So hard to find true love again

Well, yes and no. You can never again have the version of what seemed like true love that you had as a young teen again, once you stop being a young teen.

But I've had two or three crushes since passing 50, and had those women been interested in me at the time in tirn, then I would have found true love. Again, depending how you define it.

me personally, I never had true love as I define it as a kid.

Yep, it is hard so I don't try. Instead; I just go out and enjoy life by living every day like it's my last.

I believe yes. Love is what you define it as. No thesis, no analyzing. Love is what you think. Just like you say what love is not. I also believe there is different levels of love. I believe there is a lot of morphing. Being something we really are not at the beginning of relationship. Just to persuade a mate that we have common interests. The facades wears off, people fall back into whom there are. (nothing wrong with that) then we get cynical and disappointed, then conclude that we cannot find love. Just to play the same game again, thinking you will get different results and do not, then becoming more cynical. And so on. Just my thoughts.

I dont think true love is ever the same in any relationship. think about it if true love was really true would most of us be here looking. At this age I have come to the point that I want a friend that can become my best friend and love the good and the bad and be in my corner. Do I believe it is possible? well hoping

I choose to believe it is still possible. If I didn't, I wouldn't be here. Whether or not I will find true or unconditional love, only time will tell. We all have our own ideas and definitions of what we are looking for. I guess we just have to hang in there and keep the faith.

I suppose never say never but I've pretty much given up
what I have done is learned to rely on my three best friends....
me, myself, and I

tmh1063 had a good answer.

i believe you can if you search carefully, i also think the expectations as your older are different in a loving relationship; since your both more mature.

I strongly believe it's possible not only @ 50 but 50 + too. It depends what type of relationship u wish. if it's altruistic, clean, transparent and healthy friendship, you can find. Interested females please contact.

Best of luck.

Hope so. It is more complicated because there's inevitably baggage to deal with and to a certain extent bruised hearts to handle with care. But everyone deserves a second chance...or third...or fourth

I do find people that I am very attracted to, and could fall in love with, but 100% the feeling is not returned. I suppose it boils down to who you come into contact with, and what you all find attractive. The age number is not a real consideration if there is real attraction.

Don't give up yet. I'm still here. I have old fashion believes. I still think there is true love out there

I still believe love is out here...or over there...somewhere

Let's hope so!

I think with great advanced age we think we know exactly what we are looking for and so that is exactly what we filter for. Where the heck is the mystery in that? Trust me, I am not an adrenaline addict but there needs to be a whole lot of mystery to make it titillating and exciting. We know exactly who we are looking for...phoooie live a little take a chance.

Sure hope so!

Hi I'm just looking for true love from a gal middle 40s to 50s. Tom...one that still wants to go out on drives to the mountains the beaches. You name it. Let run away for awhile. And must like to kiss.

i think u hit the nail in the headd

Finding love over 50 is more than possible. Psychologically and emotionally it can be fairly stable, depending on realistic expectations and an awareness of the human condition. Love is possible at any age.