Like I said in another post awhile back, you never know in this big world when you are having fun with someone on Mingle, email or the phone and they disappear. It might have been time for his shock treatments, meds, lock down in the penn, his wife walked in, he had to kill another raccoon and put it under his bed or his nurse is tucking him in.
If you were in a bar you would run into more of the same...or a bookstore, or a grocery store, etc.
Hang in there. Don't let the weirdos win!

I think she's the cutest thing I've ever seen.