for those who have been in love, what were your first thoughts of that someone. how did you know that you were truely in love with that person, and not just a strong feelings thing? honestly, i've never once told a girl that i loved her, cuz i dont want to say it unless i mean it. the word love is overrated these days amoung couples. whats love to you?

hey guys... thanks for the advice. jayme, thanks for the compliments.

hey, thanks for the compliments everybody. pkh, you've gotta be the nicest person on this site. you got a comment on just about all these readings. ha. thanks for the advice.

oops.. i hope she doesnt read this. this could be bad.

Do they work?
i tried and failed misserably. she cheated on me after just 2 months. My buddies been in one for 2 years, and they're goin to hawaii together next month and hes proposing... whats the deal?

age never meant anything to me. i actually prefer older women over someone younger than me. i dated a 36 year old right out of high school when i was 18. we were together for almost a year,and we were very happy. as long as the connections there, go for it.

im prior service with the marine corps, and i just gotta say that what you wrote was powerful man. thank you for it. keeps us motivated to know we're out there fighting for people who support us. thanks man.

Dads Song

Hey dad
I'm writing to you
not to tell you, that I still hate you
just to ask you
how you feel
and how we fell apart
how this fell apart


are you happy out there in this great wide world?
do you think about your son

do you miss my little girl?
when you lay your head down
how do you sleep at night?
do you even wonder if we're all right?


but we're all right
we're all right


[Chorus:]
it's been a long hard road without you by my side
why weren't you there all the nights that we cried
you broke my mother's heart
you've broken me for life
it's not ok,
but we're all right
I remember the days, you were a hero in my eyes
but those were just a long lost memory of mine
I spent so many years learning how to survive
Now, I'm writing just to let you know that I'm still alive


the days I spent so cold, so hungry
were full of hate
I was so angry
those scars run deep inside this broken body
there's things I'll take, to my grave
but I'm okay
I'm okay


[Chorus:]
it's been a long hard road without you by my side
why weren't you there all the nights that we cried
you broke my mother's heart
you've broken me for life
it's not ok,
but we're all right
I remember the days, you were a hero in my eyes
but those were just a long lost memory of mine
Now, I'm writing just to let you know that I'm still alive
yeah, I'm still alive


sometimes
I forgive
yeah and this time
I'll admit
that I miss you, said I miss you


[Chorus:]
it's been a long hard road without you by my side
why weren't you there all the nights that we cried
you broke my mother's heart
you've broken me for life
it's not ok,
but we're all right
I remember the days, you were a hero in my eyes
but those were just a long lost memory of mine
Now, I'm writing just to let you know that were still alive


and sometimes
I forgive
and this time
I'll admit, that I miss you, miss you

I LYE AWAKE IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT AGAIN
I TRY TO THIK WHY YOU WERNT HERE IN MY LIFE TILL THE END
CUZ YOU KNOW IN THIS HEART OF MNE
A LOVE BURNING DEEP INSIDE
AND ITS CALLING OUT YOUR NAME
AND NOW MY EYES THEY OVERFLOW WITH TEARS CUZ YOUR GONE
WITH SOMEONE..... TONIGHT

I SEE THIS LOVE IN THE SHAPE OF YOUR FACE THAT I KNOW
MY HEART SPEAKS OF THIS AMAZING LOVE THAT YOU'VE SHOWN
BUT WHAT I CANT FIGURE OUT IS
HOW DID I DESERVE THIS
HOW COULD IT HAVE ALL BEEN SO RIGHT
NOW MY EYES THEY OVERFLOW WITH TEARS CUZ YOUR GONE
WITH SOMEONE...... TONIGHT

I wrote this for my ex girlfriend. Hope you like it!!!

Its the great thing about my life
We both get the chance to live twice
First time you break down, and you get cold
You're feeling weak, You're feeling old
But then you get the chance to live again
Start life off with a new friend
But how was i supposed to know it would only be for a time
Who will wait for you know, Who will stand by your side
I will
I will
I'll be there waiting for you
Just like i had promised too
Someday
Somehow
We'll be together again
I'll start my life with you my best friend.