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you ever start thinking about the one that got away. lately i`ve been obsessed about her and i have no idea why. it`s simply a situation where i didn`t take the opportunity when i had it. the worst part is that she is not anything special, in fact, she drove me crazy. the plain and simple truth is that i got rejected later down the line and i`m kicking myself for not acting when i had the chance. Ugh! somebody knock some sense into me...
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you ever start thinking about the one that got away. lately i`ve been obsessed about her and i have no idea why. it`s simply a situation where i didn`t take the opportunity when i had it. the worst part is that she is not anything special, in fact, she drove me crazy. the plain and simple truth is that i got rejected later down the line and i`m kicking myself for not acting when i had the chance. Ugh! somebody knock some sense into me... Nope not me. |
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No such thing...
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It happens... All you can do is remind yourself that she drove you crazy, so really is she the one that got away???
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just remember the bad stuff, the things she did to drive you crazy
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It happens to us all. I was reading an article in Playboy about looking up lost loves. It said that most times it breaks up what ever relationship the lost love is in (guy or girl) and rarely ends well for the looker and the lookie. The only pu--y you will ever regret is the pu--y you pass up. You've got to know that you can never go back though. Be a true he man woman hater and move on.
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Not me neither...There is a reason they got away
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Edited by
mineangeleyes
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Sun 10/04/09 10:16 PM
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lol I have said this a few times here since I joined there is no rewind button nor should there ever be reason to be one.
You can’t burden yourself, your sprit or your being with the what if's... Everything happens for a reason I believe. The more you build up and fanaticize in your mind how perfect of an opportunity it could have been... the more you will stay immobile in the fantasy realm. Let it go... your heart needs freeing, cause the one that is meant for you just hasn’t come in your life yet. You can’t blame yourself for the opportunity missed It wasn’t the right time and perhaps the right woman. Maybe now that you are feeling more serious of life and relationships (this is an assumption) this why you drift to someone who was ready when you were not feeling remorse and regret. Chalk it up to you have come to that time in your life when you should let go of the past wipe the slate clean and be ready for the one that is going to come into your life... Just an opinion everyone has one take or leave. Good luck hon! 
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Wow, interesting post. Reading through the replies I believe it seems men experience those feelings more than the women....hmm I would have believed it would have been otherwise. Maybe too few replies to post make a judgement? Maybe a good idea for a new post...
I have dwelled on "the one that got away" and regretted it. I think we should take a poll. |
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Nope, not me....
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you ever start thinking about the one that got away. lately i`ve been obsessed about her and i have no idea why. it`s simply a situation where i didn`t take the opportunity when i had it. the worst part is that she is not anything special, in fact, she drove me crazy. the plain and simple truth is that i got rejected later down the line and i`m kicking myself for not acting when i had the chance. Ugh! somebody knock some sense into me... Nope not me. Same here, no one has ever gotten away that was worth my time.   
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There was this one time....
A man I met...it was instant, crazy, punched in the solar plexus insanity! We drove each other crazy....and crazier....frustrated the begeeezuz out of me! Nearly four years together. I said goodbye...waved him off...with nary a backward glance. (who am I kidding) 
three years later.... yep three years later...I was still pining for the one who got away... had tried to move on...had other dates, relationships....I tried to move on.. ...and then he rang....and said he is ready now....he was coming home. and he did....and he is... and we still drive each other nuts...he goes away, touring, for weeks on end...and I feel as though he has taken a part of me with him...I miss him so, that it is a physical pain. 
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There was this one time.... A man I met...it was instant, crazy, punched in the solar plexus insanity! We drove each other crazy....and crazier....frustrated the begeeezuz out of me! Nearly four years together. I said goodbye...waved him off...with nary a backward glance. (who am I kidding)
three years later.... yep three years later...I was still pining for the one who got away... had tried to move on...had other dates, relationships....I tried to move on.. ...and then he rang....and said he is ready now....he was coming home. and he did....and he is... and we still drive each other nuts...he goes away, touring, for weeks on end...and I feel as though he has taken a part of me with him...I miss him so, that it is a physical pain.
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There was this one time.... A man I met...it was instant, crazy, punched in the solar plexus insanity! We drove each other crazy....and crazier....frustrated the begeeezuz out of me! Nearly four years together. I said goodbye...waved him off...with nary a backward glance. (who am I kidding)
three years later.... yep three years later...I was still pining for the one who got away... had tried to move on...had other dates, relationships....I tried to move on.. ...and then he rang....and said he is ready now....he was coming home. and he did....and he is... and we still drive each other nuts...he goes away, touring, for weeks on end...and I feel as though he has taken a part of me with him...I miss him so, that it is a physical pain.
Great post.
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Edited by
CatsLoveMe
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Mon 10/05/09 03:59 AM
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There was this one time.... A man I met...it was instant, crazy, punched in the solar plexus insanity! We drove each other crazy....and crazier....frustrated the begeeezuz out of me! Nearly four years together. I said goodbye...waved him off...with nary a backward glance. (who am I kidding)
three years later.... yep three years later...I was still pining for the one who got away... had tried to move on...had other dates, relationships....I tried to move on.. ...and then he rang....and said he is ready now....he was coming home. and he did....and he is... and we still drive each other nuts...he goes away, touring, for weeks on end...and I feel as though he has taken a part of me with him...I miss him so, that it is a physical pain.
You love him, but how much pain are you willing to endure? Do you want a man who is always busy, always away, or a simple man, one that will always listen to you, always respect you, always make the time for you, no matter what the sacrifice? When you find this man, this is the man that loves you. |
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The way I see it the ones that are no longer are that way due to they were merely a stepping stone to the one that is to be.....
 
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Never!!!!!!
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that's why i use a double knot.no woman escapes from a double knot
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Sure i have, i was only young and she was beautiful and made my heart skip a beat but sadly i was not mature enough to deal with the situation at the time.
From time to time i do think of her and sigh but she has gone and i have moved on. Anna x |
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The way I see it the ones that are no longer are that way due to they were merely a stepping stone to the one that is to be.....
What would Confucius say? Think how better off the world would be if we all thought the way this wise man did? |
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