Thanks for all the advice.
I will take things as slowly as he needs. I have never been 1 to smother but I am afraid if I give him too much space he will think I am not interested..
I dont want him to feel pressured or him to think I am not wanting to try.
I just need a happy medium.

He is going to NY for 1 of the last games at Yankee stadium this week. We have plans for dinner the Friday after he comes back and after wards going to play pool or something.
I think this will give me the time I need to process all this and be able to take it 1 day at a time.

doesnt have a car? no
medically cant drive? yes
chooses not to drive if someome else is around?? hell yeah!


but as you can see there are other factors involved

He has awesome qualities... and most of all he TREATS MY DAUGHTER RIGHT!!
I am just worried he might not really be ready and I am scared to get hurt by the same man again!

My mom is the greatest as well. I know we all feel that way. I hope I am as good of a mom to my daughter as my mom has been to me.

I love my mommy!!

Well. I dated a guy for 7 months and then we broke up. It was a great 7 months. He treated my daughter very well and was there for me during a very hard time( My brother fell from a ladder and shattered the heal bones of both feet). He opens doors is very polite and is responsible. At the time of our break up(9/11/07) he said he was not looking for the same thingI was because his divorce was just final weeks before we started dating. He told me that he knew I was an awesome girl and that when he was ready for a relationship he would call me. (Feeling like a puppet, but I love him) Through out this year he has emailed me making sure my daughter was doing well. He has started texting for a bout 2-3 weeks off and on. Then Saturday night he calls and begs me to come over. Against my better judgement I go. My daughters movie was still on the dvd player where she left it and random other things I bought for him were still inthe same places. We talked for a while and then when it was time to go he asked me to stay. I left anyway. I asked him if he was ready and he said he was not sure. I am ok with going at a slow pace I dont want things to get complicated but I want him back in my life. Am I crazy? Am I setting myself up for failure? Please leave your advice. Thanks!!

lol

to be good example for my daughter.

lol...

i can agree.

its not right what happened getting pregnant so early and blah blah blah.. but who are we to point fingers.. we have all screwed up at 1 time or another.. Some worse than others.

There is only 1 judge!

any drama.... is too much drama!

Sweet Cinnamon

I think you posted that before... however is still just as funny!!

Thanks for your many laughs!

Texan Here as well..

Dallas/Mesquite

ha ha !!

call my mom... yep.. before I even get outta bed at 445am.

I survived it... thats what matters..

So I would say I had an AWESOME day!!

Running out the door to go sit in traffic.

another Badd A$$ from Texas...I just love him! But fear him as well.

can agree to that as well!!