What are some of the key character traits you look for an apartment. Some examples that I think I would like our honesty, outgoing, faithful, and good communication

I was going to have Head Cheese Haggis with Tripe and Mung Beans with a Side Order of Frogs Legs, Snails and Blood Sausage but after much deliberation I had Toast instead.

I have never done anything to..search for a man.
They are like buses, another will be along in a minute.
That is just my nature.

I do think when one removes that focus, things seem to
fall into line.
Maybe because, when inactive, the pressure is off.

Maybe you have even told yourself to back off a bit.
Then, it takes a REALLY special individual to snap
you out of it. And you want to maybe.

So I have no advice on how to notch it up.
And it does sound like you have a dearth of men where you are.

I think you are going to have to widen that circle :-)

I really liked the setting.
Oh, and did you recognize the bartender?

I've yet to experience in my life a lady walking up to me, pushing me over on my back, stripping her clothes off and saying "just stay still im going to give you sex now!" now I probably wouldn't say no..
but in order to place the blame on women that is what would have to happen.

Instead it is more like men are pouty and begging for it, so some women give in, but now you feel guilty because it goes against your personal moral code and apparently it is now their fault for 'giving us sex' you sir are delusional.

For ME there is nothing wrong with two consenting adults engaging in the horizontal mambo,

but if it an issue for YOU then maybe stop blaming the women for 'tempting' you and controlling how they act/behave and start blaming the only one you should be blaming YOURSELF and start controlling the only thing that you can control your OWN actions

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