I'm ganna say it....ready???

That is totally disrespectful.

Your opinion and mine together.

Isn't that nice?

My opinion but, I think your first paragraph is very out dated and no longer makes any sense. I think you might be used to the old times and ways, and they don't go with how a lot of women want to be viewed today. Things have changed tons since our generation was a kid, and so that's why you can't explain why guys need to feel superior. Men really should think about shedding that and realize its just a leftover trait from older times when men provided everything and made all the decisions. It's not at all like that now. I think it went out the window sometime in the bra burning days, and has been slowly changing ever since. But hasn't come full circle with guys that share your opinion. Thanks for your post. Sounds like you and your ex had a good thing going...makes me wonder what happened...

Thank you, my grandmother born in 1893 would be proud.
I guess I'm too old fashioned. I guess I need to learn to bury my head better, because so far, I cannot find tolerance or acceptance, to me, that's a cop out. Martin Luther King JR. didn't become who he was with the people by accepting and tolerating.
People need to hear, yes, I feel I can be a voice.

Nothing is wrong with any of you lol that's the point.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
Beauty is from within. No one will be satisfied with anyone until they learn that. Not just my opinion, everyone knows that.
I've seen tons of seemingly gorgeous men, turn ugly quick after becoming better acquainted. But I guess the shallow and rude don't care when they are only after what someone looks like. I say good luck with that to them. Never works very long.

wow... I made fun of his online name... big deal... I've had the same thing happen to me and I didn't care. I was joking....

not really...I think maybe you missed the point. Everyone goes grey... everyone has different degrees of money...everyone gets old...
Most women are NOT over 6 feet tall. I don't feel I was talking about height as being an obstacle. Just asking if it really does matter to enough men for me to stay away from shorter men or not. I had someone burn me with it after I thought it wasn't a problem. Guess you'd have to be a super tall woman to understand the meat in it all.

Thank you for your compliments

I've heard that somewhere before.... Ironic profile name you have there

Goof said,
"You asked if I provided everything for my household during any point in my life? Well, I do now cause I'm single. Lol. I was married, and she and I both worked and we provided for us."

I didn't think you'd catch that. lol So I will tell you.
If you have never provided everything for a female, then why do you need to feel superior? If she is also working and providing for the household, wouldn't you be equal? I know you don't have any problems with women and size, (there's a joke in there lol) , but you said that a man likes to feel superior. There is no need for that anymore in this day and age if a man isn't going to be the sole bread winner. Neither would be superior because of provision or gender.

Perfect example of saying something by mistake.
My apologies about your mother, and using the mother example with someone that lost theirs.
There is truth in what you say about weakness. It can go too far.
There is a balance in the proper amount of strength and weakness.
But expressing love for others requires a softer heart, some might see as weak.

Question: and please don't be offended...
Did you provide everything for your household during any point in your life?
If not, why would you automatically want to feel like the dominant one?
Why would a guy need to feel superior over a woman?
Where are the benefits in this for her?

wow....and wow again.... so true. Thanks for reminding me. I'd forgotten.

wow... WOW! I can relate completely.

I like your cents

But we are not discussing salt and vinegar are we?
We are talking about someone's appearance.
That can, and usually is, a touchy subject far more important than salt and vinegar. You'd have to use another example.
Nobody feels bad after they find out someone likes salt and vinegar.

Ah I like this woman. Cheers to you. You have a very short sweet way of saying things. I can learn from you.

exactly. lol it doesn't really stop much anyway.

she said it way better than me.
and faster too....gawd...story of my life.

If we all went around being "honest" all the time in everyday life....I'm not sure I could take it. We aren't 3 years old and telling our mommy her friend is fat because we don't know any better. Come on.
Like I said, I din't post this to learn something...I posted this to make people more aware that their likes and wants are fine and unique to them sure... but you don't have to be rude about it. Just tell someone to move on instead. I have to everyday. I have to tell men all the time to move on because of something I don't like about their appearance. I'm not going to shorten my work by being rude. No bald men. No old men. To me, that man will most likely be just fine about it and leave my profile unscathed...however, deep down inside, later on that day, he will think about how old he is getting and that he really does hate his shiny hairless scalp. I don't want to do that to someone to just save my time by filtering them out. NOT cool. Perhaps most people just don't think of things to this degree.
I don't feel I am being rude at all for bringing this person's blog to light. I didn't say "your blog completely sux" I like to give people something to think about. As you people have given me something to think about. I read your opinions, and have to disagree. It would be nice to have people care for one another in more ways and stop only thinking of themselves. This is what I see when I read a blog that singles out stuff like this. A rude, impatient, self centered person. That may be judgement, but we all need judgement to make decisions, but we don't NEED to be rude about it in all caps and exclamation points.

Because it can make someone feel bad and rejected. It's not nice. I can also say, no old bald men...that's not nice. Now if I said no unemployed luffs...that's different...that is something someone CAN change. No one can change the color of their skin, and sometimes, can't control their weight. So what? You have to tell them to move on if you don't like that. Big deal! It's better than being rude. I won't even talk with someone that has a blog like that. Why would I date them? Seriously. It's about manners. It just shows that they don't care about anyone but what they want.

Right? lol It really seems that as mothers laxed out (for whatever reason) on bringing up their boys with chivalry, we inherited another set of problems for women. What I've seen out there is that men don't even want to provide for women much anymore. Weird because this is what they were for. Protection and provision. I think the ones that don't think they should, really just can't. So they knock it down and say women are gold diggers etc. That's really not always it. Not with me and the women I know. Seems like women evolved into a man-woman position in life in that she has to do all her woman duties, and also provide for herself. Where did men fall off I don't know. But it sux. Don't get me wrong, I can take care of myself...but it wasn't ever expected until the 20th century. All we ask for is to be cherished in all the small ways, and it seems most men can't even do that.