You are showing emotions now. i am over my ex but it took many years
and a lot of work to overcome the least bit of feelings I had. If you
are Mad in any way, you have a ways still to go. Take it from someone
who has been there and I am not a shrink, i have been there!
Ed

Love is when you are in a glass elevator and people are watching you
with your lover......

Trust and honesty is only the small portion of a loving relationship.
When you stop communicating, the relationship ends. I don't mean
talking, I mean communicating. There is a difference. I don't worry
about that now though. I don't have to communicate.
Ed

Okay, okay, I have no idea what he is talking about but i am going to
take a stab at it. During a loving nuturing relationship, communication
goes both ways. However, when one side shuts down, there is a problem.
Everyone start waving their red flags! Communication is everything in a
relationship even though the other great physical stuff is wonderful.
However, when the communication stops, someone else or something else is
involved.
Ed

Nah, I would have to bend you over my knees and spank you hard whenever
you messed up which, I am sure, at your age, is quite frequently. My
hand would be so swollen and red. I would get tired of spanking you,
why would I want to date you after knowing that?
Ed

Dang dude, if you are chubby, i'm skinny. Lose some weight!

Baby, I can save my change and have a dinner with someone without paying
for the after dinner activities. Nice try!
Ed

Right now it is.... Well, I can't tell, if I did, it could give away her
cover.... But really man, I know the deal. The hottest girl on here
is Jade101

Straight up. If you can't be honest, what is the point in trying to be
honest?
'I'm not interested, don't bother me'

Playing games, trying to be nice and go around the subject? Give me a
break, be real!

Anthony07,
There are various ways that 'I love you' is taken. It could mean you
are a good friend and that's all there is to it.
It could mean, "Wow, you are incredible in bed, I love you". (Dude,
you know I have no idea, let's keep it like that!)
It could mean, 'I love you' but keep searchin' for someone else
because i am not the one, i'm just playin' and you are my toy.
It could mean, 'I love you' just the way your sister or Mom tells you.
Which means, find someone else, you are a great friend but......
It could mean, 'I love you' tonight because i couldn't find anyone
else.
So, in the end, it has no meaning. As much as I would like it to, it
doesn't.
Ed

Wow, this doesn't take too much thinkin'. I'm here and I'm ready baby!

Doesn't matter, you are displaying feelings for him whether it is
hatred, love or indifference. Once you are beyond that, you are truly
over the love you shared together at one time.

His Love

Rain splatters against the glass windowpane.
He sits alone in thought faraway from the room.
Across the sunny meadow, he sees her run.
Watching her hair as it blows away from her head.
The sun silhouettes her body through her thin dress.
A bright flash of lightening and thunder strikes nearby.
His eyes remain blank from the room he is within.
Mind travels still at the meadow to watch her beauty.
She runs toward him as he runs to catch her in his arms.
Her eyes twinkle from the rays of the sun so bright.
Her soft breasts sensuously bounce as she nears him.
Blood surges through his body as his manhood rises.
Her hands reach forward as her feet glide through the grass.
Light outside his window explodes in the cold night air.
Panicked screaming fills the air beyond his room.
He is lost in thought elsewhere, deaf to sounds here.
His smile is heaven as he reaches out to touch her.
Fingertips nearing, her happiness radiates to him.
Electrifying sparks cascade from fingers to fingers.
Close to embracing with eternal love from above.
The door to his room opens, revealing the light.
It travels along his dark floor yet he is not disturbed.
She walks in his room closing the door behind her.
Concealed is something large in her delicate hand.
He reaches for her, the breeze in the meadow so cool.
She is his love, his eternity, his escape, his endurance, his cure.
Just as their fingertips touch together, she disappears.
He jumps wildly in the room as the needle is thrust into his arm.
The meadow is gone, his love is gone, a trickle of blood flows.
Lightening and thunder erupt outside as his nurse tenderly
Cares for him to sort out life’s riches and dreams in his room

Anthony07,
I tried to. So what gives? It's either attitude or being patient. Do
you really believe you can just go "poof" and a woman wants you? Oh,
okay, I appologize! You know, there is a different approach that works
very well. I don't share that though. Good luck in your search....
Ed

Findme1113,
That is a very good question. Most people will blow it off and give
you a short answer but they haven't been in your position. I have to
tell you though, after living life (you know the part that goes 15 years
old to 50 years old in 2 seconds) with alot more to give, my opinion,
and remember it is only my opinion is that you do what you feel is most
important to your children. You cannot be selfish in that situation as
much as you want to be. Now, with that being said, if you are being
beaten, hit, cuzzed at, etc, get the hell out of there and make sure
your children are in tow. It does matter though on the age of your
children. If they are under 10 and you are not happy, get out.
However, if they are teens, and they have no clue about a possible
divorce, try to hang on until they are out of the house. Not many
people realize that divorce is more difficult for teens that are
unaware. It is the most difficult on them. So, if you run, run when
they are young. If you are getting mistreated, get the heck out of
there! If he is cheating on you because you are not enough, get out of
there! I don't agree with all the counselors saying that men do it
because they can seperate sex and love and women can't. That is what
counselors want us to believe! So, look at your situation and decide
what is best not only for you, but for your loving children. Don't be
greedy unless it is absolutely necessary!
Ed

lol, my goodness!

I want to whack Shenerd with the bucket. She was over me long before i
was over her. Maybe an isolated situation but hey that happens.
Ed

last message was for Gypsy41. Once you stop feeling anger and you can
actually go up to him/her and say hi, then feel nothing, you are over it
100%!
Ed

Sorry, if you feel anger towards your ex, you still have feelings. I
know, I was in that situation. Maybe not like yours but divorced.

look, if i gave you my number, i don't want any games played, call me.
Goodness gracious! What gives? If you gave me your number should I
wait until Labor Day before I call?
Ed