LOL are you reffering that im whining about being bothered by men...
I didnt think I was lol....
Im being bothered by the wrong men and thats the problem... if it was a question of good men being sincere with me then I dont see fit to complain. Id just like to understand the physc of men and what im doing wrong to end things on a even better more clear ground so i can avoid this in the future.

And as far as getting many emails on here actually im not getting hardly any responses on here but im not complaining either way

Definitely couldn’t agree more that I give out so much more then I receive back...It don’t take much to please me either just kindness really.. Thanks for sharing I know I’m not alone and I knew on Mingle there would be some who stand among us. I am the one that leaves them too do you think that makes a difference... on who left who that leaves it unfinished in their minds? Good question I just came up with.

A mans perspective on this topic would be nice too dont be shy I wont bite.....

Yeah thats too funny... but untrue lol and a game... they possibly wont want to run either.... might backfire on reload lol

I’m well aware that I’m worth so much I love me and who I am and what i have done in my life thus far and look forward to my 30's and what woman would tell you she looks forward to aging well this one does!... my inner beauty far outshines the outer.

It really does for so many to understand you have to lose something to realise what you had. I know lol but it doesn’t tell me how to get rid of the ones who don’t know what we know and that its far too late to even give it another chance. I give advice and take my own as well. I don’t look back and repeat myself to them but it’s not working....
HELP I’m drowning in men’s inability to forgive themselves, forget and let go..
What’s a woman to do????

Yesterday I get a message from an ex with three little words

ONE MORE TRY

Why are they unable to let go... The more honest and blunt I am that I have moved on in my life the more they want me I don’t understand this attachment.... is it just me who is so cold to feelings at times or what??? I know I am very resilient and don’t see need for tears and get over things really quickly I always find a positive when handed something negative.
Anyways I couldn’t contain myself from laughing reason being what the ***k we dated a short period of time like in 2005 lol.

He always ...always finds a way to get in touch with me. I have changed my phone number and moved several times and last yr 3 hours away from the city I once lived in and he resides in currently.

He is not the only one that has this issue I have had several men from my past who can’t seem to let go... one who I dated 7 yrs ago he’s married now and he still talks to my brother and he always finds a way to try to get messages to me. and the list goes on. LOL

I am very honest and very blunt, I don’t play games I tell it how it is but it doesn’t seem to be working why do they not stay away... I don’t give any reason or lead them into self hope that there would be another chance at "US"
Some advice would be greatly appreciated as for I’m at a loss and I like leaving the past in the past and worry about now... and a future uninterrupted... oh and I don’t want to tell lies to get rid of them like I have a boyfriend or that I’m married or dying lol, I’m not dishonest to anyone that only gets you in trouble if you take that route in any circumstance.

Thanks for those who have comments and or advice. You guys are all awesome and I feel like becoming a member of the family and can ask anything and someone would care to help.

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I dont have a superority complex whatsoever... I am just a hardworking woman who takes pride in my accomplishments Im not above anyone. I am who I am.
I define being strong as knowing how to take care of myself and my daughter with no help, being strong to me is having ambition with my career and working hard to get to my dreams... that I don’t let society normality thinking I should be dependent of a Man to do this for me. As far as breaking balls far from it... I treat someone I care for very good it’s a partnership not a ruler ship... when I’m with someone no one is the boss were in it together. You need to treat others the way you want to be treated back and I know it’s something you tell children to learn to make friends but I reflect back to this and stay true to it as a mature adult as well.

My definition of a strong man would have similar traits to myself. We should compliment eachother! A strong man would not be constantly dependent on me for survival for continuous entertainment, they should still be free to be their true selves and have hobbies and friends other than me. A man who has ambitions and strength in having an opinion not having to ask me first what to do "or whatever I like"

A weak, un-opinionated, clingy man is not for me. Probably a reason I’m still single I seem to attract these quite often, but not I am not in despair I embrace life as a single mom and I’m truly happy whether I’m blessed with a strong man in my life or not.
Peace

lol I have said this a few times here since I joined there is no rewind button nor should there ever be reason to be one.

You can’t burden yourself, your sprit or your being with the what if's...
Everything happens for a reason I believe. The more you build up and fanaticize in your mind how perfect of an opportunity it could have been... the more you will stay immobile in the fantasy realm.

Let it go... your heart needs freeing, cause the one that is meant for you just hasn’t come in your life yet. You can’t blame yourself for the opportunity missed It wasn’t the right time and perhaps the right woman. Maybe now that you are feeling more serious of life and relationships (this is an assumption) this why you drift to someone who was ready when you were not feeling remorse and regret.

Chalk it up to you have come to that time in your life when you should let go of the past wipe the slate clean and be ready for the one that is going to come into your life...

Just an opinion everyone has one take or leave. Good luck hon!

My mom always said I would need a man as strong as me or stronger to make it work...

still waiting lol

I miss Sunday Dinners with my Family

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Oreo crumbs (in my daughters bathroom lol)

very cute

I will post them for all to see once decided!

Thanks everyone thus far for your ideas. I will take them into consideration and will for sure post pics of the final cut and the party. I hope to hear some more suggestions if you have em!

very neat idea Atlantis

well im not sure if he was asking you or me now... but I did start the topic asking for suggestions.... but im sure you do dress up often and would look pretty wicked!

like that idea never done the superhero look