I can relate to this I don't necessarily approve of gay marriage in a church. However my dearest cousin is gay and loves his partner even though I do not approve I still love him and support him no matter what.
I have many relatives that I love but don't agree 100% on their life style yet I still support them and love them.

I believe we all have a choice to make plus who am I to judge you when I have probably done worse. My outlook on it is to hear both sides of the story then make a decision. I may cringe at some of the things my loved ones do but I still love them.

Some people are drawn in by looks some by personality which one are you

Not sure exactly what this is for if an intellectual conversations I'm in if not oh well can't be picky