Finalise my divorce

Really nice

Welcome and good luck

Controlla - Drake

I like the idea of them holding up a message but I reckon they will think you're mad. I've no idea how you send photos in a message anyway so would they have to embarrass themselves posting it on their profile?

Love Me Do - the Beatles

Adele - Send my love to your new lover

That's great guys - it's really tedious been asked questions you already answered in your blurb. Like when you have a job interview and it's like they haven't got your CV right in front of them

I must be a bit daft cos I don't understand the question

This Girl - Kungs

Just A Little Bit of Your Heart - Ariana Grande

a foot massage and a friendly cuddle would be really nice

Just an observation - maybe it's because I am from the UK so most of the time the weather is pretty dull. So when the sun comes out to play car windows are wound down, radios start blasting and the guys seem to come alive and have an extra twinkle in their eyes. But it could be more to do with the fact that the heat equates to ladies shedding their jumpers and jeans and daring to slip on the skimpy stuff

Welcome A&S and good luck in your search. You'll soon get the hang of things


ooops having just noticed your other post maybe that was the wrong choice of words. Er ... yep good luck with that

I think the important thing is to weed out the creeps as quickly as possible. Start with your profile making sure to be frank about what you are looking for and perhaps what you are NOT
Don't bother responding to guys with no info on their profiles and dodgy user names. Even looking at yours could send out a signal. Guys probably read 'adventurous' and make an immediate connection in their head with the bedroom. So they are already licking their lips
When you chat be careful to avoid getting too familiar. Don't flirt till you've established a rapport and he knows it doesn't mean you're a pushover it's just friendly banter.
Block anyone who makes you uncomfortable and it goes without saying if you meet them do it in a public place where he can't pounce.
Sounds like you've just been unlucky. Don't let them get away with disrespecting you

I am actually chatting to a 25 year old from my city and trying to explain this is not The Graduate

One More Time - Carpenters

Welcome and good luck.

Your photos are pretty but you really need to add your interests and add a paragraph letting guys know a bit about yourself and what kind of man you are hoping to date

Welcome and good luck in your search.

I noticed you had a couple of details missing - one being do you have kids which is probably quite important.

To be honest when I'm matching and someone has stated looking for an activity partner I pass on by suspecting they mean you-know-what so if you really just want a lady to join you at the gym I'd suggest changing to something else. But it could just be my mind

I'd also put a paragraph about yourself and also what you are looking for in a lady. It's always good to catch a glimpse of your sense of humour and personality. You don't have to big yourself up - it isn't a job application - just be yourself

Hope so. It is more complicated because there's inevitably baggage to deal with and to a certain extent bruised hearts to handle with care. But everyone deserves a second chance...or third...or fourth