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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person. You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me! 
Oh, oh...I wanna try! 
BRING IT! 
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. You said, "Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites..." ....EXPECTING TO FIND LOVE. Doesn't mean you won't find love, doesn't mean you CAN'T find love,...it just means, you can't EXPECT TO! I'm very careful about how I say things. I'm not stupid. You said, "You have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites" and more. Okay, I will quote myself. "You have to be pretty desperate to be on these dating sites...expecting to find love." |
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Idiot- A foolish or stupid person.
You have to be pretty stupid to argue with me!
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. You said, "Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites..." ....EXPECTING TO FIND LOVE. Doesn't mean you won't find love, doesn't mean you CAN'T find love,...it just means, you can't EXPECT TO! I'm very careful about how I say things. I'm not stupid. |
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every ones had some kind of a rough life I was stood up at the alter on my wedding day,I held my grandma as she died in the hospital,I have been to 15 funerals,my step brother was killed. I was stabbed 4 times,almost shot. tons more went wrong in my life whats your point?? I don't have a point. Never said I did. Let's not get into specifics, because I have been through a lot for my age. And I don't think I need to prove that by sharing my story. Unless you think it's necessary. |
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it. My family fell apart, My father became a Born Again Christian and not one of the nice ones, one of the weird freaky ones, and on top pf that he was the most manipulative bastards I ever knew. I could tell you abuse stories that would make you probably cry but that was in the past. The toughest thing about wisdom is the cost it comes to us sometimes. I agree about leaving out the psychology because my last GF was a MFT. I really got human nature down pretty good. I did really good in that subject in college. One of my friends has two sisters and both are HARD core tweakers. She is the normal on in her family as well. I got another friend who is in his Fear and Loathing stage and his family is dysfunction incarnate. I am not assuming you are messed up, just off course. I think what has people here so riled up is your presentation of your argument. Trust me. I wish to GOD I still had friends who would go with me to Dockweiler Beach and have a bon fire at night roasting hot dogs in the sand or pick around in the tide pools at Palos Verdes. Everything changes and sometimes the changes work against us. Some of us are likewise in my same boat where our social lives evaporated and now we adapt as best we can. Online is not exactly as exciting as meeting people up front immediately but it is better than going crazy in loneliness. Nothing is sane, normal is not normal, and people are people, good bad, and otherwise. I started out by saying SOME PEOPLE on here. NOT EVERYONE. SO for anyone on this thread to get made at me for stating my opinion, that's their fault. I'm not a mean person, I was just getting my thought out there. For what it's worth, I'm sorry for making you or anyone else mad. I'm a writer. I like writing. And I like good debates. But honestly, I just stated my opinion, not expecting it to really be noticed. I've only posted 180 or so times. And usually when I do, not much is said back. So I didn't expect this time to be any different. |
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well u cant use what u been through. what u been through is nothing compared to what most of the world has been through. How can you say that if you don't even know what I've been through? And I'm not using it...I'm just stating a fact. I'm not messed up. Most people would be if they went through all I have. |
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Thanks for the kind/thoughtful words Andy...but I'm not messed up! I've been through a lot, and I've learned a lot. You want to see messed up, meet my siblings. I'm actually the normal one. Let's not get into psychology here. Because if you only knew what I've been through...and I'm far from being messed up because of it.
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JB, Your profile says that you're looking for a "ditto" kind of relationship. Yeah, that's right. But not off of here. And all I mean by that is I want to find someone I feel the same about. Unfortunately the two guys who like me, I'm just not attracted to...and there's no connection on my part. |
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Moof, I love your cat pic! It's too cute!
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the ones always doing the talking are the ones with the biggest problem therefor no one will ever win. yes there are some who are desperate,I said some.but thats on or off the computer. many on here that are looking for love,are on here because there to busy in life to go and and meet people,being on here is easier./// many are here just for friends. so before u sit here and act like u know what your talking about JB Think first. I always think first. Thank you. And you're the idiot. I'm just being honest! I have not applied anything I've said to anyone specific on here. So if you want to be mad at someone, be mad at the people I am talking about. Because I may be young, but I'm very wise for my age, and I'm not mean. I'm actually the sweetest person you'll never meet. But on here I can speak my mind more. Because in real life people take advantage of my sweetness, and I can't say what's on my mind as easily. |
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Pretty much this is how it goes the ones who say others are desperate,are the desperate ones them selfs,they just dont wanna admit it. the ones always doing the talking are the ones with the biggest problem HAHAHAHAHAHA!  I am SOOOOOOOO not desperate! And I'm actually only on here when I'm babysitting. Because the parents are out late, and the kid goes to bed at 8. And I think it's interesting reading other people's profiles, and the threads. And the people who actually meet online, then get married, GOOD FOR THEM! Not the type of story I would want to tell my future kids though. And the only problem I have is that you people are blind! Some of you have over a thousand posts. That's crazy! Get a life. Besides, I'm young. Young people go through their internet phase.
Guess what? My kid went to bed at 8:00 too.
Yep, it sure is worse to tell your future kids that you met online then it is to tell them that you met at a bar. 
Who says you have to meet anyone at a bar? |
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Pretty much this is how it goes the ones who say others are desperate,are the desperate ones them selfs,they just dont wanna admit it. the ones always doing the talking are the ones with the biggest problem HAHAHAHAHAHA! I am SOOOOOOOO not desperate! And I'm actually only on here when I'm babysitting. Because the parents are out late, and the kid goes to bed at 8. And I think it's interesting reading other people's profiles, and the threads. And the people who actually meet online, then get married, GOOD FOR THEM! Not the type of story I would want to tell my future kids though. And the only problem I have is that you people are blind! Some of you have over a thousand posts. That's crazy! Get a life. Besides, I'm young. Young people go through their internet phase.
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and yet again...you are here? I shoot pool all the time. I have made great friends on here and in the real world. I assure you I'm not desperate. Just like the real world...if it happens, it happens. there are idiots and liars in the real world as with online. the only difference is...in the real world...you see what they look like in person immediately. Not everyone lies about who they are. sort of a sad way to think IMO AGAIN, what I am saying applies to people on here trying to find "love" or a date. Not to the people, like myself, just chatting, and making "online" friends. And I know not everyone lies about who they are on here. But you have to assume they are if you're looking for a potential partner. Because not to assume that would make you nieve. |
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Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites...expecting to find "love". Because honestly, I feel stupid for believing anything I read on this (or any site) is true. Anyone could easily post any picture they want to, and say ANYTHING they want as well. Furthermore, why are we lowering our standards? Girls, if a guy has enough time to mess around with this, or any other site, just think about what else he might be spending his time on. Just my two cents. This whole internet dating thing is a joke! The only guy I'd be interested in on here is a guy who "doesn't belong" on here. As confusing as that sounds, it makes sense! Good luck anyways. Most people on are here are not desperate.
Nobody is lowering their standards. Many of us don't go to bars so this is the next best way to meet people.
Most people on here ARE DESPERATE, and not every guy or girl that hangs out at a bar is a drunk or bad person. Also, there are lots of other places to meet people in the world. |
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Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites...expecting to find "love". Because honestly, I feel stupid for believing anything I read on this (or any site) is true. Anyone could easily post any picture they want to, and say ANYTHING they want as well. Furthermore, why are we lowering our standards? Girls, if a guy has enough time to mess around with this, or any other site, just think about what else he might be spending his time on. Just my two cents. This whole internet dating thing is a joke! The only guy I'd be interested in on here is a guy who "doesn't belong" on here. As confusing as that sounds, it makes sense! Good luck anyways. But yet you are on here? This is a dating site afterall. I am here for friends. That's it! Notice I said, "expecting to find love". AND, people in real life atleast look like what they really do look like IN REAL LIFE. No hiding that. ALSO, online guys can seem real cool, but in person they may be real weird! Which explains why they're on here trying to find a date. |
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Actually, you have to be pretty desperate to be on these online dating sites...expecting to find "love". Because honestly, I feel stupid for believing anything I read on this (or any site) is true. Anyone could easily post any picture they want to, and say ANYTHING they want as well. Furthermore, why are we lowering our standards? Girls, if a guy has enough time to mess around with this, or any other site, just think about what else he might be spending his time on. Just my two cents. This whole internet dating thing is a joke! The only guy I'd be interested in on here is a guy who "doesn't belong" on here. As confusing as that sounds, it makes sense! Good luck anyways.
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I've noticed that most of the really cute guys have either not been on for over 4 months, or they've closed their accounts. Sucks! Lol. I knew I was butt ugly. Dang Now, now...don't be so hard on yourself. And you're a pool player. That's considered awesome in my book. I'm getting pretty good myself! Sort of. Lol. |
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I see. Crush n run is kinda like asphalt. WELL, you're cheap! Lol. And to think, I was going to buy you chocolates! Now I'll take that five and play the lotter (like you suggested) instead.
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Screw this....ladies I got 5 bucks. Lets do this!! 5 is a good number! But 50,000 is my favorite! And I also reside in VA, so you can just bring that right over to me. Cash only please! 
So bring 5$ in cash....and 50,000.....rocks? If by rocks you mean diamonds...then SURE! You're SOOO SWEET!  Lol. I'll use the $5 to buy you a box of chocolates.
Nah...I meant crush n' run. My bad. Huh? Lol. I usually don't get confused. You got me though! That's twice in this forum. Crazy. |
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