Hi,
I met a girl through bumble, went on a date a few days later, got to third base with her. Over the next two weeks she would text me, I would text her. We’re both busy people. She alerted me at the beginning that she is horrible with texting and replying to people. We got together 2 weeks from the initial meeting at her place. It was an alright time. She was coming off a cold and still had a cough so she “didn’t” really wanna kiss me. Anyway her texting started to fall off and I would say I was the main one pursuing, not everyday, but like every other day. We got together again at her place about 2 weeks later and it went much better than the first time at her place. We made out, watched the game, ate food and chilled. All the while with her actions and body language in person are great, she wouldn’t initiate contact first. About 1 week and half later, we went out to a baseball game and it was great. Lots of touching flirting, and making out in her car at the end of the night. 3 days after the game, I sent her text saying we should meet up again. She hasn’t responded. It’s now 1 week after the baseball game date and I haven’t heard from her nor have I reached out besides that one time. What do you think is going on? Everything in person is great. I’m not sure if she suddenly went cold and lost interest or playing games and testing me. How would you proceed?

Met this girl on bumble and within 3 days we’re out on a date for drinks. Date went great. Spent about 5 hours hanging out and ended back in my car with heavy making out, but she wasn’t down for sex on first date and I can respect that. Spent the next week texting each other trying to set up next date. Agree to meet up on a Sat, 2 weeks after our 1st date. She cancels cause she’s sick but reschedules for the following Monday and I’ll come to her house to hang out with her and her dogs. I bring a change of clothes knowing we’re walking dogs through trails and I might get muddy. I tell her I will take a shower and she says she will too. After showers, we order food and put on Netflix. She’s had a heavy cough, so it makes sense that she wasn’t lying about being sick from couple days prior. We’re cuddling but nothing hot and heavy like the first date (no drinking involved this time). We joke and tease and I get a few kisses, but she doesn’t really wanna kiss cause she says she sick. Over the next week, I only texted her once and she replies, but no real communication. 8 days later I msg and she’s like “oh hey stranger”. I tell her I’ve been busy and we fall right back into texting light hearted stuff, although I’m doing much of the leading. I want to make plans with her for the weekend and she says, she’s busy Friday and will let me know about Sat. Sat she tells me she’s not able to do it cause she had a migraine apparently and I say cool. Sun I shoot her a text saying,How’s your head. She replies that is much better and she is happy I asked. We text through the day and I ask, what we’re eating for that nights game? She laughingly replies saying what I’m talking about, I game her that I’m bringing food for the game that night. She says she can’t do that night but we can do the following game which will be Wednesday. Wednesday comes and we have a great time. I break down some barriers about her past (practically married and got cheated on) we cuddle and make out, and i give her massage, but I could tell sex wasn’t on the table yet. As I depart, she gives me two big kisses and says text her when I’m home. I do. She gave me a container of food to try as well. We don’t text each other Thursday but Friday I sent her a text saying food was good and replies. I later reply, when do you want me to return container. It’s Sunday and she hasn’t texted back yet. Now this girl is 29, is a school teacher, volunteers with fosterd dogs and has a pretty busy life. She also let me know she is a terrible texter from the out set. I guess I’m a bit confused about where we stand. I understand this girl has been seriously hurt before and has her guard up and I’m guessing she’s just playing hard to get. But her communication has been a bit lacking. In total I guess you can say we’ve been seeing each other for a grand total of 5 weeks now, which isn’t very long. We’ve seen each other 3 times in person with the first and third time being great and the 2nd being ok. I’m not gonna text her today and I just want some opinions on what people would do moving forward