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Tue 03/06/18 01:08 PM
Sunshine and snow falling. I love when that happens!

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Tue 03/06/18 01:07 PM

I had been chatting online with a guy (J) daily for months but never met him as he only wanted to chat and I was happy to do that. I was telling him that I was going out on a date that night (with F) when F cancelled with only 2 hours notice. Told J that I'd been stood up so J asked if I wanted to meet him seeing as I was all dressed up and had nowhere to go. I said it was a brilliant idea and we met up later that night. From the word go, we clicked and got on really well. Hadn't laughed so much in my life.......belly hurting laughs! He was charming and such good fun. He wasn't looking for a relationship at the time but he became my best friend. Sadly, he recently passed away but I'll never forget the laughs we had. That night was the best 'date' I ever had and I was so glad that F had cancelled because I would never had met J otherwise.


No that’s a cool date! I’m sorry for your loss, but glad you got to meet for this date. flowerforyou

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Tue 03/06/18 11:15 AM

My best date was meeting up with a girl that I was talking to online. I drove seven hours to meet her. We met up, had a quick meal at a Wendy's, then we walked on a beach (well it was a fake beach....it's hard to explain so just go with it people)....we talked and talked and then adjourned to our hotel. We then went to a Casino, had dinner, gambled some, drove around cause we got lost......anyways, I know it sounds lame but you have to understand I was into this woman and I honestly thought there was no way she would be into me.....and I was happily wrong.


The best dates have more to do with the people and mood than the setting, where I’m concerned. flowerforyou

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Tue 03/06/18 06:18 AM
The joker who designed my bathroom must have been a long armed giant, because I can’t reach the holder from the seat. So mine has never hung, but just sits on a cabinet. Haha!

When I’m at someone’s home or work, I have to fish for the end if it’s rolled under, so I guess that probably makes me an over the top gal.

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Tue 03/06/18 06:08 AM
I’m a Leo, but have never felt my sign description was wholly accurate for me. I was born on the cusp, so maybe I’m a little bit Virgo too. I seem to identify as much with Virgo as Leo.

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Mon 03/05/18 09:09 PM

What is a blind date??




A blind date is with someone you’ve never met. Like when a friend sets you up with someone you meet for the first time at the restaurant.

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Mon 03/05/18 09:06 PM

I met her she was beautiful..
We talked we did some things..
Then we went someplace private and did some more things.... and then the sun came up... and we kissed each other goodbye..
... what more do you want..lol


laugh That’s a pretty good date too.

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Mon 03/05/18 07:05 PM

I remember when I was in the Air Force in Colorado many moons ago I was fixed up with a blind date with an elementary school teacher. Blind dates can be scary but we hit it off great when I told her I got a spanking on my first day of kindergarten for sliding on the floor on my knees. We went hiking and caving in the afternoon and dancing in the evening. That was a chore with my 2 left feet on the dance floor, but we had a great time. Lost touch with her after being shipped out to go overseas so I always wondered what might have been.


Great story...but it’s a shame you didn’t bump into her again.

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Mon 03/05/18 05:35 PM
Edited by JanDarling on Mon 03/05/18 05:36 PM
All three sound like awesome dates Tom. Easy to see why you chose them to share. happy

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Mon 03/05/18 03:41 PM
The day we adopted our daughter and knew once and for all she would be ours forever. :heart:

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Mon 03/05/18 03:37 PM

That I'm a beautiful woman. My mom said that to me today, and she's never been open with such things, so it seriously moved me! love


A compliment from someone who doesn’t give them often is the real deal! And she is right.

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Mon 03/05/18 03:30 PM
Watching cartoons with my Granddaughter and having a cup of tea and cookie. happy

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Mon 03/05/18 03:24 PM
Almost daily.

Have you ever gone out of your way for someone to do something it turned out they didn’t even want?

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Mon 03/05/18 03:05 PM
Someone at work just noticed something I recognized two weeks ago. Haha! But they said they thought it would be a real hassle and time saver for everyone. It felt good to be appreciated.

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Mon 03/05/18 02:58 PM
Completely! Haha!

Have you ever had a food allergy?

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Mon 03/05/18 02:47 PM
Edited by JanDarling on Mon 03/05/18 03:44 PM
What is the most fabulous date you’ve ever been on?

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In the first month of dating my husband, he took me to the lake and surprised me with a sailboat ride.

It may not seem like a big deal to some, but it was the first time I was ever on a boat of any kind and it was scary/exciting to learn to steer the boat.

We were out on the boat all day with a picnic lunch, swimming, fishing and dinner.

Then we anchored in a perfect spot to star watch and make out. It was a very romantic night. :heart:

We relived that date on our 20th Anniversary.

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Who will share theirs?

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Mon 03/05/18 02:37 PM
Watching people air dirty laundry in public or on a public forum are both the same to me...very discomforting! I also feel it’s very disrespectful.

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Mon 03/05/18 07:28 AM
Very.

Have you ever seen someone wrestle a gator?

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Mon 03/05/18 07:26 AM



I have been on here for awhile now and it seems that once you have told the other person a little about yourself then they don"t seem to be interested. I have to be upfront when replying back, I tell the person that I am on disability and the type of disability that I have which is bipolar disorder and that I live with family. and I leave it up to them to decide if they want to continue


What I'm about to say is not meant to be mean. I'm just being honest.

Most times it's best to not let out your personal medical conditions right off the top to strangers. When you do, you will be thrown in the barrel of the undatable. People are judgemental. Especially when they don't know you. The smartest thing I can tell you to do, don't lie and don't try to hide. You are who you are. But at the same time, don't overwhelm potential dates by telling too much too soon. When you say"bipolar" to soon, A person gets spooked and they run.

Give them a chance to get to know you a little. If you get a chance to, go out with them a time or two. See if you even like them. Or if they like you. After a date or two, tell them the truth. If they walk, let them walk. If this person does, he wasn't meant for you anyway. If you don't tell to much to soon, you stand a better chance of them hanging around for a while. Be ready for it if they don't.


I certain this :thumbsup: some human beings does not show compasion at all and this is so sad


I also agree with Charles and Nofearinlove.

Some may assume another’s medical issues would be problematic before they have a chance to know you.

No one expects to know your whole story before they’ve even began to learn who you are.

We all have complexities, but they are usually only a small part of who we are.

It’s really none’s business until the time they’ve expressed an interest. After that, you will feel when the time to discuss your and their complexities.

flowerforyou

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Mon 03/05/18 06:43 AM
Only on video. Haha!

Have you ever been skydiving?