Topic: Where do I stand
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Mon 06/25/18 12:23 PM
Hi,
I met a girl through bumble, went on a date a few days later, got to third base with her. Over the next two weeks she would text me, I would text her. We’re both busy people. She alerted me at the beginning that she is horrible with texting and replying to people. We got together 2 weeks from the initial meeting at her place. It was an alright time. She was coming off a cold and still had a cough so she “didn’t” really wanna kiss me. Anyway her texting started to fall off and I would say I was the main one pursuing, not everyday, but like every other day. We got together again at her place about 2 weeks later and it went much better than the first time at her place. We made out, watched the game, ate food and chilled. All the while with her actions and body language in person are great, she wouldn’t initiate contact first. About 1 week and half later, we went out to a baseball game and it was great. Lots of touching flirting, and making out in her car at the end of the night. 3 days after the game, I sent her text saying we should meet up again. She hasn’t responded. It’s now 1 week after the baseball game date and I haven’t heard from her nor have I reached out besides that one time. What do you think is going on? Everything in person is great. I’m not sure if she suddenly went cold and lost interest or playing games and testing me. How would you proceed?

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Mon 06/25/18 12:26 PM
this must be deja vu, because Ive heard this story before

anyways

short answer, she lost interest.

why? when a woman is interested and into you , you will know, not even the shyest woman can hide that fact.


time to move on.

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Mon 06/25/18 12:30 PM
Edited by GalaxyStarz on Mon 06/25/18 12:30 PM
Sorry for your experience.

The word "Bumble" seems to give off an aura of mishaps.

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Mon 06/25/18 12:34 PM

this must be deja vu, because Ive heard this story before...

Same topic already in progress: https://mingle2.com/topic/556265
so this one will be locked.

soufie
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