would you ever get back with someone after taking a break to figure things out (ex. how you really felt about them, the possibility of a future together etc.)?

Do you think that taking a break in a relationship will more likely strengthen it or end it?

i think a lot of people get divorced without really trying to work on the issues that may be the factors in it.....as well as rushing into a marriage they havent thought through yet....

deb...it may seem like you cant take anymore....but you are still here aren't ya? i think it is true that god wont give us more than we can handle....it's in the tough times that you find out who you are, who you want to be, and who your true friends are. i know it may seem like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, but sometimes we have to feel our way around in the darkness of a cave-like world before we find the hidden exit to the light on the other side! hang in there girl...things will come around for ya!

thats kinda my thought too....i dunno though.....we are perfectly comfortable talking about anything under the sun.....from little things like sports to big things like getting married and having kids!

i know theres not a time frame on it...and it is different for everyone....its just a lil scary wondering if its too soon ya know?

the l-bomb that is.... how long are with someone before you typically feel comfortable and want to say the l-word?

I like my hair both ways....i think i look younger with longer hair, and bit older with shorter hair....short hair takes a bit more sass imo to pull off......so lets rock it ladies!!

court filer for a company that acts as sort of a mediator in house closings....

thanks everyone! its been along time coming and it finally came through!

i just got a new job!

I just got home from the perfect date! Dinner at a nice lil italian place, a walk in the park, and movies curled up on the couch. We compliment each other so well its crazy!

i like to think i am....because if i dont believe in me, how can i expect someone else to?

way to be the sunshine through the clouds there....

too bad its closed right now

Carolyn Dawn Johnson knows exactly how i feel!

Oh..just when I think I'm under control.
I think I finally got a grip.
Another friend tells me that,
My name is always on your lips.
They say I'm more than just a friend,
they say I must be blind.
Well, I admit that I've seen you watch me
from the corner of your eye.
Oh, It's so confusing. I wish you'd just confess.
But think of what I'd be losing,
if your answer wasn't yes.

So complicated I'm so frustrated,
I wanna hold you close, I wanna push you away,
I wanna make you go, I wanna make you stay.
Should I say it, should I tell you how I feel.
Oh I want you to know, but then again I don't, It's so complicated.
Oh, I hate it. 'Cuz I've waited.
So long for someone like you
Oh, what do I do.
Oh should I say it.
Should I tell you how I feel.
I want you to know,but then again I don't.
It's so complicated..
It's so complicated..
It's so complicated.
Ohh..

i know more than i let on......

the men that would be interested in me at the pool or the beach are not the type of men that would really care about the real me......

if only that happened in real life!

i think im going to continue to do nothing.....not call him, not text, nothing.....and hopefully he'll come around