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How to get over your ex ?
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Hi ... it can take awhile ...depending on your circumstances...
and how long together...might make a different to ... |
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You keep busy. Make plans with friends/ family and do the things that you wanted to do but couldn't find the time to do so. Explore new adventures and try to have fun and DON'T think about him/ her!
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How to get over your ex ? Keep yourself busy, go out with friends, get a hobby, do volunteer work... give yourself time to mourn the love you lost. Time is your best friend. Best wishes 
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It's always difficult. Mainly because of how entwined we make ourselves with the other person over time. The longer you were with your ex, and the more you restructured you life myths, beliefs, and expectations for the future based on being with them, the more careful and often painful work you will have to extract the "you" from all of it, and leave the "them" behind.
Best simple advice: have patience with yourself. Accept that you are going to make lots of little mistakes as you work on yourself, because most of us don't even notice as we do try to build a life with someone else, just how many small details we alter in ourselves. |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Sat 01/27/18 04:14 PM
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How to get over your ex ? Start dating a new man you find Romantic !!! |
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Moving on takes time.. the more you try to forget him, the more you will think of him
Let the time do that but while doing that go out and meet friends or new people. Talk to them (just the usual conversation). Keep yourself busy by doing the things that you like and by doing the things that make you happy... Little by little, you're not noticing that you're moving on already.  You deserve someone better than him and you won't meet that person if you're still in a relationship with your ex
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Edited by
greeneyes148
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Sat 01/27/18 05:28 PM
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It is always best to take the high road and be mature about it
but Slashing his car tires and spreading rumors that he has a limp d**k is also very good. |
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Another old thread  Perhaps the OP has met someone and moved on  Some new people may not seen them! Like people who been here for year's!  |
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I didn't make it this long without a couple of those.
I concentrate on the things I CAN control like work, friendships, family. Being productive is always a salve for any kind of blues. |
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Before I got married I designed a Plan, like and emergency on a fire scape situation. This plans must exists, not thinking in use it, you know it’s better to have and no need it, than need one and not have it. So 17 years of marriage and I used, I stick to my plan, some deviations appears on the way, but you need to follow the instructions, so far this let me go trough the separation process with no colateral damage.
May be for someone could sound with no feelings, but I tough on this thinking Hope for the best, prepare for the worst I doesn’t means it doesn’t hurt, it’s hard to stick to the plan, but every time you see a deviation remember you need get on right path. Now I’m reborn, I’m a 2.0 version of me, happy with the new beginning Si, it works for me Try to design your plan !! |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Sun 01/28/18 09:28 AM
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Before I got married I designed a Plan, like and emergency on a fire scape situation. This plans must exists, not thinking in use it, you know it’s better to have and no need it, than need one and not have it. So 17 years of marriage and I used, I stick to my plan, some deviations appears on the way, but you need to follow the instructions, so far this let me go trough the separation process with no colateral damage. May be for someone could sound with no feelings, but I tough on this thinking Hope for the best, prepare for the worst I doesn’t means it doesn’t hurt, it’s hard to stick to the plan, but every time you see a deviation remember you need get on right path. Now I’m reborn, I’m a 2.0 version of me, happy with the new beginning Si, it works for me Try to design your plan !! Interesting comment! I'm planning a prenup for a next marriage if any!!! |
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A sniper rifle works well.... j/s..
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