Topic: Opinion, your thoughts,
ranilynz_28's photo
Sun 08/27/17 01:32 AM
How to get over your ex ?

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 08/27/17 06:46 AM
Hi ... it can take awhile ...depending on your circumstances...

and how long together...might make a different to ...



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Sun 08/27/17 11:47 AM
You keep busy. Make plans with friends/ family and do the things that you wanted to do but couldn't find the time to do so. Explore new adventures and try to have fun and DON'T think about him/ her!

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Sun 08/27/17 01:27 PM

How to get over your ex ?



Keep yourself busy, go out with friends, get a hobby, do volunteer work... give yourself time to mourn the love you lost. Time is your best friend.

Best wishes flowerforyou

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Tue 08/29/17 04:48 AM
It's always difficult. Mainly because of how entwined we make ourselves with the other person over time. The longer you were with your ex, and the more you restructured you life myths, beliefs, and expectations for the future based on being with them, the more careful and often painful work you will have to extract the "you" from all of it, and leave the "them" behind.

Best simple advice: have patience with yourself. Accept that you are going to make lots of little mistakes as you work on yourself, because most of us don't even notice as we do try to build a life with someone else, just how many small details we alter in ourselves.

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Sat 01/27/18 04:14 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 01/27/18 04:14 PM

How to get over your ex ?




Start dating a new man you find Romantic !!!

AngelHappiness's photo
Sat 01/27/18 05:07 PM
Moving on takes time.. the more you try to forget him, the more you will think of him

Let the time do that but while doing that go out and meet friends or new people. Talk to them (just the usual conversation). Keep yourself busy by doing the things that you like and by doing the things that make you happy...

Little by little, you're not noticing that you're moving on already. :blush::blush::blush:

You deserve someone better than him and you won't meet that person if you're still in a relationship with your ex :blush::blush::blush:

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Sat 01/27/18 05:27 PM
Edited by greeneyes148 on Sat 01/27/18 05:28 PM
It is always best to take the high road and be mature about it

but

Slashing his car tires and spreading rumors that he has a limp d**k is also very good.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 01/27/18 05:33 PM

Another old thread slaphead

Perhaps the OP has met someone and moved on :wink:



Some new people may not seen them! Like people who been here for year's! slaphead laugh

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Sat 01/27/18 05:35 PM
I didn't make it this long without a couple of those.

I concentrate on the things I CAN control like work, friendships, family. Being productive is always a salve for any kind of blues.

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Sat 01/27/18 09:55 PM
Before I got married I designed a Plan, like and emergency on a fire scape situation. This plans must exists, not thinking in use it, you know it’s better to have and no need it, than need one and not have it. So 17 years of marriage and I used, I stick to my plan, some deviations appears on the way, but you need to follow the instructions, so far this let me go trough the separation process with no colateral damage.
May be for someone could sound with no feelings, but I tough on this thinking
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst

I doesn’t means it doesn’t hurt, it’s hard to stick to the plan, but every time you see a deviation remember you need get on right path.

Now I’m reborn, I’m a 2.0 version of me, happy with the new beginning

Si, it works for me

Try to design your plan !!

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Sat 01/27/18 10:01 PM
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Sun 01/28/18 09:27 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sun 01/28/18 09:28 AM

Before I got married I designed a Plan, like and emergency on a fire scape situation. This plans must exists, not thinking in use it, you know it’s better to have and no need it, than need one and not have it. So 17 years of marriage and I used, I stick to my plan, some deviations appears on the way, but you need to follow the instructions, so far this let me go trough the separation process with no colateral damage.
May be for someone could sound with no feelings, but I tough on this thinking
Hope for the best, prepare for the worst

I doesn’t means it doesn’t hurt, it’s hard to stick to the plan, but every time you see a deviation remember you need get on right path.

Now I’m reborn, I’m a 2.0 version of me, happy with the new beginning

Si, it works for me

Try to design your plan !!


Interesting comment! I'm planning a prenup for a next marriage if any!!!

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Sun 01/28/18 11:22 AM
A sniper rifle works well.... j/s..

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Sun 01/28/18 11:49 AM
laugh laugh laugh