Unsure,

Soul mates exsit...but it doesn't necessarily mean we were meant to
spend our lives with them. It is what word emplies...A mate of the
soul. No doubt you had an unbelievable connection with this man...I'm
sure at times you thought you might actually "feel" him and what he was
thinking.

Without doubt, probably one of the most profound and moving exeriences
of your life - one that you will never forget and that has changed you
deeply forever.

Continuity is the essense of our being - we are all connected one way or
another in this life and the next. Just that we may be connected more
strongly to some. These are lessons for the soul. Karma to be worked
out for you both.

In short, my belief is that soul mates are very real, but most times not
in the sense that we think they should be.

thanks God someone else who has beared witness to this fruitcake!!

I pray the man doesn't own any guns or work for the post office!!

J

Hey Wiz,

Maybe he should start his own website...>>??<<

(sorry...couldn't resist)

J

Woot!

thanks for the advice...I do appreciate it, I have discovered that there
are in fact some friendly people here.

hey, by the way...what was your website addy again!!???

J

(jk)

this man was more than rude...he sounded ill. I would never say
something about someone to that degree if I didn't think it was true.
It was the most hateful email I have seen. And that my friends is not
something you should turn a deaf ear to. Staff need to be aware of
those types of individuals and that should not be taken in any way shape
or form lightly.

I wanted to report that mail...but where? I'm very computer
literate...there is nowhere on the site that I have found that gives you
an option to contact staff.

I won't go on and on, but there are some obvious "bugs" that need to be
worked out. Obviously....


I'm aware of them. That's why it's important to look these sites over
before you join.

J

I do have to say I got laugh or two out of this thread...

Thanks!

J

Incidently, where do you go to delete a profile? I have noticed many
questions in regards to that in the feedback forum. I don't see an
option for that either, or a way of doing that unless you just clear all
the fields...Where is the "help" page that tells you about those types
of things? There should be a "page" set aside specifally for that and
not a public forum where you have to ask and receive answers from other
members. I find that odd. Pretty important info for a newly joined
member to know don't you think?

J

In my opinion, memebers like that should be permanently banned from the
website - that sort of behavior should never be tolerated on a dating
website as it does tend discourage people like myslef who might be
sitting on the fence with regards to joining an online dating website.
It's very intimidating. Fortunately, I'm a strong willed woman and
don't intimidate easily.


As for the website itself - it could some improvements. I don't seem to
be able to edit a search for singles in my area. I have also had issues
deleting mail and have had far too many questions about membership
issues that don't seem to be directly addressed anywhere. One of the
reasons I didn't join in the beginning. Where is a contact addy for
issues relating to this site? If there is a serious problem, I see no
contact info...
>>?<<

J

that is not to say there aren't good people out there and just so you
know that I'm not a "poser" nor am I ignorant...you have a photo to put
with my post...just cautious...

J

THIS IS BY FAR THE WORST DATING WEBSITE FORUM I HAVE EVER SEEN. NOT
EVERYONE JUMPS ON THE "ONLINE DATING BAND WAGON" AS THEY MAY HAVE SOME
SERIOUS RESERVE IN REGARDS TO ONLINE DATING, AS DO I. I CHOSE TO LOOK
AROUND ON THIS SITE AND DISCERN IF IT WAS ONE WORTHY OF POSTING A
PROFILE AND FOUND THAT IT WAS NOT. NAVIATION OF THIS SITE IS RIDICULOUS
AND WITHOUT SO MUCH AS INTITIATING CONTACT WITH ANYONE I WAS GIVEN A SO
CALLED 'VERBAL SPANKING' BY A MAN WHOM DOESN'T KNOW THE FIRST THING
ABOUT ME. HIS COMMENTS PUT HIM IN A LIGHT OF BEING SOMEONE WHO IS
POSSIBLY VERY DISTURBED - REINFORCING MY RELUCTANCE TO DATE ONLINE.

HIS SCREEN NAME IS IRELANDBORNPOET


Good Luck to folks...and be careful, there are weirdos out there....