Was that English?

I'm sorry but that was really hard to follow, much less understand. Maybe that's part of the problem, miscommunication

I must be rubbing off on you. Ooohh, I like the idea of that, rubbing off on you. Well, I'm sure the people under the stoop are glad for my influence.

you fool

never ever ever ever tell a woman she should lose weight

Yes, it is like that everywhere you go. People have a pack mentality, we all want to be part of a group of like-minded, like-looking, like-believing people. As long as we all are different, this is the case. Therefore, people will never really learn to get along, because there will always be someone somewhere wanting to be better or more powerful.

However, this thread was specifically about religion. If you look at religion from a historical perspective, you will find that almost all religions, especially Western religions, instill an "us against everyone else who doesn't believe as we do and if they don't believe as we do, we'll make them" mentality, Christians over the last 2000 years being the worst of the bunch. If you look at every war, you will find most had at least a minor cause in religion.

I look at what is, not what I wish it was.

And, to go off-topic, I don't believe that organized religion brings people together, I think it's highly divisive and it is designed to be that way.

Those people are fighting in the name of their religion/God. Most religions advocate an "us against them" mentality, therefore, when people fight in the name of their religion/God, it is because of the religion's principles themselves.

Since the dawn of time religion never brought peace. If you take a look most wars are because of religion.

Did you tell her to back off?

I'm learning new stuff about some guys too!

If nice guys/gals are whiny - low self esteem due to abusive relationships demanding control over another or feeling lost and under appreciated & bad guys/gals are selfish/sly/out for themselves/and are desperate too.

If nice guys are last to get in a relationship because of being too whiny. Then it does have a lot to do with insecurities within themselves. I.E. ( not happy with life, things doesn't go your way, pointing blame on others, not facing and learning from their mistakes .

If the guy is bad. It usually gets boring because its the same attitude every time. I.E. arguing/fighting/never changing for the one he/she choose to stay with. Its always been a control issue with those types.

Also if his/her family isn't connecting and their always rude to people (I only notice bad people being rude to others causing problems because they want attention focus on them) Its very rare when bad/good people has any self control or respect over themselves and can earn the respect of everyone else around them.

Then We all feel the negative/un-positive/unsure truth of who to trust, be friends, and who to fall in love with. The only difference between us all is the sex organs.

I know I am me . Everyone can judge in their own way , but the final choice is left up to me! To change or to be respected for who and what I am .

I thank you all for letting me speak my mind on this subject...

If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no.

Which is why nice guys don't exist...you can't say you are a nice guy, that is for someone else to say. Kind of odd all of these self-professed "nice guys" and not one person is agreeing they are even nice, much less that it would be the reason they can't find someone.

A: You are going after the wrong people, just because you are attracted to a Barbie does not mean that Barbie should be attracted to you.

B: You cowar and agree with everything she says, no one likes that and it gets quite annoying after awhile. Along with the constant "you are beautiful" or any other statement along those lines that is repeated entirely too much to the point where it is no longer believeable.

C: It is in fact you.

where's a nice guy?

I'm always mysterious, but the duct tape usually scares them away.