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Tue 08/04/09 06:35 PM
A spanking is just that... a controlled action, taken over the lap, of ideally the father, with a thin harmless paddle, given to a younger child that has been continuously defiant after many verbal warnings, and serious consequences.
In my opinion, the father should be the figure of authority, and really should only have to spank once in a long while to remind the child who is boss and is responsible for their well being. The mother is for love, comfort, and understanding.

"Spare the rod, spoil the child" can exist.. but every child is different as other posters have stated. I have 3 children. All grown. The oldest needed very few "spankings", the middle child needed more, the last child got ONE and never needed another. Sometimes there's just not enough going on in a child's life to take away something everytime a punishment needs to be put in place. However older children and teenagers usually do. Right about the time they become too old for a spanking.

This "rod" spoken of however, may not be an actual rod in order to beat a child with. I have found that when God punishes me, He can't hit me with anything from where He is....but life's consequences for what I've done.

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Tue 08/04/09 06:20 PM
149 posts? rating an older profile is what we're doing? lol

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Tue 08/04/09 06:19 PM
flowerforyou good job

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Tue 08/04/09 05:17 PM
I'm still stuck on Static X
LOVE that Industrial metal!!!!

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Fri 07/31/09 09:51 AM
Edited by mountainwatergirl on Fri 07/31/09 09:52 AM
Well, doesn't look like many people have utilized this post for any success stories in a while.... but I suppose I will.

Met the love of my life via these forums with a "rate my profile" post. Got razzed to the bone by many regular forum perosnalities,(newbie bashing CAN be fun), one of these posters was Tigardman.

He sent me my first email with suggestions for my new profile. We razzeled each other back and forth for weeks. Super witty, smart, caring, funny guy that made me excited to check what he had sent me next.

Next thing I knew, I'd opened up for dating. He drove almost 300 miles to meet with me. I opened my front door to find the man of my dreams standing there. Evrything has gone so well it's been hard to fathom that it all started here on this website. Fire and passion in the biggest love I've ever felt.....finally, found here, and we are proof. I have never met a man with so much in common with me.

It's been 3 weeks exclusively dating and I feel like I've known him all my life already. It's taken years for me to get to know someone this well. It really could not be ANY better than this, and I am not one to ever say that. SO not letting this man go.
He's a total keeper......

Thanks Mingle!
Good luck to all....Mountainwatergirl (MWG)


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Mon 07/20/09 10:24 PM

i dont know why i`m helping, cos you sicken me with your smiley faces
but, they have met, read the damn post
i hope it all goes horribly wrong for you two flowerforyou


roflmao..... LOVE IT....

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Mon 07/20/09 04:13 PM

Don't take this the wrong way, but . . .

Having been around dating sites for a while, I really don't advise ANNOUNCEMENTS, especially when you are so new to taling to each other and especially if you haven't even MET, yet.

Do yourselves a favor and keep it to yourself until you are well into the physical relationship, engaged, married and have offspring. J/K laugh

I have seen it backfire so many times.

I believe that Discretion if the better part of Valor and fell bictim (willingly) to an announced virtual LDR. Let's just say the spark could not be sustained until we finally met so the result was anti-climactic.

Wishing you the best outcome,

Bry glasses






Love it when posters pay attention,
I"m not saying anything else....... except.... OMG

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Mon 07/20/09 10:28 AM

congrats!! i like happy stories!!!flowerforyou :banana:


THANKS! Me too! bigsmile
So super happy that dang search is finally over.

Take care,

MWG

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Mon 07/20/09 10:26 AM
Edited by mountainwatergirl on Mon 07/20/09 10:28 AM

REALY..... they make me sick
how dare you find happyness rant













tears



LOL,,,, sorry,
That was super funny rofl


Needed to let the peeps know who wanted to find out how it all went.

Don't give up flowerforyou

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Mon 07/20/09 12:21 AM
Edited by mountainwatergirl on Mon 07/20/09 12:22 AM
satisfied smooched

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Mon 07/20/09 12:11 AM
....words.... don't have any...can't describe
wait.... how about.... WOW! smitten

So in love with TM, good luck to everyone.

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Wed 07/15/09 09:24 AM

i wonder if it would have worked out if she'd chosen a different name. for instance, "mountaingoatgirl" or "sewerwatergirl". my guess is no. "mountainwaterballoon" probably would have been ok, just confusing.


That's very funny there, half naked, hairy man. LOL
maybe that should've been your name here, let's try it shall we?

halfnakedhairyman.... hummmm, I think it fit's laugh

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Tue 07/14/09 10:57 PM

This guy I just got with??? tried EVERYTHING..... and I wasn't havin' it! Most guys that tried to talk to me, or rather, thought they were talking to me... were not what it was going to take.


Heh. At that point, I accept the rejection ( pretty much used to it ) and just call it a day...

I get that... thx for the happy wishes.. but I thought you might want to look at what you said up there..."Heh. At that point, I accept the rejection ( pretty much used to it ) and just call it a day..."

that attitude might be why... I know you feel like you shouldn't have to try that hard.. I get that totally. But when someone is not seemingly that interested in you, and you really are, the effort is what alot of us girls look at. Keeps us from having a too layed back, easy going boyfriend that'd rather hang with their friends then give their girl what she needs. The good ones anyway... lol

Take care..

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Tue 07/14/09 10:44 PM
Edited by mountainwatergirl on Tue 07/14/09 10:45 PM

Well..so far...I have put myself " out here " 10,399 times.

Hasn't done me any good so far.....lmao


maybe try some different tactics, words or approach than you have. This guy I just got with??? tried EVERYTHING..... and I wasn't havin' it! Most guys that tried to talk to me, or rather, thought they were talking to me... were not what it was going to take. Just a thought. So don't laugh,,, trying to help ya here... lol

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Tue 07/14/09 10:15 PM

Good deal. Best of luck to you.

Me..the odds look longer and longer all the time...lol


Don't give up,,, this is what my new beau did... he kept at it and swept me off my feet with... WORDS... weird... remember to put yourself out there. Send those emails and don't give up is the key. Your personality will shine through eventually. Trust me.

flowerforyou

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Tue 07/14/09 10:14 PM

Good luck to you, from one that it has worked for!!flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou


Hey thx alot! I;m super smitten for now.. we'll see how it goes... good luck to you all!

smitten

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Tue 07/14/09 10:00 PM
So people CAN really find someone to date and find love on this site... I posted a couple weeks ago a topic asking how many people are finding dates here... mostly people said not really...

Well, let it be known that I did finally find a super cool, wonderful, funny, witty, generous man to fall in love with here on this site..... Been talking for over a month and meeting for the first time this weekend...

Tigardman + Mountainwatergirl! NICE!!

Keep trying peoples...

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Tue 07/14/09 09:55 PM
wow, what an incredible story... super sweet... keep that heart of yours as golden as the halo that she wore.....

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Tue 07/14/09 09:53 PM
oh for crying in the night..... lol

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Wed 07/08/09 11:03 PM

Uh huh...hot as **** when I was there.


Google it girl... it's stays as I've said, but hey whatever you know is fine too... it rarely gets over 85....