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Sun 03/13/11 09:32 PM
I was going to call you to apologize, but you know what? I didn't do anything wrong. What happened, happened. It meant nothing to me.

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Sun 03/13/11 09:15 PM
I don't want to get hurt.

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Fri 03/11/11 06:19 PM

ok, lets speak virgin wise. All my friends told me that when they lost their virginity 2 the guys they thot loved them, ended up dumping my friends and they were hurt 4 a while, feeling stupid....I guess after a couple times you have sex, you end up having an "idc" attitude....this doesn't apply 2 married couples, but um if more girls give themselves up, then how would sex be special? just like currency, the 100 dollar bill currency is limited because if it was thousands more 100 dollar bills than currently circulated, it would lose its value and become like a penny, basically useless, because everyone would have it...so, if a girl didn't want 2 have sex because she feels, "why have sex now because on our honey moon (if we get married) sex would lose its value because he already knows what it is like 2 have sex with her, and might just move on to the next girl....relationships are not just based on sex anyway but, if all girls put out then what really is the point of marriage? most guys tell me they like a challenge and just use the girls that would "put out" after like 2 weeks, and I heard my bros friend say that the girls that do that have a low self esteem problem or whatever so they try to keep the guy by giving him whatever he wants but that doesn't work, so the marrying type are the ones that treat themselves as a prize and let the guy chase them......wait! im totally off topic (-_-) lol oh well


Ok here's my view.

Sigh.. indifferent

After you have sex for the first time, you wont see it the same anymore. You will see that he loves you and you love him and that will be enough for you to feel the comfort to continue to have sex, plus you will crave it now. Sex will become something you do on the normal, like drinking water, and you wont have second thoughts to continue the act with him.

After you break up or divorce. You no longer have his love. You no longer trust him. That comfort is gone. But you will begin to crave that comfort, affection, companionship and sex that you once had.

You can take different routes at this point.

As you said, have the "IDC" attitude and fck around to fill that void. I can tell you though, this usually doesn't end well. You will probably end up hurt. And yeah, we've all heard guys like the chase blah blah. But here's the thing. If the guy you really like isn't looking for a relationship/marriage, he's not going to stick around whether you do him or not.

The difference is that when he leaves, you can either be left hurt because you got attached after you did him, or have no regrets and move on.


sick There's too much to type. But yeah.

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Wed 03/09/11 10:08 PM

All of my friends and family are saying that I've finally lost it and gone off the deep end by friending my cat, but I think he's pretty cool.


Thoughts?

Am I turning into a 'Cat Man'?






Thank you.




You have made my night.





Lmao.

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Wed 03/09/11 08:55 PM

I am not sure what I want. If someome knows please tell me.


I'm in the same boat with ya. drinks

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Sun 03/06/11 11:07 AM
When I used to take online dating seriously...


Nope, it didn't work out sick


But it's different for everyone happy


So rather than asking, try it and develop your own experiences flowerforyou


and then tell us about them!!! :thumbsup:


Have fun! drinks

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Tue 03/01/11 05:46 PM
Beth Ditto


This girl can sing, and it gives me CRAZY adrenaline rushes love

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Mon 02/28/11 11:12 PM
Yes, You are paying for this date. No, you are not getting laid. =]

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Mon 02/28/11 11:04 PM
Well **** you then. Sorry I care for my friends. Be like that. Jerkoff.

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Sun 02/27/11 07:20 PM

good one .

I like to learn things that I am afraid of or know little about.

So years ago I went to school for residential and Commercial Electricity.

I am no longer afraid of electricity but have a healthy respect for its

principals.

As of lately (the last 10 years) I have gone heal long into computer science.

I decided to find out how they work and why.

I am now a tech. and enjoy unlocking digital mysteries .

My advice , go after what intimidates you and master it .


Hmmm, that's a good way of looking at it.

Spiders intimidate and scare the **** out of me lol Maybe I should take an interest in arachnids.

I was going into computer science as well. I find the surface interesting, but I lose interest in anything deeper. It's just not for me =/

In my own opinion college is not a good idea straight out of high school. You don't honestly know yourself yet. The best job you've had so far is probably at a local food joint or grocery store. Plus any job that is worth having will train you the way they want you to be trained. To me college is a waste of $100,000+.


I'm not straight out of high school, but it's somewhat true that I don't completely know myself well to pin point what I honestly "love" to do. I've actually had a good share of jobs which I've learned useful skills from, but that's the reason why I want to go to college, because I see those jobs as dead ends. All jobs will train you the way they want, but it doesn't make them worth having.

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Sun 02/27/11 06:52 PM
I have came to the conclusion that I am no longer interested in the major I chose three years ago. indifferent

I have no idea what I want to do anymore. ohwell

How did you decide what you wanted to do in life? What helped you make up your mind and stick to it? what

I tend to always change my mind about things, and it's difficult to see myself doing just one thing for the rest of my life. slaphead


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Fri 02/25/11 09:45 PM
To be honest...

I have no idea anymore. sick

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Fri 02/25/11 09:42 PM
Love.

At least for one day.

Without it, you can't risk getting hurt.

But sometimes the risk is worth it...

That's why, only for a day.

indifferent

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Fri 02/25/11 09:34 PM
I feel like that right now.

frown

I'm just gonna take a hot shower and go to bed.

Here's hoping for a better tomorrow.

drinker

Stay positive, we'll get through it. You're not alone! flowerforyou

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Tue 02/22/11 05:36 PM
Let him know that he can pay for the tix and you'll take the popcorn and drinks or he can do the dinner and you leave the tip.

It seems fair that way, especially if it's the first date and you've already decided it's going to be the last slaphead

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Sun 02/20/11 12:17 AM
Yes, I worry about my weight. I want to be able to look in the mirror and like what I see, from all angles, not just that certain angle that makes my face look skinny.

whoa

lol I speak ONLY for myself when I say that I work on my body for no one but myself. If a guy doesn't like how I look, he can close his eyes.


tongue2

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Sun 02/20/11 12:13 AM
I was going to sign up, but it didn't seem like they were up to date with the new releases ohwell

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Sat 02/19/11 01:21 AM
Single & Flirtatious!!!!! w000t!!!

drinks

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Fri 02/18/11 06:38 PM
It was all fun & games for me in the beginning...

...but now...

I think I'm falling for you

wtf!!!

spock

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Wed 02/16/11 12:01 PM
She's probably not interested and didn't know how to tell you. Move on to the next!