Likely, she lives near them.
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I admit that a shirtless pic is OK for me so I can see whether they have body hair. If they do *eww* and I know I am not interested! I feel the same way about women... I see your point! A hairy chested woman would be no bueno! Unless you live in yeti-ville, and are a yeti... |
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It might work. It might not. However, very often friends don't see what you want in someone, they just see a common link. So, while the odds are better than saying hi to a stranger, they still aren't great. This is true, my friends thought my taste in men was horrible, and vice versa. No way in hell would I trust them to find me a guy I'd actually like. I thought you could just send them to get a cabana boy. Or was that just you being silly? (Not you, not ever... come on!) Eh, they'd do it wrong. I had a friend once who described the kind of guy I "should have" and I damned near threw up. She was basically describing someone just like her bf, and ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww he was gross. Maybe then you should have told her that 'Friends don't let friends date gross... speaking of which...' |
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It might work. It might not. However, very often friends don't see what you want in someone, they just see a common link. So, while the odds are better than saying hi to a stranger, they still aren't great. This is true, my friends thought my taste in men was horrible, and vice versa. No way in hell would I trust them to find me a guy I'd actually like. I thought you could just send them to get a cabana boy. Or was that just you being silly? (Not you, not ever... come on!) |
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let me tell this story....because I'm livid right now about it. My niece is almost 20. She was a straight A student in high school and doing very well in college. She doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, sleep around. She goes to church every Sunday and helps with the youth group. She is always there to help someone in need. She dresses a bit different, but still not sleazy. She takes after my sister who had her own style when she was young. My mother and her husband having been putting her down and calling her a slut and telling her that guys look at her in certain ways and it's her fault. She has big boobs (nature gave her that) but doesn't dress sleazy, just different. Does my niece deserve to be treated this way just because others can't control themselves or want to assume and judge? Hello idiocy. They could have been nice and just made her eat her veggies!! If your mom and her husband think she's a slut because guys look at her I suggest having them go watch a few guys out in public. I'm sure they would realise that a majority (not all, some of us can at least be discreet if we admire a woman's figure) are openly staring at any fairly cute girl they meet. What, did you lock these 2 people in a closet for the last 25 years?? |
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It might work. It might not. However, very often friends don't see what you want in someone, they just see a common link. So, while the odds are better than saying hi to a stranger, they still aren't great.
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and geesh people.. some people like to go out once in a while.. and dont go to bars every weekend... just because i go to a bar 3 times a yr does not make me a barfly... because i went to listen to my friends band makes me a barfly? i think sometimes you could meet someone at a bar.. your are all sterio typing every patron that you happen to see in a bar.. quite interesting.. not that i can play pool very good but i like sometimes to go try.. should i drive 30 miles to a billiard place and pay 4 times as much to play a game of pool or go to the bar down the street? lol.. Actually, I'm just saying the odds of finding a nice, gentlemanly sort in a bar is like going to vegas and betting you don't see a casino. It's possible, but not that likely! |
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if you were all that hot, you wouldnt be lonely. IMO. Heh, maybe she just has standards? You know, like morals. AKA she wants someone special for a meaningful relationship rather than just someone to warm her bed. IMO, you are judging a book by your own cover. Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Girls. This here is why I hang around on these forums. You're allowed to just be out for sex, but the majority of people on here who're looking are looking for something with a bit of meaning, and their genuine about it. And as for you, AloneWOu, Stick it out - non-jerks are out there and we're getting more and more pissed off at the coarse and shallow idiots every day. You'll find your man *High Fives at mike* Cheers to ya mate! Er, at least, if we were in Australia... Always glad to see guys who think similarly! |
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Personally, yes, I read the profile. Assuming, that is, I get past the first indicators of no (age, smoking/drugs, and GENDER [I don't need to check a guy's profile, ya know!] )
However, I think that contacting a woman without reading her profile is just dumb IMO. Even if a guy really didn't care much beyond looks, the profile is your key to talking points with a girl! If you know something to chat about, it's so much easier! However, for me, I read it because I want to find someone I like... rather than someone who has fruit I like! |
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Topic:
Y do guys like small chicks?
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Hey, lonestar, it's no like you were very offensive or anything! I mean, the worst you did was call yourself a green tinted headless type in the butcher's block department. I'd think most of us could deal with that level of post without flipping out.
Goodness me but I almost wrote 'I'd think most of us could handle that'! Seriously, that took a bit of wordplay! |
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Edited by
Robm248
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Sat 02/20/10 11:11 AM
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To quote:
'I used to think like you. You have to learn that men DO NOT think like women. "WE're going over to _______, You guys want to tag along?" YOU: 'I'm giving these guys a ride, more fun to laugh and goof around' HIM: 'She likes me, I'm getting LAID TONIGHT'. I couldn't understand it either. The rift is closing, but when people drink....all the work crashes. No offense people, just my experience.' That describes about 95% of the guys in our culture, I'd say. However, some of us don't think riding in a car somewhere with someone means we should be getting it on that night. Yes, I know that's rare. Now, this is without alcohol. Add alcohol and 99% of guys seem to think the way the post described. Good gracious, OP actually expected a decent sort of guy to be found at a bar?? How much exactly had you imbibed at this point? Good on you for throwing him out once you got to thinking though. |
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Topic:
Y do guys like small chicks?
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Hi, and good luck to you!
Height doesn't matter to me... but I'd say no on the smoking part. Just not for me! However, I'm sure you can find a lot of great guys around here!! Wishing you all the best! |
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Why can't I find a nice guy?
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Heh, just keep trying! Finding a nice guy is very feasible. Don't be afraid to look around and say hi to us! After all, sometimes the nicest guys are a bit shy.
Don't be put off my the guys who are after other things. You can tell when you meet the nice ones, and you will know if it's right as long as you really get to know the person! Remember, our society generates hundreds of those self centered guys who only want something from someone else for every nice guy. It's the popular culture. So it will take patience! Here's wishing you the very best of luck! |
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Well, the egg came first. Unless you deny that something with eggs in it came before chickens. Please, none of you believe that a giant space chicken laid an egg and that was the creation of our universe... right?
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hello
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Welcome!
Feel free to join us on here having fun. |
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Topic:
LOKKING FOR NERD WOMEN
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am I a nerd??? 31768 postings as of this... you are one very social nerd! If anyone disagrees with me that you can call yourself nerd... tell em I invited you in! If that doesn't stop them, then you hit them on the elbow with a pocket protector until they relent! so what does that say about people with more posts than me? I'm just trying to catch up to IndnPrncs That's impossible. She's the... well... princess of all nerds on here! |
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Topic:
I love you
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Nice response! |
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one of the greatest Presidents we ever had, Abraham Lincoln, was so hated by his opponents they finally shot him and when they heard he was dead millions of Americans rejoiced so no I dont think so he was te reason over 50,000 of our people were killed why would anyone one think he was great . he was a bag of $hi.t .. he could of freed the blacks without that . Yes, and if we ask nicely the terrorists won't blow any more of us up. I think you are a little bit overly idealistic here... people will exploit, con, and kill each other for the stupidest of reasons. No person can change that (sans genocide). In fact, he tried to free them without a war. The war, in fact, wasn't even about the slaves. It was about part of the U.S. trying to be a seperate nation. Just my opinion and a bit of a history lesson for a bonus! |
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Topic:
I love you
Edited by
Robm248
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I get the "meaning" that needs to be behind it. But even if said sincerely....why would the word too be insincere? The word can't be insincere. Tones of voice and actions are what shows insincerity (and sincerity for that matter). I'm saying that the word causing this is a complete myth. I feel sorry for too. Someone is lying about the poor little three lettered critter! |
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Topic:
LOKKING FOR NERD WOMEN
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am I a nerd??? 31768 postings as of this... you are one very social nerd! If anyone disagrees with me that you can call yourself nerd... tell em I invited you in! If that doesn't stop them, then you hit them on the elbow with a pocket protector until they relent! |
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