Hi I'm Don if there is any young lady interested in engaging in conversation with a man with good social skills in orange county area let me know. I don't put emphasis on color,size or appearances. I do require is conformity with facts or reality,verity from you.
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living .it doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk taking enjoying life for the adventure of being alive

You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever....technology has reduce us to communicating with devices, phones,texting computer. I believe connections are made with the heart, not the tongue or technology.

I consider conversations with people to be mind
exercise..
Wisdom cannot be imparted. Wisdom that a wise man attempts to impart always sounds like foolishness to someone else ... Knowledge can be communicated, but not wisdom. One can find it, live it, but one cannot communicate if others are not willing , if a person
Words are the source of misunderstandings then communicate to get a better understanding of the person intent. That's why one of
The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.
When one is ignored you feel as your lips are inside out. They should be turned inwards, because Its like spending time talking to yourself. You should realize
It's okay to disagree with others thoughts or opinions expressed by other people. Just because you don't like what they say, or their ethnic background even age ..that don't give you the right to deny any sense they might make. Nor does it give you a right to accuse someone of poorly expressing their beliefs just because you don't like what they are saying. Learn to recognize good writing when you read it, even if it means overcoming your pride and opening your mind beyond what is comfortable.
Anything that’s human is mentionable, and anything that is mentionable can be more manageable. When we can talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary
When you take the time to actually listen, with humility, to what people have to say, it's amazing what you can learn. Especially if the people who are doing the talking or emailing are initiating the communication

Crickets chirp through the stillness. The quiet humming of tree frogs fills the night air. We lie in the tent like two doves. My face nuzzles against your breasts.
We have passed through the years like this. We find silent moments to ease each other. I feel your soft touch, the warmth of your body against mine, and the impenetrable darkness outside. Water rushes by in the stream below the cliffs. The wind rushes across the tree tops with a deep exhalation of the earth. You sigh deep in the night. Our closeness is a second nature.
But on this night some strange mystical force pulls us beyond practiced rituals into a deep ecology of intimacy. Our boundaries blur. I feel the earth beneath my soft flesh. I feel your body so palpable, so feminine. My thigh sinks into a tight crevice between your legs. You reply by slipping off of your lingerie. We melt into heated embrace. You whimper with desire

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The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson
Start living now. Stop saving the good china for that special occasion. Stop withholding your love until that special person materializes. Every day you are alive is a special occasion. Every minute, every breath, is a gift from God
If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear pain or loss, then our lives will be empty, our loss greater.

Ardent young men, i do not neglect the preliminaries! Endeavour to satisfy my mistress. Listen to her desires. Some men, carried away by the power of their desire, forget the prelude, only to be surprised when they are pushed away later! Yet it is such a delight to kiss, to caress, to nibble one another... To explore with my hand or mouth her body, her breasts, her neck, her belly, down to her innermost curves. Fulfilled, the beloved shall return these kisses and caresses wholeheartedly. No part of the beloved's body I shall neglecte as Her lover I shall make it my duty to discover them, to reveal to my mistress all the pleasure she can receive from me

I want to be your companion
and walk hand in hand,
your strength enveloping mine.
Autumn leaves falling,
scuffing feet and laughter,
sharing nights, not finished by the dark.

I want to be your confidant
as you pen your deepest
thoughts, as your heartaches
bleed and finally break free.
Your dreams, I keep as if my own.
I want to smile as you smile
and giggle with you
at nothing at all.

I want to be your lover
and find the passions
that move you to action.
I want to be the softness
that induces you to trust.
I want to be the naughty
that makes you come back for more.
I want to please you.

I want to share your breakfast
and your dinner,
I want you in the shower
and in your bed and
with soft steps to bring you coffee
(I take mine black)
Your strong arms, the legs
that power your thrust,
your lips of pleasure,
these are the fuel of my desire

no it is no secret, my love,
and to put it very simply,
I want you
should arrive gift wrapped ��
just knock knock knock on your door �
when you're down and blue ��
just send a thought ��
you know.. ��
sexy one ��
and I'll arrive

I am not perfect. I'm not the most gorgeous man in the world. But I'm one of them (a man)
I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil
I am not trying to give an image of a fairytale, perfect, everything else, I am just being myself

I'm just a ordinary man..nothing complicated about me. No drama no ***-situde needed. Communication required. Can be adventurous..in outspoken.not shy, affectionate, like kissing, intimacy not necessarily mean taking our clothes off.  Someone who don't mind removing the restraints . A woman who can make love to my mind Making love is a learned experience, so let's it  make intellectuaL
A stimulated body provides temporary satisfaction, but a stimulated mind is perpetual


There is three types of sensations I like..just ask me.

I'm just a ordinary man..nothing complicated about me. No drama no ***-situde needed. Communication required. Can be adventurous..in outspoken.not shy, affectionate, like kissing, intimacy not necessarily mean taking our clothes off.  Someone who don't mind removing the restraints . A woman who can make love to my mind Making love is a learned experience, so let's it  make intellectuaL
A stimulated body provides temporary satisfaction, but a stimulated mind is perpetual

There is three types of sensations I like..just ask me.

Women who take themselves too seriously are seriously not sexy. There’s something about a woman who is comfortable enough to be playful, flirty, and not worry that she is risking her reputation. Please don’t confuse playful with silly. Silly women who are clowning for attention are vexing. I think  that playfulness is a great sign of maturity – a woman who loves life and isn’t ashamed to show it. I know for sure you are definitely sexy young lady.
showing a little leg — has nothing to do with what makes your guy really want you. Yes, at first a man may be drawn in  a flash of lace, a glimpse of cleavage. But once his heart is yours for keeps, he has a totally different idea of what makes you alluring. To me the makeup, the sexy outfit, it's all a mask. I  wants the woman behind the mask. Openness, vulnerability, an air of contentment — those things are what really turns me on

I want to make hot,wet,passionate
love to you in the worst of ways..
Want to make love to you so intense ,that
your legs will be trembling for days..
I want to feel me inside of you while
looking straight into your eyes...
I want to taste you up down ,that'll my tounge
be tracing down your inner thighs...
I want to have you ride me,I'll pull you
in,and whisper I love you in your ear...
You will know the meaning of exstacy,
once I've taken you from the rear...
If given the chance,id make love to you
til the wee hours of the morning...
I'd have need for nothing at all,simply
your naked body for the exploring...
Once you've been with me,on your lonely
nights,i'll be the person you most crave..
So when ever your good and ready,i'll be
waiting,as your one and only sex slave

I Want to Make Sweet Love to You

I want to tempt the hands of fate
Take you out on a lovely date
Act like a perfect gentleman
Be as romantic as I can

I want to show up with flowers
Walk with you in April showers
Hold your hand and open the door
For the woman I do adore

I want to take you out to eat
Pull out your chair until you seat
In the fanciest restaurant
Tell you to order what you want

I want to sit by candlelight
With the mood and atmosphere right
Gazing into your lovely eyes
Sing love songs and sweet lullabies

I want to turn on all my charms
Hold you in my tender arms
As I am slow dancing with you
Softly whisper "You’re beautiful”

I want to count the stars above
With the woman I truly love
After that walk you to your door
So you can feel safe and secure

I want to be invited in
Gaze in loving eyes once again
As I watch them sparkle and shine
Open up a bottle of wine

I want to hope our next slow dance
Will lead to a night of romance
As we are dancing cheek to cheek
Feel your heart beat and knees go weak

I want to catch you as you fall
Let you know you’re a living doll
Make your body feel like a flame
When I softly whisper your name

I want to taste your honey lips
Feel the passion behind your kiss
Smell the aroma of perfume
As you lead me to your bedroom

I want to lay down by the side
Of my lover and future bride
On this wondrous and lovely night
Make love to you with all my might

I want to kiss your pretty head
As I am lying in your bed
Prove to you that my love is true
By telling you you’re beautiful

I want to give you all my love
Make you sparkle like stars above
Feel Heavenly and so divine
As you lie in these arms of mine

I want your heart to feel a flame
When I softly whisper your name
If it’s the last thing that I do
I want to make sweet love to you

Do I  only share when I have no unmet needs that I'm trying to fill. I firmly believe that being vulnerable with a larger audience is only a good idea if the healing is tied to the sharing, not to the expectations I might have for the response I get..do wonder if you are vulnerable . If you don't have friends or a romanticcompanion does this make you  anymore vulnerable.? 
The perception that vulnerability is weakness is the most widely accepted myth about vulnerability and the most dangerous. When we spend our lives pushing away and protecting ourselves from feeling vulnerable or from being perceived as too emotional, we feel contempt when others attempt to invade this vulnerability even if it's sincere or someone trying to provide support. Some of us are willing to mask feelings to protect ourselves. Vulnerability isn’t good or bad: it’s not what we call a dark emotion, nor is it always a light, positive experience. Vulnerability is the core of all emotions and feelings. Regardless of what we think to feel is to be vulnerable. To foreclose on our emotional life out of a fear that the costs will be too high is to walk away from the very thing that gives purpose and meaning to living. 
Our rejection of vulnerability often stems from our associating it with dark emotions like fear, shame, grief, sadness, and disappointment—emotions that we don’t want to discuss, even when they profoundly affect the way we live, love, work, and even lead
We’ve come to the point where, rather than respecting and appreciating the courage and daring behind vulnerability, we let our fear and discomfort become judgment and criticism
It starts to make sense that we dismiss vulnerability as weakness only when we realize that we’ve confused feeling with failing and emotions with liabilities. If we want to reclaim the essential emotional part of our lives and reignite our passion and purpose, we have to learn how to own and engage with our vulnerability and how to feel the emotions that come with

I understand things you mentioned in your profile.. think we could be friends?

Everyone knows of the power of friends,
The terrific result, when everything blends.
When people have friends, they don’t stand alone;
Friends always help, when you face the unknown.
Friends give you courage to face problems untold,
So the love of a friend can help make you bold.
They can help you to live a much richer life,
So your every day living will be less filled with strife.

Tha

This time they stood very close each other�
To the point that it sent them into a flutter,�
With the warmth growing, glowing in their gaze,�
Feeling something that was stirring,�
Like some longing or some yearning,�
Then as if by magnetism they fell into an embrace.�
And the kiss was so delicious,�
Ravenous and also vicious,�
Wild and very animalistic in a sense,�
As they both satisfied their thirst,�
Utterly and completely immersed,�
Which made the sensation all the more intense.�
Their tongues danced and twisted,�
Like passions had never existed,�
Making their heart beats deep and fast,�
Lip locked with such a hunger,�
Filled with lust and wonder,�
Taking each breath as if it were their last.�
You can hear them hot and heavy,�
Each lick petting fast and steady,�
Releasing all their desires without restraint,�
Devouring each other with such a craze,�
So consuming it leaves them in a daze,�
The frenzied impulse breaks through all constraint

Tune me like your instrument
The octaves of my moans and the pitches of my whimpers
And you're the conductor in our symphony
Wet me like your reed
And practice your fingering on me
Your embouchure on my lips
And a melody is born

Tempo, rhythm, and repeat
Play me with passion
A little instrument under the demand of an artist
Willing to obey

Warm me up before our crescendo rises
Make sure to stay in three/four time
Be the accompaniment to the ballad of our bodies
Darling, hips can only thrust so hard
Before we break the strings

But baby when the melody falls
Our gasps are the final notes
To end the night and our duet

But please understand
I'm ready for an encore


Your always in control
My nuturing Puppet Master
Guiding my every move
With a slight tug
�
Manipulating my thoughts
Despite whether you are trying or not
Always inside head
Laced into my inner self
�
What will you have me do next?
How would you like to see perform?
Maybe a little dance
Or just a sexy pose
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You hold the power in your soft hands
Your puppet is useless
Without your touch
Come and play with me ma'am please

Give me half of your weight
so you won't feel so heavy

Give me half of your pain
so you won't always hurt

Give me half of your sadness
so you won't always cry

I'll give you half of my joy
so you can always be happy

I'll give you half of my love
so you'll always be warm

I'll give you half of my laughter
so you can always smile

Give me your half and I'll give you mine
so we can always be whole

I can still taste you on my lips 
The faint scent on my fingertips 
Reminiscent of 
The sweet flavor 
From
Lingering on my tongue 
Completely sprung 
When I devoured you 
At that early hour 
(My eyes close in a blissful sigh) 
  
What better libation 
Than the natural liquor of love 
Poured from the very mouth 
Of what is desired most 
Tortured by passionate kisses 
Until your soft lips trembled 
And flowed with delightful honey 
  
Darling 
The time of day does not matter 
When desire overpowers 
But the hesitant need to release 
Must be obeyed 
  
Pure mutual absolution 
  
You whimpered out of pleasure 
In submission to my caresses 
And titillating ardent strokes 
You died of delight when my touch 
Made you quiver and shudder 
As I was seeking and imploring 
Searching and exploring until… 
  
Yes! I’ll drink from you and live 
Immortal and everlasting passion

You’re not perfect before you start to date someone, you’re not going to find the “perfect” mate and you won’t be perfect in the years following; but if the girl or boy standing in front of you is amazing and makes you excited to tackle each day, don’t let them slip through your fingers
Sometimes, when I lie awake at night, I wonder whether I’ve lived at all. Is it the same for everybody? Do some people have a greater talent for living than others or do some people never live, but just exist..I exist. That's why I've learned to speak what I feel because
Each time we don’t say what we wanna say, we’re dying. Do you ever  realize that possibility 
could have had happiness if you just believed that someone could want you. Lets be real a person doesn’t have to be perfect to be exactly what you need
It’s funny how we set qualifications for the right person  we seek or to love while at the back of our minds we know
that the  person we truly want love will always be an exception

I Dream, Do You
Do you have dreams, Well I do
I dream of wonderful things
I dream of things yet to come
I dream of things some may say May be dumb
dream of of a place where there is no war
Some of my dreams may come true
I know thats not true and so do you
But I will continue to believe my dream will come true
Because my dream was so wonderful, so I shared it with you A Romantic Night
You come in and sit down while looking around
We eat, drink, laugh, and talk just for starters
I began to gaze into your stars stolen from the sky eyes
As you lay in my arms looking up at me with a smiling face

I stand you up and slowly walk you into my room
I began to undress you piece by piece
While the aroma of the room puts you at ease
I tell you to lie down flat on your stomach
Then your fantasy's and fascinations’ begin to run wild
Now I have a strong appetite for your love and I want it now
Yet the moment is not now so I tell myself to slow down
So I begin giving you a full body massage
Not just any massage I mean really caressing your every curve
Tonight I’m your servant and I’m ready to be
I smell and inhale a deep breath of air from your hair
I slowly and passionfully kiss the back of your neck
As I go down your body, kissing alot and not missing a spot
You moan in acceptance and squirm in the sheets
I roll you over in a burst of excitement and delightment
Ok time to wake up to reality
I was loving my dream now im mad at me for waking up