To ask a girl to lose some weight?

don't have enough info on the relationship to help ya out there...

Agreed

yes it is.either except or move on.

Alright... We've gone out twice and hit things off pretty well, the only thing is her weight is a bit of a turn off. Is there a way for me to drop hints or something to have her lose some?

no such thing as a hint with something like that... you have put yourself smack dab in the middle of a moral dilemma haven't you..

Oh my

After TWO dates? uh NO

edited...I said that wrong. After two dates there is no way you should or have any right to comment on any thing. If you don't like something, move on.

Ahhh is this the movie girl with the best friend chaperone?

That I believe is rude. You should accept
her or move on.

Of course it is, you weren't looking for sex when ya met her were you?

Becuase if you tell her she needs to lose a few, you won't be getting any.

Do you like everything else about her?

haha no, it's not the movie chaperone one, I've moved on from her

After two dates, she probably thought you didn't care about her looks or her weight. If you try to drop a hint about it, that will be pretty rude in my book.

Surely after the first date you knew this... but agreed to a second date afterall... So it must have been acceptable at that time?

Yes, it would be considered rude to ask something like that of anyone. Turn it around in your mind and think if she were to make some kind of request of you, because something about you was a turn off for her?

You should just move on and let her find someone who likes her for who and how she is... not wasting her time with someone who thinks she needs to change after only 2 dates.

If you like her enough to go out with her and say you've hit it off, does the weight really matter? If it does, you can't have hit it off that well..

Dude if like to look at a woman's hands real close to your face I mean real close...Go right on a head

In less than a week?


Ummm...you don't like this girl's weight?

Then rather than telling her so...start going out on energetic dates...


hire a couple of pushbikes and go for a ride...hire a kayak and go for a paddle.... go trekking...


the weight will move by itself.

sounds like you'll be moving on again.like i said before except or move on.she wouldn't do it to please u anyway.she has to do it because she wants to.

Depends on how much she weighs...If she is a little overweight let it go...If she is obese then maybe get someone else to tell her...After a couple of dates you are still a stranger to her

What is this, weird science?

No, it's perfectly nice to tell fat girls they're fat. They love it.