does that make any difference? as your info on the database is kept? come on, people. Be fair. im not that stupid. if i delete from the profile, its only going from the profile, not from the database, like Facebook, this site makes copies of the info. now come on, Deletion of an account, should mean, that, all info from a profile, and copied from the site, should all go. not kept. incase I want to come back.

you say its like deleting, BUT its not. I want to perminantly delete. that means delete all info, no info kept on your database. thats deleting. Look if I wanted to come back as you keep on saying, wouldnt it be easier just to rejoin? But I dont when I delete an account, I want to know that all info has gone. not account inactive. thats not delete, come on, be fair.

Funny how you gone quiet. Be honest. do you think that this is fair?

Again in otherwords certain ammount of my info is kept? I if i delete, i dont want it back. I want to know if i delete something, I dont want to go back to it. So this does not answer my question. I feel thats unsafe. like facebook. its wrong, if someome want to delete account, then all info should be deleted with it. no info should be kept. if i did decide to come back, I would have to re register, then I would put the info back in. to me, this is unfair, it should say perminantly delete account, not deactivate

In other words, you still keep info of the account? Please dont think im stirring trouble about this. but if people want to delete account, that means they dont want to come back to the site in the future. So why do sites like this and facebook. has the need to keep info, when they were asked for deletion of the acount? you think thats fair. I am not happy the way you have moved the thread, as people do have the right to know, and trust a site. by removing the thread, it has im sure now put doubt and untrust of this site. you could of still ansered with honesty. and least then the members dont feel the need to distrust this site. Again im not to cause trouble. but When I want to delete something, I want to know that all info is deleted perminantly, and no ino is kept, incase i decide to come back. Sorry that does not help. and I will look into this matter more. and Im sorry that your answer did not answer me at all.

I want to ask you a question. its regarding termination of an accout. On facebook deactivation of account does not actually mean deleting everything regarding the info of the account. As they only remove the profile. all photo's and info is kept by facebook. and that to me is not safe. and not honest. I have noticed the same feature of deactivation of your account on this site, my question is, if I wanted to perminantly delete my account from this site thats deleting everything, all data, everything that is to do with me or about, does deactivation mean the same thing as facebook?.

Or does it mean, that when you actually deactivate your account, they perminantly delete all info so that no info is left on the database about me on this site? Please answer with honesty, thank you.

YEh It msut be that, So how do I know if that, wrong person is not right for me? and as to asnwer you i have sent many nudges, and guess what? out of all of those i sent. You were the first to send back, however through a thread of course. but the fact is you sent a nudge. Look this dont not bother me one bit, if i get any or not, I dont care if I dont get any messages or any persons looking at my profile. if thats the thing they like to do or not like to do, its there choice as you said. I agree. But My question was, what the point, in that question, it was questioning the ignorant, to see how many people who defend why the ignorance. and judging by SOME of the reaction. its sounds like many people who ignore are those who actually ignore. oh well. im going to carry on searhing. I wish you all the best.

Thank you for your nudge, but I'm not into having ndges of strangers hahahaha, joking. But If people dont like it. then dont you think we should have a word with the site holder, to get rid of these elements as people are not happy to recieve them??

I guess we are all different. and how we accept certain things about relationships. I understand that so many people wont accept a sent kiss, or a hug and a nudge, However they are virtually sent, not for real. its a starting point, and it must be some effect otherwise they would not have it on these sites, I know a person, who like you wont accept kisses or hugs from a stranger, in which I understand her views. but she was at an event, were the radio presenter came up to her and gave her a kiss on the cheek. she then could of said something, but she didnt, because she actually enjoyed it. now you either like something or dont like something. Again, this is a shame i guess, as lil suggestions like so, is a no go. its only a sent kiss, or a hug, not a real one. maybe everyone on here should have a discussion as to get rid of these apps that sends these lil suggestions. maybe i Dont know?

Again, how do you know for sure it is a loon as you call it? the only kind of security as you have to know who has sent, is there profile, and there pics in there profile if they have any. I know profiles can be fake, and they can give false identity as the whome it is. but still you dont know untill you response, when you get more responses, and yes I would assume you are talking to a loon, or a fake person. then you would then have the notion to ignore. but my question is to those who do ignore. What is the point? its not gettin at me in anyway. but the question came to head. out of curiousity. but can you see what Im trying to get at?

I totally agree. but the question is? how do you know for sure it is a loon as you call them? you know, you dont have to smell a bad egg to know its bad right? you can see cant you? but there are many innocent ppl who nugdes, and send a kiss, or a hug or what ever the prop that you can send to start a convasation.

I understand you. But sometimes a lil sent kiss or a hug, is a lil start in the process of any friendship. But I guess thing like that, is not for everyone. And as to hanging in there? Im not ready to give up. My question what the point goes out to those who do ignore. not from me personally. but thanx for your response.

It seems what ever the dating site you join, I noticed the stream of ignorant people. You send a nice message to a person. or even a wink or kiss or a hug. You dont even get a response. I understand that there are some people who are here on these sites just to mess around with peoples hearts. and I understand that there are many people who send nsty messages, in which you would ignore and not answer. in those case I would expect ignorance. But most people ask in there profiles, asking for a nice, decent and heartful guy to write. And many people just ignore them too. IF they going to ignore everyone, why the hell are they are here? or on other dating sites.