I think you are right.

But there is two strata of singles who will date a person who is going to go through the throes of a divorce:

1. People who are really desparate;
2. People who have a very good sense of humour, and want to watch the show unfold, as they cheer you on with the divorce from the sidelines. This type tends to leave you the moment you get your walking papers from the marriage.

That's actually been part of the problem...

I think you'll find that there are guys who like just skinny women and guys who aren't nearly as picky. Either way, you have to be able to be comfortable with yourself. Confidence is a turn on for many.

This is pretty much what I believe too, although sometimes I feel time and space is necessary to gain a proper perspective.

I know that everybody is different. That's why I created this topic: To see what others are like with this issue. By learning from others, sometimes we learn more about ourselves while gaining greater insight into the people we know. If we don't try to grow and learn, we find ourselves unhappy reliving the same mistakes again and again.

Drat, and drat, and double drat.

I, a non-facebook user (I must be the last of the Mohicans), could not make sense of it, had to read it several times.

As comprehended by me, version 1.0:
"If you ever loved somebody, then like this comment." (I.e. it's a command, you must develop a liking for this comment.)

As comprehended by me, version 2.0:
"If you ever loved somebody like this, then comment." (I.e. it's a command, you must follow up with a comment if your love was similar to the one I talk about.)

As comprehended by me, version 2.01:
"If you ever loved somebody like this, then comment." (I.e. it's a command, you must follow up with a comment if your love was for a person like this, i.e., a person who is similar to the original poster.)

Lucky is the woman you love because of those qualities you got, totage.
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It is very painful for me when my man disappoints me in anyway. I guess I trust him with my heart too much and failing the expectations causes the extreme pain.

I myself, turn into being impassive when I get really hurt...causing me to start turning away from him while having pain in my heart... which results to falling out for him when things are not patched up easily, so the question of time and space is a no no for me. Stoicism is my greatest enemy in this scenario.

In cases like this, I gather it is very important for two lovers to talk freely and discuss the hurt that ensued if both parties still care for each other.

I like both long and short hair styles on a woman.

After all it is her hair and she can wear any type of hairstyle she so desires.