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Older=wiser?
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you can be young, yet wise and old, yet ignorant and vice versa. i don't think there's a correlation really. it depends on the person and their experiences, this is one time i will actually agree with that worn out expression, "age is just a number." I like to consider myself young, wise, and naive. I have some of the greatest knowledge about life so far, yet i still can be gullible about the world the surrounds me. Peers have an influence on me everyday whether i follow the influence or lead others in another direction gives me the choice on which of lifes paths to take. But most days i usually just dance to the beat of my own drum. |
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Hi, input please
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Thnak you so much. That is very helpful. Your quite welcome.  but always remember that not everybody will like what you put in your profile you cant please everyone. Just be true to yourself and your personality. As being a woman of faith i am sure God will lead and guide you in the right direction.
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Taking the bait
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Nobody influences me. Im my own person....and not easily swayed to idols or icons of any kind. Being your own person is great no doubt, but everybody learns from somewhere. Whether you are influenced by many of the people that cross your path or just a few, somebody somewhere gave you the knowledge of life you carry with you day by day. Adding your own beliefs to the knowledge you gain is what makes you an individual. You truely are a free spirit gypsy.
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Older=wiser?
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I dont understand why older people use this term. Yes as most of you are older than i am, do we not learn from each other? Being older and being wise do not always go hand in hand. I do agree that as you age you gain more life experiences, but as advanced as the world is now younger people are starting to learn at a college level by the 7th grade. The wealth of knowledge is out there. I dont know maybe i think too much, but i am a capricorn. I tend to over process and over analyze things. So answer me this does older equal wiser?
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Taking the bait
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Nobody influences me. Im my own person....and not easily swayed to idols or icons of any kind. Being your own person is great no doubt, but everybody learns from somewhere. Whether you are influenced by many of the people that cross your path or just a few, somebody somewhere gave you the knowledge of life you carry with you day by day. Adding your own beliefs to the knowledge you gain is what makes you an individual. |
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Hi, input please
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Its a good profile so far, add a few more pics, maybe some of you and your boys if your comfortable with that. Maybe add some future or present goals. Its a little on the generic side, add a little bit of your personallity but other than that its a good start.
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Taking the bait
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Thought we were going to talk about fishing lures. Does fishing lures influence you? no- not at all. "Taking the bait" made me think it is all I have been influenced by a lot of people. A lot of different situations everyday and people you run across "influence" you. I do charity work for abused children and also autistic children, they have effected the development of my life. thats influential. changes the way I think, act. Thats powerful. I would say more than anybody those kids have had the biggest influence on me. I did it with extra money I am fortunate enough to have to help them- but really they ended up helping me the most. I disgracefully admit that I did not do it at first for all the right reasons - it was a kind gesture that I kind of blew off and did not expect to spend anytime with these kids. Just give my money and know I did something right so I could tell people about it. Little did I know I would end up getting in tight with the founder of an organization and spent quite a bit of times with these young kids and young adults. It has literally altered the direction of a lot of my thinking. Powerful stuff. Probably way too much info - but it's late - nothing else to talk about. Children who are abused need so much love. I definately applaud you for reaching out to them. Even if it was for the wrong reasons to being with. Maybe you have been a positive influence on at least one child that, maybe one day, he or she will be sitting where we are now discussing how much influence you had on their live and helped them get though tough times. |
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Taking the bait
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Leonardo da Vinci...does it really need to be explained? Ah da Vinci, a timeless classic and the reason why machines work. |
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Taking the bait
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Thought we were going to talk about fishing lures. Does fishing lures influence you? |
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Taking the bait
Edited by
munchiebellic
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Tue 08/25/09 10:38 PM
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Who is the most influential person in your life? And why?
I actually have two people who influenced me the most in life. My great grandmother, she was a lady that did not have one judgemental bone in her fragile body. Her birthday would have been 2 days ago. She was the one woman who was there for me the most before her death. My ex step dad would be the next. He cared for me and made me his daughter from the time i was three till this present day. I consider his new wife just as much as my step mom as she is to my sister. And his new baby boy is just as much my brother. He took the place of my real father and showed me exactly what to expect out of a true man. He showed me the love my father carelessly forgot to show me. Not many men would take care of someone else's kid. He helped pay for my first wedding and he helped me buy my first house. And to this day he is still the man i turn to for advice. |
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LOL Thanks for the advice, but I have found it works much better if I playfully tease a woman and challange her. I dont want to have to chase a man. He should be upfront and being a tease gets you know where but a bunch of non serious relationships that end once the true colors are shown. |
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may i ask a question
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Back when I was 22, it was easy to meet guys (but then again, back then we didn't HAVE the internet...lol!) Now? Not so much 
The more technology that is made the less human interactions we have my generation has internet, cell phones, webcams, we would rather hide behind our electronics than get out there and and have physical contact with one another unless we are hooking up. |
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After many years of dating and relationships, it's my feeling that when a man meets a woman he's attracted to he looks for reasons to get closer to her. He wants to like her. But, it seems to me that women look for reasons NOT to get closer to a man. She appears to be doing everything she can to find something wrong with him. Am I way off base with this idea? Most likely the said women you are speaking of have been hurt. So now they have this layer of ice around their heart. You cant give up, you should keep trying unless she strictly tells you to leave her alone. She wants to make sure your not going to hurt her too. Warm her up with your kindness and patience. The ice will eventually melt away when she is comfortable with you.
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may i ask a question
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I am 23 and i will tell you why i decided on online dating. After having one failed marriage and one failed engagement, being online allows me to talk to many people. I would not be able to experience that kind of culture in my town. I also work, and i am not into the clubs or bar scene. So where am i supposed to meet someone? The mall is for teenagers and community centers mainly have older people. My age group goes to the bar. That is just not my cup of tea. And i cant afford to go out on a regular basis due to the fact that i married so young that i had to learn to pay bills for myself. Its a lot of work to keep house and home and work and work friends into your schedule. So for now, online dating is for me. For some they start the profile and never maintain it. Almost half of the people you see online do not keep up with profiles or they are just wanting to meet women or men just to hook up. For whatever reason it maybe. But for me i like learning from people and what better way than to learn from different perspectives?
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if im atracted to you, then im atracted to them, 8stone or 15stone however, skinny girls generally dont have big boobies, and we all know my thoughts on that 
but a plump girl with issues about her wieght is a nightmare not letting you see her nude, or not likeing you holding her around her waste. i spent 2 years with a girl like that and it was realy hard to deal with, no matter what, i couldnt get through to her how beautifull she was to me I am all about being nude and letting a guy hold me. I *gasp* even like for the lights to be on. |
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Edited by
munchiebellic
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Tue 08/25/09 07:25 AM
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bob is a name for a vibrator, isnt it? what do you call yours?? I call mind dead because it just lays there when its done. Much like a man. |
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bob is a name for a vibrator, isnt it? Battery operated boyfriend |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. "rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort" that? is beautiful......... but to the rest of what you said........dude....you just want sex....you dont want a relationship, but guess what?? sex is easier in a relationship....it is safer...it just "feels" right...bc you know she is just with you.... but come on....dont tell me you are "missing" that false sense of comfort....so which one is worth more? thanks for telling me what i want 
false. such a jaded outlook. i love the feeling of a girl. whether we are having sex or not, feeling connected with someone else is amazing. perhaps your theory holds true for the majority of the disenfranchised minglers (and mods) whom convince themselves that they no longer want to try and become emotionally involved with another. and this can be for any reason- got burnt 1 too many times, poor self-image, laziness ,etc etc etc. all im saying is that there will always be people like me; people who havent given up on love. nothing worth while ever comes easily, right? I understand where your coming from. Love for me is still out there. Good luck in your search for love.
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see women are different... ya'll r just as "emotional" as we are...we show it differently...yes... but when it comes to sex.......its different men? we like to have sex bc it makes us feel...like men women? you have sex bc you wanna cuddle *edited* and that is a massive generalization..........i know im not right....there are some ladies who just love sex, i get it I love just sex, but when it comes to being in a relationship cuddling should happen at least 1/3 of everytime the couple has sex. |
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what the hell is sex? 
Something we are not getting enough of apparently. 
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