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Topic: I just don't get it
Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 09/03/08 01:57 PM
I watched the Maury show today and everytime they bring on this sobbing girl that's terrified to tell her man that she cheated on him and the baby might not be his. I've seen this happen in real as well. Where he or she is balling their eyes out about how they love the other person so much, "he means everything to me, he means the world to me, he's done everything for me" So my question is... if he (or she) really means everything to you, and you are terrified of him or her leaving you, why is hell did you cheat on him / her in the first place?? Did you not realize at the time it was the wrong thing to do?? I just don't get how someone could really mean that much to a person and you cheat on them and then want to beg for forgivness. All cheating happens on purpose. You may not have intended to go out and cheat, but the act of cheating itself is not an accident. So why purposly hurt someone you claim you love more than anything?? It just doesn't make any sense to me...

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Wed 09/03/08 02:02 PM
I wish I knew. I kind of think it's because people use the wrong body parts to do their thinking.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Wed 09/03/08 02:05 PM
I totally agree with you...I have found that some are only capable of loving someone when it is convenient

Amalie Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 1239	Wed 09/03/08 02:06 PM
I wish I knew. I kind of think it's because people use the wrong body parts to do their thinking. i can agree.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 09/03/08 02:08 PM
This is not my answer Because they were mad at the other person for some petty thing. And ballin and crying. and to quote It just happened. This is my answer now. So when you go out ballin and crying about that little something. Try to pick the same sex. Because after you get over that little thing you were crying about. You just wrecked that real relationship.

jasonl26 Joined Fri 08/08/08 Posts: 313	Wed 09/03/08 02:10 PM
I wish I knew. I kind of think it's because people use the wrong body parts to do their thinking. i can agree. they tripped and landed on the guys D*** oh wait had that one used on me

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 09/03/08 02:13 PM
furthermore why didn't the dumbasses use a condom

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Wed 09/03/08 02:14 PM
the one i thought was funny was that one chick who's been on there like 50 times and had like 100 guys tested and none of them were the father

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Wed 09/03/08 02:14 PM
I wish I knew. I kind of think it's because people use the wrong body parts to do their thinking. i can agree. they tripped and landed on the guys D*** oh wait had that one used on me And in the process everyones clothes flew off

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Wed 09/03/08 02:16 PM
furthermore why didn't the dumbasses use a condom Cause they were affaid they would break?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Wed 09/03/08 02:16 PM
after being cheated on for a long time I couldn't bare to watch those shows

KymmieSue Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 1497	Wed 09/03/08 02:21 PM
after being cheated on for a long time I couldn't bare to watch those shows I can, maybe, understand 1 time. But for 3 years, and possibly 3 kids.Once is a mistake, maybe. Twice is a habit. They're all the same, I quit watching them.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Wed 09/03/08 02:25 PM
after being cheated on for a long time I couldn't bare to watch those shows I can, maybe, understand 1 time. But for 3 years, and possibly 3 kids.Once is a mistake, maybe. Twice is a habit. They're all the same, I quit watching them.

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Wed 09/03/08 02:26 PM Edited by cottonelle on Wed 09/03/08 02:31 PM
oops, double post

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Wed 09/03/08 02:35 PM
well Jill, you don't understand because you aren't some stupid woman/man who can't think one step ahead of the game... I don't get it either....

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Wed 09/03/08 02:39 PM
the one i thought was funny was that one chick who's been on there like 50 times and had like 100 guys tested and none of them were the father Lol... I've seen that one. And EVERY time she's SURE she's found the guy.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Wed 09/03/08 02:41 PM
I truly think I would be even more pissed and insulted when I hear how I mean everything to him and he loves me soooo much but yet he cheated on me anyway.

maryelizabeth10 Joined Sat 08/16/08 Posts: 2826	Wed 09/03/08 02:41 PM
i dont know and how can you go on national tv a billion times cause you cant find the dad i dont know id be embrassed. seriously if 8 or 9 men had been tested and you cant find the father. and ive seen a woman on there do that. she still hasnt found the kids dad and shes preggo again and dont know who that father is either.