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Female Supremacy...
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Are there any fans of misandry and the idea of female supremacy around here? I don't believe in feamle supremacy any more than I believe in male supremacy. As for misandry; he oly time I would hate men is when they feel they have the right to treat me as a second class citizen just because I am a woman. I earned the right to be treated as an equal and will accept nothing less. 
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Topic:
Female Supremacy...
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Sun 01/27/13 09:10 AM
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Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Sat 01/26/13 11:54 PM
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Dont judge some time that is a good thing my son is still home with me not that he wants to be but that he knows my health issue are not good and that I will need to take in a boarder to make it on disability.Which this days that is scary to me .I just hope I can found that someone special so he can go do the things he want to so while he is still young enough to enjoy He FAR from a mama boy I agree. Lots of people have different living situations. People shouldnt judge that all on the loser side. It can be viewed as just being close knit or situational. But if the guy is only living at home because he is unmotivated, and hes not helping anyone, or close to anyone, then i can tell he will be missing other character traits i need in a man. It is a judgement that is made. For selection reasons. But i dont feel its being rudely judgmental. My opinion of course. |
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Topic:
How to trust again?
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Sat 01/26/13 10:16 PM
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I went through the same thing. Just left 6 weeks ago. Listen to me. Leave as soon as you can. You're wasting your time. Its not so much that he will do it again or that youre not married. Its that once trust for fidelity is broken you have to repair it. Hes not going to help you repair your trust in him. It takes counseling at least. There is a poison running through your relationship now and you will doubt everything he says, everywhere he goes. It will eat you alive. Then he will get impatient with you for not trusting him. Because its easy for him to forget his shameful mistake, hes embarrassed and wants to put it in the past far and fast. But you will need at least 4x that amount of time to forget if you ever do. He will start resenting you and grow impatient for his freedoms. And you will want to decapitate him for even mentioning it. Its already over. It was over that day. Youre in denial. I understand. Love wants to hope and believe. It lingers on cause thats what love does... but you have to cut it off. With you snd him having the violent streak I'm sure you can see how much more fighting is coming.
Take care of yourself. |
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What one thing do you like the most about men???
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Its a damn good thing I've never been friends with anyone i dated then. Lol i can hear me now... "do NOT bother being friends with me, we're just dating!"
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the main things that bother me when i first meet a man is online or in person is when: *the first email or text they call you baby or honey...you can tell when someone does it out of habit *when they use bad language like it's normal or to try to impress you *when they manscape their bodies UGH! *they drink too much and get all loud and bossy or start having the "roman" hands *last if they give you a kiss on the first date they seem like they trying to implant an alien being. *they don't even try to look presentable it's like they just can't be themselves, be natural and try not to be nervous...heck we all get nervous, but some just don't try at all i guess. Ugh! I totally agree with you. You hit it big time with the terms of endearment i cant stand that either. Honey! Bah i hate that. Hey there honey sexy lady how you doin. Yuck. |
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I just saw a profile on here that the first thing the blog said was "White men only!" omg! Are ya sure? lol I mean geez. I'm going to say it, that is out right rude and unnecessary at all get out! lol Why can't they just decline an invitation to talk if they don't want to date a black man? That would make me feel singled out and rejected for the color of my skin. Should my profile say No ASIANS?? It might as well to me. I think African Americans have been through enough and don't need to see that first thing on someone's profile. Rude rude rude. Take it down you. lol
Once in the "New Members" forum, a black American woman made it clear that she was looking for black men only. Also, there is a dating website that caters exclusively to black people. So, racism in dating preferences isn't limited to white people. thats true, all types of people have racial preferences I havent seen a site that is racially exclusive though,, thats interesting The BET network airs commercials for a dating site exclusively for black people. Yea yea. I realize that. Even at that... something seems off. I dont think its good to say only this or only that. Guess i hate clubs lol |
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Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Fri 01/25/13 02:22 PM
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I would Message them anyways and try to soften them up. I'll bet you could do JUST that too there guy.
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Thank You 4 a Clever and entertaining topic On my comment after P.S. There was the The 6th letter of the alphabet followed by the 21st but TEXAS Gurrrl wouldnt let me write it .. shes mean jk you're welcome
I hope it helps some people think |
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Turn off are but not limited to: Over weight, sorry it's a health risk. Gold diggers, When you care about how I earn money and How much I earn. Hygiene, you have to smell good. Bitchy attitude, major turn off. smoking, that is a deal breaker I don't care hot hot you're body is. if you do drugs, don't waste my time. if you are judgmental, deal breaker. Narcissistic, I cant even talk to you. You should have read my post yesterday… I thought about judgmental people too, but then I had to think about that, everybody has an opinion and I try to treat everybody the same way I would want to be treated. So if I give an opinion then I should be willing to accept someone else’s as well. It’s not always easy but God willing I will overcome the feelings of negative opinions. This following quote is from another site… It is irritating!! But it's like the unspoken PC definition of fat.
But that happened to a lot of words that used to be positive about body shape: Curvy = Fat Voluptuous = Obese Rubenesque = Morbidly Obese 
The internet calls this Fat… 
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Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Fri 01/25/13 12:59 PM
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Turn offs:
disrespect no brains dull conversation says one thing/does another (hypocrite) lies! gawking at women longer than what's polite doesn't want to take care of a woman but expects her to take care of him, (this also fits under hypocrite lol) addictions no talents, beliefs, aspirations, future, and doesn't recognize mine no good sense of humor bad hygiene selfishness of any kind doesn't love music never says thank you to people has nothing to show for all his years expects me to pay 1/2 of everything instead of not worrying about it and waiting for it to come back around next time won't offer his help when someone needs it uses the tv and/or computer ALL the time peeing off the front porch hand covers crotch inside pants when sitting eats without using a napkin wears pants too tight to show off the real estate bald heads facial hair hairy chests/backs/bottoms chauvenistic attitude contradicts himself selfish in bed uses modern disrespecting terms for women/sex Just to name a few lol |
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I think its rude. You go to a profile of a woman that you think is attractive and it say no __ Whatever BUT i rather that because it beats trying to come up with something clever to impress her in a message @ least she didnt waste my time Thank YOU P.S. true... thanks for your point of view. I like the way you put it. Really helped me. |
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
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My opinion but, I think your first paragraph is very out dated and no longer makes any sense. I think you might be used to the old times and ways, and they don't go with how a lot of women want to be viewed today. Things have changed tons since our generation was a kid, and so that's why you can't explain why guys need to feel superior. Men really should think about shedding that and realize its just a leftover trait from older times when men provided everything and made all the decisions. It's not at all like that now. I think it went out the window sometime in the bra burning days, and has been slowly changing ever since. But hasn't come full circle with guys that share your opinion. Thanks for your post. Sounds like you and your ex had a good thing going...makes me wonder what happened... The above is what Mountainwatergirl wrote. Didn't want to keep reposting our responses as it would have one long azz post. Lol. Anyways, if you read closely what I wrote I didn't say that I felt this way. You asked a question as to why men would need to feel superior and I answered it with an opinion (which I think does hold true). No matter what decade we are in, there are going to be men who will just need to feel "somewhat" superior to women. Yes, as a couple, both will work and both will provide for their family. But some guys will want to be the one who makes more money, or has more of a job status. That's just how it has been for some guys and it will be that way until the day the Earth explodes or women take over the world. Lol. My ex and I did have a good thing going. But, we hit that point where she decided that she wanted another guy. So, you can see where this led. Anyways, I don't regret our relationship and I can look back and remember how good we had it. She was my love for that period in my life. There will be another one. My point exactly... there's no need to feel superior when both the woman and man work and pay an even amount of bills. None. She has her talents and he has his that balance the housework, projects, etc. I know there are men out there that still have this trait. Hence why I'm going on about it, I see it all the time. lol For me, it needs to die and fast. It makes no sense at all. The need for a man to feel superior in the relationship is chauvinistic at the very least, and shows me that these men aren't as aware of things as they should be to cohabit with a modern woman. It's caveman-like lol. For the man to want to be bigger than the woman so he can feel he is in control, and dominate her with it. If a woman is ok with that and doesn't want to be viewed as an equal partner, then fine. It makes no sense to me. I don't like doing things that don't make any sense. lol Also, a man wanting this incredibly obsolete situation, warns me of the intelligence level one is dealing with. Usually intelligent men ponder and think things through. If they see someone has a point, they make adjustments to their thinking and behaviors. I'm sure there are tons of men out there that still think the man should be smarter than the woman too. lol |
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
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It's called a snowball effect...what starts off as 'inconsequential' can develop into something with alot more impact. Which can be quite insightful. I just don't see how the height of the lady I'm dating will have any lasting impact in the grand scheme of things. ...Well, okay, if she is a man-eating giant that could change things. I eat men 
I taste bad! Besides, I ain't afraid to eat women, err... eat women I like at least... 
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oh yea, you had to get all specific and everything. lol geez |
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
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It's called a snowball effect...what starts off as 'inconsequential' can develop into something with alot more impact. Which can be quite insightful. I just don't see how the height of the lady I'm dating will have any lasting impact in the grand scheme of things. ...Well, okay, if she is a man-eating giant that could change things. I eat men
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
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Haven't dated a women taller than me, infact rarely see a women taller than me. It would be exciting to date her. Then every night before going to bed I'd wrestle with her!      
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i guess i've been around people who've acted this way too long and just shake my head when i see things like that. i'm the type that pretty much answers anyone who even views my profile just to say thanks. they or the ones that respond will be the ones who will pay the price down the road....when you see it stated, just shake your head and think another soul with no real heart. 
That's good advise. Thank you, I suppose I will have to try that. Maybe...lol, but inside my heart screams that I was meant to speak up and try to help. |
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
Edited by
mountainwatergirl
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Fri 01/25/13 09:59 AM
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I would like to hear from all the dudes out there... What do you really think of a woman that is taller than you? (Don't worry...I won't be offended with your answers...if you've looked at my profile lol) I am a Woman!!! What about tall Women who do not like Short Men. 
lol well my guess is you have every right to NOT date one lol I don't mind it as long as he's confident in himself, and doesn't try to stand on his tippy toes to size himself up. lol But, my post is about guys that get with tall chicks because "they don't mind it" that they're taller. I don't want to be with a shorter guy because I don't mind it either lol that's hypocritical. lol It hasn't worked for me. I don't think guys think about it enough before they jump in. Then they figure out JUST how tall I really am, and start to not like it with time. That's settling to me. I don't feel selected on purpose with that in mind. |
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Topic:
tall women short(er) women
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I would like to hear from all the dudes out there... What do you really think of a woman that is taller than you? (Don't worry...I won't be offended with your answers...if you've looked at my profile lol) it's not hard to find women taller than me.i'm only 5'6,so i just have to deal with it 
wow, that is something I've not thought about too much. Thanks for the post. Wow... want a piggy back ride? lol totally just joking 
burn on both of us. wow we'd look pretty ridiculous together huh? he he |
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