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Thu 07/27/17 03:02 PM

Hello i am lillian looking for serious relationship with a man who is willing and ready to settle down for the rest of his life



hello cutie

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Thu 07/27/17 05:45 AM

Can someone tell me that there are still serious guys over there?



there are many of them out there but it depends on where you locate them

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Thu 07/27/17 05:39 AM

I would do older up to a point..
as long as all parts are in working order


l prefer older ladies than the present younger generation of ladies. l go for the oldies cos of their experience in handling marital issues and their zeal to keep the relationship working

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Thu 07/27/17 05:20 AM

What makes a woman beautiful?
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Attitude/character

trustworthy/humble nature

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Thu 07/27/17 05:13 AM

I would say the top reasons for failed relationships are:-

Incompatability
Lack of commitment/effort/discipline
Poor communication and conflict resolution skills
Unrealistic expectations
Taking each other for granted



l agree with your reasons but you can also add these

Lack of trust

Ego

poor sexual life and intimacy


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Thu 07/27/17 04:59 AM



soufie can you elaborate this pls? thanks i hope you're well waving

The person who loves the most is most likely to try harder
and give way.

The one who loves less can afford to be more demanding.
Hence, greater control.

Good here :-)

i see... thanks dear:angel:


A relationship is expected to be strong and lasting where there is mutual understanding by both parties. For a person to have control in a relationship over the his/her partner makes that person a dictator or a tyrant.

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Wed 07/26/17 08:04 PM
hey friends, l am new here. wish to chat with and have some good lady friends with good sense of humour.

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Wed 07/26/17 07:55 PM
No one should be in control over the other. cos we are not animals we need not be controlled. what is really needed in relationship to last and moving is trust and understanding, when one is in total control of the relationship, it is heading for the rocks because the person in control will likely assume the position of a dictator