legally still married in eyes of court til that 6 month waiting period is up and you stand before the judge

that does seem very strange the your dad would want to curb you learning another language rather than encourage it!
i would totally encourage my kids to learn as many languages as possible

btw, which is the one french word you know?

howdy

thank you

i just chopped a bunch of it off...
need a woman to take care of it for me when it gets that long!

This is true scammers only take what you are willing to give and if you are foolish to believe everything they say without caution they would definitely take advantage of you. I have encountered a scammer said he was an engineer in London working in an oil company , we have been chatting for more than 2 months , take note they are willing to waste time, he was really nice to talk to, have a good sense and he would really make you think he is such a gentleman. But I already have a gut feeling he's a scammer because we talked in yahoo cam to cam 2x but only for a few seconds. He didn't stay longer talking on cam. Then he asked me about salary , what day do I get it and do I send money to my family , is the bank just near my place. With these questions I already suspected he is a scammer , so I just lead him on I wanted to know how far he would go. One day he said he would go to Cuba he has a project there, and that after that he plans to see me he will fly to where I work blah blah sweet talks that would make me believe he is real. He even called me with the Cuba mobile number I have checked it. After a few days he told me he had a problem with his ATM and couldn't withdraw money, and he had no extra cash, said if I could help him he is in need . Is he ok, im not that stupid to send him money. Right that moment I told him in a nice way that I cannot help him with his financial problem, he was angry and told me he was just trying to test me hahaha funny guy

Another one is from Nigeria, his profile pic is not real but the pic there is the same with whom I talked on cam for just a few seconds also. He said he is a widower with a 9 or 12 yr old son. He was professing his undying love for me even when I told him that I already have someone im interested with he still continued to message me. He was also interested with my salary. But I caught him lying when he chuckled I heard his real voice which sounds younger than the age he told me. That's right we should listen closely and ask intelligent questions. When they think you know what they are up to, they will stop.

Some scammers they communicate through emails only and they have the same profile, widower with a son mostly engineers working in oil company, doctors, or military/airforce officer. Their emails are patterned and if you try to read it carefully you will notice they are convincing that they really need a woman or wife in their lives and sounds like seeking sympathy. They don't show up on cam, if they do only a short second , they are using another video as if to show they are real and its really them in the pic. I have received emails with the same content but some parts are edited. Again right I agree, they do not prey on people with common sense they prey on foolish people. They stop when you ask questions or talk in a manner that makes them feel you know what they are doing.