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Do you think that taking a break in a relationship will more likely strengthen it or end it?
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End It
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That would be the end of it for me, in a relationship you are supposed to work through the tough times. Today things seem different
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Do you think that taking a break in a relationship will more likely strengthen it or end it? whomever ,asked first to take a break, is probably seeing someone else or have someone in line! JMO |
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would you ever get back with someone after taking a break to figure things out (ex. how you really felt about them, the possibility of a future together etc.)?
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End it.. =/
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That would be the end of it for me, in a relationship you are supposed to work through the tough times. Today things seem different |
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End. There's no such thing as "taking a break". If someone feels like they need to get away, then the relationship isn't working. (well barring any other kind of extenuating circumstances)
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I don't see how it could strengthen it. I can understand people wanting to be apart for a few days just to be alone with their thoughts but to out right say you are taking a break from your relationship is asking for trouble.
What will taking a break mean? Can you see others? Can you sleep with others? Can you join a dating site and chat with others? Are you suppose to call each other now and then? Does the break have an official end time? So on and so on. If people need a break then they should call it what it is, a break up. You are breaking up and now both are free to do as they please. If they miss each other and get back together at least they won't need to worry about one of them having broken some "break" rules. |
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end it
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I don't see how it could strengthen it. I can understand people wanting to be apart for a few days just to be alone with their thoughts but to out right say you are taking a break from your relationship is asking for trouble. What will taking a break mean? Can you see others? Can you sleep with others? Can you join a dating site and chat with others? Are you suppose to call each other now and then? Does the break have an official end time? So on and so on. If people need a break then they should call it what it is, a break up. You are breaking up and now both are free to do as they please. If they miss each other and get back together at least they won't need to worry about one of them having broken some "break" rules. cute and smart! |
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good point....
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good point.... Are you referring to what I said? If so Are you instead referring to what the post above you said? still I'll take either. |
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Edited by
beebee620
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Tue 01/13/09 04:20 PM
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good point.... Are you referring to what I said? If so Are you instead referring to what the post above you said? still I'll take either. referring to what you said about the rules and such..... im very .....i dont want to say confused.....more like second guessing myself about a recent "break" and whether or not it was the right decision...... |
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good point.... Are you referring to what I said? If so Are you instead referring to what the post above you said? still I'll take either. referring to what you said about the rules and such..... im very .....i dont want to say confused.....more like second guessing myself about a recent "break" and whether or not it was the right decision...... You'll know soon I suspect. If you lost the man due to the break it was probably for the best. I know that's not what you want to hear though. Relationships begin and end and sometimes the same relationship begins and ends many times but there are no commercials. |
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Do you think that taking a break in a relationship will more likely strengthen it or end it? Taking a break in a relationship will give her enough time to find someone else. |
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good point.... Are you referring to what I said? If so Are you instead referring to what the post above you said? still I'll take either. referring to what you said about the rules and such..... im very .....i dont want to say confused.....more like second guessing myself about a recent "break" and whether or not it was the right decision...... You'll know soon I suspect. If you lost the man due to the break it was probably for the best. I know that's not what you want to hear though. Relationships begin and end and sometimes the same relationship begins and ends many times but there are no commercials. Im not sure ive lost him, but im not sure it would ever be the same as it used to be either. I think we have/had a lot of things in common and shared a lot of the same life goals and such, but im no sure hes "the one". |
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Im not sure ive lost him, but im not sure it would ever be the same as it used to be either. I think we have/had a lot of things in common and shared a lot of the same life goals and such, but im no sure hes "the one". then you need to go out there and find that one you have chemistry with! |
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Im not sure ive lost him, but im not sure it would ever be the same as it used to be either. I think we have/had a lot of things in common and shared a lot of the same life goals and such, but im no sure hes "the one". then you need to go out there and find that one you have chemistry with! and thus...the quest continues.... |
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Im not sure ive lost him, but im not sure it would ever be the same as it used to be either. I think we have/had a lot of things in common and shared a lot of the same life goals and such, but im no sure hes "the one". then you need to go out there and find that one you have chemistry with! and thus...the quest continues.... have fun as much as you can on that quest! |
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