, I’d miss your lovely poetry:thumbsup: :wink: . Then again that’s your decision:thumbsup: .


Thank you that's really sweet:slight_smile:. I will be posting poems till when Iam here.


I think it's a good decision. Taking a break.

In my experience, my love was patient with me, okay, right, she was avoiding me.
Then I read an article on 'lessons repeating' till one learns to see them as a pattern. The article was written by her, so I read with deeper interests. In there was also a reference to a book by a Dr. C.C. Scott & her book 'Rules of the Game.
Patterns & awakening out of it.

Then I wrote to her; stuff containing the same old mush, mush. "How remarkable her article was, how cute she was." No reply. Agonized over the silence.

Woke up next day morning with a sense of liberation. Ha, ha. With the sense of having caught myself red handed.

Why all this need for her response, for her adulation confirming how brilliant I was. Adulation? Yeah, a feedback for my ego. Ego, ha, ha. ho

So it was not love at all. Desire, yes. A crushing desire, failing which an agonizing loneliness. Near breaking point; and still the same criminal instincts, sending mail, SMS; what not; and here I am well past middle age. Wow!

That's when I realized that the best thing my ex-love did was patience. No fights, no arguments. Just silence.

I may have lost her; but I regained my 'self'.

I know 'love' is subjective, and there's a thread where members describe how they view it. It is also diversified. There's a lion here who adores his 45 as a token of love for his girl of the day. So my experience may not apply to your specific case --- Still there's something in that pattern article that helped me. I lost 8 months, not 2 years. :)


In my case, I think its better to get to know a person than falling for someone at first sight :-) Also in my case, it is clear if two people are good looking, have same level of education, have same level of job and pay, and both are attracted to each other YET if their personalities and mentalities are very different, it will not work. :-)

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Fri 03/13/20 02:23 PM

Don’t go Jasmine, I’d miss your lovely poetry:thumbsup: :wink: . Then again that’s your decision:thumbsup: .


Thank you that's really sweet:slight_smile:. I will be posting poems till when Iam here.

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Thu 03/12/20 10:57 PM


What I heard ..,
With Covid 19 in the air,
All dates are off.




Yup that too sad2

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Thu 03/12/20 01:13 PM



You are like a mirror,
Each time I look,
I see myself in you..






great line. i just might hafta steal it. bigsmile

YOINK!!! tongue2


Hehe go ahead, Iam sure you will create something good with it :slight_smile:

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Thu 03/12/20 01:12 PM

Lovely poem:thumbsup: :wink: .

Thanks :slight_smile:

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Thu 03/12/20 01:11 PM

Very nice poem Jasmine :heart:

Thanks :slight_smile:

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Thu 03/12/20 01:16 AM
If someone asks,
How am I doing,
I would smile and pretend,
I am fine,
Can't tell anyone,
You are the only thing,
Nowadays on my mind..

If someone asks,
Do I have a clue,
What is so special about you,
What I see in you,
I would say yes,
You are like a mirror,
Each time I look,
I see myself in you..

If someone asks,
Why him?
He has no charm,
He is so rude,
He is no fun,
I would say,
Yes maybe its true,
But what to do,
My heart believes,
You are still the one..

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Tue 03/10/20 11:38 PM


I think you are hot,
And so very cute :kissing_heart:,
Only wish we cud talk,
Wonder why you are mute,

I keep coming on this site,
To get a glimpse of you,
Coz there are many like me,
But like you very few,

If you break your silence,
Can we chat again,
Do get in touch,
Hope Iam not waiting in vain,

I won't be here for long,
Maybe till April 8th,
That's when I saw you,
Here two years back,

It was attraction at first sight,
The cause of my sleepless nites,
Still we not together,
Donno why we argue and fight,

If by April 8th,
I don't get your reply,
I will never message you again,
And leave this site for good,
That will be the end of our connection,
And this will be our final goodbye..





I had to say good bye ...

after a couple of message guess... I was not his type ...

no reply at all ...

but would not leave ... stay and have fun in the forums ...


Sorry to hear that and thanks for the advice smile2 but for me, it will be difficult to stay here and to see him. Leaving for good will be the only way to get over him.

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Tue 03/10/20 03:39 PM
Edited by Jasmine on Tue 03/10/20 03:42 PM
I think you are hot,
And so very cute :kissing_heart:,
Only wish we cud talk,
Wonder why you are mute,

I keep coming on this site,
To get a glimpse of you,
Coz there are many like me,
But like you very few,

If you break your silence,
Can we chat again,
Do get in touch,
Hope Iam not waiting in vain,

I won't be here for long,
Maybe till April 8th,
That's when I saw you,
Here two years back,

It was attraction at first sight,
The cause of my sleepless nites,
Still we not together,
Donno why we argue and fight,

If by April 8th,
I don't get your reply,
I will never message you again,
And leave this site for good,
That will be the end of our connection,
And this will be our final goodbye..

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Tue 03/10/20 11:35 AM

Nice poem:thumbsup: :wink: .


Thanks :slight_smile:

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Tue 03/10/20 11:34 AM


How you walked into my life,
So quietly without making a sound,
There were so shadows,
And no footsteps on the ground,

Still I kept you in my heart,
Like a precious jewel you are,
Hoping someday we meet in person,
In the meantime,
Loving you from afar,

But problems started,
You kept quiet,
And I pretended we were fine,
How was I supposed to know,
All the doubts and fears,
That you had in your mind,

How do I convince you,
This is for real,
It's not a trap,
I want to be with you,
But how do I find a way back,
There is no shadow,
And you didn't leave any footsteps..






Lovely Jasmine :heart::rose:


Thanks :slight_smile:

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Mon 03/09/20 08:57 PM
Edited by Jasmine on Mon 03/09/20 08:59 PM
How you walked into my life,
So quietly without making a sound,
There were so shadows,
And no footsteps on the ground,

Still I kept you in my heart,
Like a precious jewel you are,
Hoping someday we meet in person,
In the meantime,
Loving you from afar,

But problems started,
You kept quiet,
And I pretended we were fine,
How was I supposed to know,
All the doubts and fears,
That you had in your mind,

How do I convince you,
This is for real,
It's not a trap,
I want to be with you,
But how do I find a way back,
There is no shadow,
And you didn't leave any footsteps..




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Sun 03/08/20 11:52 PM

same here


smile2 :thumbsup:

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Sun 03/08/20 11:50 PM

Brilliant


Thank you smile2

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Sat 03/07/20 03:01 PM

That's really nice Jasmine :smile: Most of us feel that way at some point in our lives. Several times. Nice.flowerforyou


Thank you for your lovely words :relaxed:

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Sat 03/07/20 03:00 PM

:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: Nice


Thanks :slight_smile:

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Sat 03/07/20 02:59 PM

Nice : :wink: .


Thanks :slight_smile:

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