actually that is not true. yes grapes and raisins are bad for dogs because they lead to kidney failure but the dogs need to have a large quantity. a few grapes or raisins here and there is alright but the dog needs to have any where from 9 ounces to 2 pounds in one sitting for the dog to have a real chance of dying. and yes chocolate is bad for you dogs but only in large quantaties. the bad chocolate for dogs is actually bakers choc. and thats why dark chocolate is worse. the more bakers in it the worse it is. hope this is helpful

Just distance yourself from her. I went through almost the same thing with my ex. I wanted to stay friends only because I hoped for more. I hurt myself in the end. You need to step away from her so you can be ready for the next person to walk into your life. If you don't then you might lose the person you are supposed to be with.