sex change, that's seeing so drastic! lol.

haha! people with some experience. so you like that time when undesirable people couldn't reach you? yes I guess we all want to go away from everyone at some moments in our life's.

I don't know how to tell these, I don't even know too much english, but get my attention the example you make of your friend scars, left me thinking is you really understand her, there are people out there that's adapt to their imperfection and live without scare of what others will think or react, but there are others that been really hurt and been emotionally drain by theirs experience. nobody want to be reject by others so they will do what ever they can to feel like others really saw them, not there not so average so comun appearance, in hollywood there's no exception did you saw tabloits after them gain a few pounds or even wearing ugly clothes people are hard on them and is hard to doesn't get lost in all that. must people and I don't mean to offended but when they try to encourage end up hurting. so always try to remember the things you hide and doesn't want to tell other's and doesn't want them to know, things thats you feel prejudice before also when someone tease you when you was litle or adolecent or even adult in a emotional crisis when other's think you were exaggerated, I could write a lot of examples but the truth is that we always hide something and we always have emotional scars to deal with, remember that when you see other's and maybe you will have an idea how they feel because sometimes when we encourage we doesn't saw a person behind. I use to know someone that's eat a lot in fastfoods and was overweigh she have kids and I was worried so I try to encourage her to eat healthy, because she have kids and she could die and left them alone, so sudenly she get sick and died after a month of been in hospitals, so maybe she sould take care of her self but what is the point of we want to make others people life's perfect when we can't make ours life perfect, maybe I hurt her in many ways when I was trying to encourage her, so is better is we try to see beyond people fears, because we always hide in somewhere when we doesn't want to be found, even when we lied and say we doesn't have anything to hide.