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Topic: dropping the bomb...
beebee620 Joined Thu 07/05/07 Posts: 2066	Thu 06/26/08 02:05 PM
the l-bomb that is.... how long are with someone before you typically feel comfortable and want to say the l-word?

Grizzly52 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 558	Thu 06/26/08 02:06 PM
the l-bomb that is.... how long are with someone before you typically feel comfortable and want to say the l-word? that depends how long it takes to fall in l

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Thu 06/26/08 02:06 PM
I didn't think there was a time frame on it?

beebee620 Joined Thu 07/05/07 Posts: 2066	Thu 06/26/08 02:07 PM
i know theres not a time frame on it...and it is different for everyone....its just a lil scary wondering if its too soon ya know?

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Thu 06/26/08 02:07 PM
you can say it all you want its how you show them that counts

mohave1968 Joined Tue 12/04/07 Posts: 18	Thu 06/26/08 02:07 PM
Depends on who it is, some instantaneously, others...never.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 06/26/08 02:08 PM
my ex hubby told me the L word the first week we were together and ask me to marry him then.. waited for 2yrs before we got married and we wernt even together for our first annervasry for i had enough of his crap

MsCarmen Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 6282	Thu 06/26/08 02:08 PM
Yeah, I can understand that. But I think if you are worried that it might be too soon, then maybe it is. JMO

Frisco73 Joined Wed 06/18/08 Posts: 699	Thu 06/26/08 02:10 PM
Easy answer, until the wedding night. That it's, they don't need to here it more than that.

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Thu 06/26/08 02:10 PM
That all depends on which l-word you mean. If it's Liver, or Libations, or Library, right away is okay. If it's Leave things there, and come to bed, at least a couple weeks. If by l-word you mean LOVE.. I think that there's no timeframe. Could be a month, or a year.. Who knows.

beebee620 Joined Thu 07/05/07 Posts: 2066	Thu 06/26/08 02:11 PM
Yeah, I can understand that. But I think if you are worried that it might be too soon, then maybe it is. JMO thats kinda my thought too....i dunno though.....we are perfectly comfortable talking about anything under the sun.....from little things like sports to big things like getting married and having kids!

TristanBru Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 494	Thu 06/26/08 02:11 PM Edited by TristanBru on Thu 06/26/08 02:12 PM
Love is over rated. lol just kidding

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Thu 06/26/08 02:12 PM
i heard third time is a charm,,,,,,darn i hope there rite,,,,now to find miss #3

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Thu 06/26/08 02:14 PM
I say what I feel. But then again it can take me a while to really understand what I feel, cause I have to analyze the death out of everything.

taboo365 Joined Thu 08/23/07 Posts: 2999	Thu 06/26/08 02:14 PM
i usally know within the first five minutes, but that's me

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Thu 06/26/08 02:14 PM
When your completely ok if its not said back. Otherwise you should say 'we love eachother'

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Thu 06/26/08 02:14 PM
i heard third time is a charm,,,,,,darn i hope there rite,,,,now to find miss #3 I hope your right boney!

Grizzly52 Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 558	Thu 06/26/08 02:16 PM
i know theres not a time frame on it...and it is different for everyone....its just a lil scary wondering if its too soon ya know? when its time you will know

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Thu 06/26/08 02:26 PM Edited by rainysky39 on Thu 06/26/08 02:26 PM
When are one of you guys gonna tell me you love me?

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Thu 06/26/08 02:28 PM
When your completely ok if its not said back. Otherwise you should say 'we love eachother' To give freely, without expectance of reciprocation. To be that at ease and, sure of your feeling's. Hopefully, with the way your word's spill from your mouth with meaning and intent, he'll return you I Love You's.