No worries Notlooking. And I would NEVER EVER say that!.........
..(out load).

However, I went slightly off topic in my initial comment. You talked about your experience being weird? How so? Are you suggesting some kind of psychic episode?
And let me ask you and others who may be interested; this. :...when in the pilot seat of your vehicle, how often have you found yourself on the other side of a major busy intersection, and simply can't recall passing through it?

Yes, and there are many different moments in time like this, that we experience. I have seen a documentary on this phenomenon. Maybe Google to locate?
If I remember accurately, it was about Brain to Eye coordination or more specifically, Syncrocity. In brief, it claims that the Brain reacts to the signal it receives from the Eyes first, instantly. It reacts immediately, for you,and before you are even aware of it.

That's the science of it. Please don't kill the messenger.

Notlooking, think we didn't sync on my previous comment?
'You' actually avoided a potentially serious incident.
My view is that you were 'DRIVING'.

Hey there notlooking. Can't recall when I heard this; just my 2cents worth.

" if you are one who loves 'too' hard, it might be better to stay single"

I have some. 'Most' of my immediate family and a plethora of friends have them also, including gazillions of people throughout history; and I refuse to look down upon those who choose not to have them!
Remembering those famous words from Humphrey Bogart, " frankly ma dear; I don't give a damn".

And this, ladies and gentlemen, speaks volumes on the real definition and difference between 'operating a motor vehicle' and 'DRIVING'.

Most are clearly debunking the 'love' aspect of this post, but not overwhelmingly, so agree with you, in part, in that respect.
Believe me, 'guys' can lust after a single glance at a profile Pic. Chatting with that person in the picture, may heighten and release other emotions, but the lust remains.

If it's 'never love or lust', what is it?

Well said.
Unfortunately some just need to poke.

Messaging has been slow. Snail pace or not working at all. Especially from evening to early hours Melbourne Australia times.
I've sent a general enquiry email to the contact us mail facility.

Just gotta love the young'ns.

Actually, it's 'lust' at first chat.

Three obvious feelings / reactions come to mind depending on the circumstances of the breakup :
1. The breakup-er = liberated
2. The breakup-ee = squeels like a stuck pick until people get sick of listening
3. The ones who don't give a fat rat's clacker!

It seems like there should be an obvious answer, but thinking about it, there are probably many ways to go.
My immediate thought was, 'when you both feel comfortable and you want to'.
But, you also would have to seriously consider the potential negative consequences, should the relationship go belly up!

On the beach, inside one of those little pop-out sun shelter thingies.

I thought I found myself in the Jokes section.
Waiting for the punchline.
Seriously? 30 years?
What were you thinking even after 30 days?
I'm for you.

I like Pizza also!

I second that. 'Nuff said!
Plus I raise you a

Those famous words from the great John McEnroe just hit me like a sledgehammer. :

"SSHHUURRLY,,, YOU CAN NOT BE SEEERIOUS!?"

I guess it depends on how recently they had sex before your Wedding day?

Would probably work better than 'swapping recipes'!

I agree. Are you going on a date or Masterchef ?

You're on a sabbatical.