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Sun 05/23/10 01:45 PM

If you trip the guy in front of you, you might have a chance.smokin


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There are to many people in this world to worry about 4 or 5 people not wanting to be with you!

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Sun 05/23/10 01:36 PM
okay....sorry

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Sun 05/23/10 01:32 PM
parting of dating is trusting someone and sometimes getting hurt. They probably never lied to you. Feeling change. Esp when your young- you dont even know who you are and what you want

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Sun 05/23/10 01:17 PM
Maybe you should talk to the people you date and find out if they are over their ex before you invest time in a relationship. If you know they recently broke it off or got dumped by someone maybe you should back off. It may save you from having these kinds of issues

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Sun 05/23/10 01:10 PM
i worked with a lady who found out her husband had cancer a month before their wedding. She, of course, went thru with marrying him. He died not even 6 months later. I got the pleasure of taking care of him his last visit in the hospital before he died. He was a wonderful man and I could see the love and dedication she had for him. I was busy that day but did everything I could to stay and talk to them- help them make the visit and trip home easier. We knew he was going home to die. Anyway....even in this hard situation they faced- he was positive and she jumped threw hoops to take care of his last needs. I think everyone deserves that kind of love in their life. Even if it is short lived. I believe it is better to love and be loved then to need know it at all

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Sun 05/23/10 08:59 AM
I go to my final walk thru tomorrow. I am nervous!!!! In a few weeks I will hopefully not be on the verge of a heart attack anymore LOL

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Sun 05/23/10 08:57 AM

Why would we want to raise our children the exact same we were raised? I'm not understanding that. They are not us, they are their own selves, and the world is different than when we were kids. Just because they are children doesn't mean they don't have the right to be who they are. We all deserve the freedom to be who we are..including children, especially children. Why do we make the terrible mistake of attempting to make our children our clones....

" Make not your children to be like you...seek to be more like them, for life moves not backwards nor tarries for yesterday."

We can learn sooo much from children if we just stop thinking we are superior to them.


Who said they are superior to their kids????? My topic is about how to change inappropriate behavior. I have gotten my answer. I am not trying to change her as a person/ her personality or anything like that. I just want her to know right from wrong. I want her to understand that all I ask is what society expects from a decent human being. If she wants friends she needs to do what she expects other to do. Also respecting elders is not saying we are superior. There is something to be said about life experience....

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Fri 05/21/10 06:19 PM
flowerforyou

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Fri 05/21/10 01:08 PM
I would trust yaflowerforyou

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Fri 05/21/10 12:29 PM



You're not alone. A lot of kdis seem out of control at diferent times in their lifes. One of the first things that might help is gettign the baby sitters on the same page. If your child knows that any rules etc you use will go out the door once they go to grandma and grandpas they won't care. A lot of grandparents have a hard time enforcing discipline, but maybe having a sit down talk with them where youe xplain your rules and discipline might help.


I have tried to talk to my parents. Didnt go well. Its a long story that most people dont believe but they like to make things difficult for me. My step dad thinks I should "pay" for my mistakes. Really they are only hurting my child. I am trying very hard to change my work and life schedule to have more consistency for my daughter




Dont take it too personal. Even with the love and support of my family, as a single mom again, I am having to do the same to provide the consistency my kids need as well.


I am positive about it. I know its only up from here with that situation. I just am slightly offended at those who have posted thinking its simple to just switch work shifts around. Its hard to find work right now! I am lucky to have a job! And It is extremely important for her to be in a good school district- which isnt cheap!!! I really am doing a lot of good also. I even went to the school and found out what was REALLY going on. She DOES NOT have ADD/ADHD. She is a great kid. I plan to sacrifice a lot to get things right for her by the start of 1st grade

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Fri 05/21/10 12:22 PM
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Fri 05/21/10 12:12 PM

You're not alone. A lot of kdis seem out of control at diferent times in their lifes. One of the first things that might help is gettign the baby sitters on the same page. If your child knows that any rules etc you use will go out the door once they go to grandma and grandpas they won't care. A lot of grandparents have a hard time enforcing discipline, but maybe having a sit down talk with them where youe xplain your rules and discipline might help.


I have tried to talk to my parents. Didnt go well. Its a long story that most people dont believe but they like to make things difficult for me. My step dad thinks I should "pay" for my mistakes. Really they are only hurting my child. I am trying very hard to change my work and life schedule to have more consistency for my daughter

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Fri 05/21/10 09:33 AM
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Fri 05/21/10 06:55 AM
No one can beat your 'pervness'
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Fri 05/21/10 06:50 AM

U will do fine sweety!!! Just make that house your home!!!flowerforyou :banana:


Mikey, sweet as alwayssmooched :heart:

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Fri 05/21/10 06:48 AM


There are plenty of motivated, hard-working, career-driven guys out there... just not on a dating website. Most of the people on this site of both genders are just people who can't attract a partner in real life. I suggest not trying to meet someone for a relationship on here, and instead try getting to know real guys in real life.


Well, I am not sure how to take this one. I can agree that there are plenty of motivated people out there. But singling people out and saying that they cant attract people in real life is really biased. So I cant say that I agree with that. In a lot of cases its easier for poeple to talk online before deciding that they want to meet someone, and it might take away the awkwardness in person. If you find out online that its not someone you want to be with, then you cant really waste your time. Also there are a lot of pepople out there, like myself, who just dont have the time to go out and meet people. There are plenty of attractive people on this site, they all have their reasons.


AGREED!!! Just be patient ALYSE. I found a lot of great people on here. I also met my future husband here also. You may have to be flexible with the distance thing but you will find someone!! Best wishes!!flowerforyou

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Fri 05/21/10 06:40 AM
Cuteflowerforyou

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Fri 05/21/10 06:35 AM
laugh More pics would help too.....not that I can talk

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Fri 05/21/10 06:33 AM

I find myself doing things and behaving differently with my girlfriend.........and I have wondered if I had done things differently BEFORE I might not have wound up divorced....And she does things for me that I don't remember my ex ever doing.....she might have but I don't remember...........maybe thats part of it..paying more attention to the relationship.


I agree with this....learn from the past! flowerforyou

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Fri 05/21/10 06:28 AM


Congrats!!:banana: flowers
Good feeling to bye a house. also scary. Best of luck. I'm so happy for you.Dreams do come true.flowers flowers flowers flowers


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