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bad neighbors what to do
Edited by
RealityMan
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Sat 06/06/09 05:31 PM
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I ass/u/med they were only open like banking hours.
After I eat tonite I'll try calling. Will try to get some evidence on video as well. Thanx all again! And don't take good neighbors for granted.....almost as important as health! |
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thank you all for listening.
and for all of the replies. I will call Child Youth Monday and let you all know what comes of it. Now...where is that girl that just read my email to her and hasn't replied yet.....incredible eyes that woman! |
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I never said all people on section 8 are bad people.....don't paint with a big brush please! Better yet...come on over and I can show you my neighbors and you'll be shocked and sickened. I wasn't directin that statement at u. I was makin a general statement because I've heard people that are on any kind of assistance talked of badly by many people on this site. I think just about every neighborhood has bad neighbors of some kind. U unfortunately have what sounds like some of the worse. understood. I know people fall on hard times and prayers go out to them. These people are using the system. If I didn't have a life, I would videotape all of them and post it on youtube and you all could see how some are. The comments about me ignoring it-- get a life ---etc etc.....until they move next door to you you cannot say that. I TRY to ignore them. Guess what? can't! I will be sleeping and hear a horn honking about 20 times. Guess who??! I will be on this website chatting with a girl and I have to stop and go outside and figure out what that loud ass noise was. I'll be eating dinner and hear her SCREAMING. You can't ignore that. etc etc etc |
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I never said all people on section 8 are bad people.....don't paint with a big brush please! Better yet...come on over and I can show you my neighbors and you'll be shocked and sickened. I'm sure that they are bad neighbors by what you've described. But..you're bringing other things into the picture ie. your taxes, welfare, and foodstamps. You're making it sound like that bothers you as much as their behavior It bothers me (and it should bother you) that they sponge off the system. I HAVE to work. They get more money then I do and I work full time plus! They are off 365 days a year. That bothers me as well....not as much as all the noise they make. Haven't had a decent nite sleep in months. (since the weather got nice) I am a honest, loving, caring person. But will not stand up for people who 'work the system'. They park their car in my yard and when I confront them, I get: It ain't hurting anything! man I wish you could have neighbors like this and you'd say they same thing.... oops......looks like the cops are over there...again....be back in a minute |
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I never said all people on section 8 are bad people.....don't paint with a big brush please!
Better yet...come on over and I can show you my neighbors and you'll be shocked and sickened. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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U can call Child Protective Services an remain anonymous. Havin worked for CPS, I would suggest have as much info as possible. Write down times, dates of occurences. Be able to give them names and ages of the children and parents. This kind of info helps out a great deal when doin an investigation. If you are friends with any other neighbors ask them if they would also call. The more complaints they get concernin the family from a variety of people, the better. If it's just one person doin the complainin it's not taken as seriously unfortunately. I can maybe get another (or two) neighbors to call. One of them is moving out soon and I think he'll do it. I can move too.....but I am a man of principle and I lived here first. Why should I have to move? Please call CPS, no 2 yr old should be roamin the streets unattended. That is a very dangerous situation. There should actually be a 1-800 number u can call 24/7. Every state has one. Just remember what I said, as much info as possible. You wouldn't believe some of the reports I've taken that couldn't be investigated because we had no info such as the simple address in which to go investigate. I will call. The other kids aren't much older and use this toy truck thing to slide down the street around a blind corner .....cars are always flying around same corner and one of these they're gonna get hit. The parents do not care. I have asked them to stop riding that thing next to my house but it only lasts for a day or 2. These 'people' believe it's a free country and can do whatever they want. I hear them actually say that. They take ZERO responsibility for their actions and I see this more and more in America and it makes me sick. Guess what..it is a FREE COUNTRY and people can do whatever they want within reason. You act like your neighbors are not "as good" as you because they live in section 8 housing. Be lucky my friend that you still have your job! The problem is you do not know their situation..so do not judge them!! I do think you need to call CPS but I DO NOT think you need to judge people! Maybe you need to think about that...stop worrying about your neighbors money situation and take care of your own! Read my post above your last I truly doubt that their small children say that the government is going to send them money. IF you are sitting there listening to their conversations...find something else to do! I actually think its called, get a life!! And about them not wanting to work...like I said to you before, BE HAPPY YOU STILL HAVE YOUR JOB!!! Its tough out there and people are getting laid off ALL the time. I have a life. They are LOUD. I can be in front of my TV and can hear them. and YES the kids DID say that. some of you are not exposed to this kind of thing. Don't judge. Some of you are very well 'insulated' from the real reality....trust me. |
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bad neighbors what to do
Edited by
RealityMan
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Sat 06/06/09 04:45 PM
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That's a pedophiles dream come true.
======================================= Funny you said that: I even pretended one day to be talking on the phone outside when they were outside. I said, "yea you hear about that child molester that just got out? He lives 1 block away....maybe somebody should warn the parents" They heard me.....didn't ask any questions...didn't care. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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U can call Child Protective Services an remain anonymous. Havin worked for CPS, I would suggest have as much info as possible. Write down times, dates of occurences. Be able to give them names and ages of the children and parents. This kind of info helps out a great deal when doin an investigation. If you are friends with any other neighbors ask them if they would also call. The more complaints they get concernin the family from a variety of people, the better. If it's just one person doin the complainin it's not taken as seriously unfortunately. I can maybe get another (or two) neighbors to call. One of them is moving out soon and I think he'll do it. I can move too.....but I am a man of principle and I lived here first. Why should I have to move? Please call CPS, no 2 yr old should be roamin the streets unattended. That is a very dangerous situation. There should actually be a 1-800 number u can call 24/7. Every state has one. Just remember what I said, as much info as possible. You wouldn't believe some of the reports I've taken that couldn't be investigated because we had no info such as the simple address in which to go investigate. I will call. The other kids aren't much older and use this toy truck thing to slide down the street around a blind corner .....cars are always flying around same corner and one of these they're gonna get hit. The parents do not care. I have asked them to stop riding that thing next to my house but it only lasts for a day or 2. These 'people' believe it's a free country and can do whatever they want. I hear them actually say that. They take ZERO responsibility for their actions and I see this more and more in America and it makes me sick. Guess what..it is a FREE COUNTRY and people can do whatever they want within reason. You act like your neighbors are not "as good" as you because they live in section 8 housing. Be lucky my friend that you still have your job! The problem is you do not know their situation..so do not judge them!! I do think you need to call CPS but I DO NOT think you need to judge people! Maybe you need to think about that...stop worrying about your neighbors money situation and take care of your own! Read my post above your last |
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bad neighbors what to do
Edited by
RealityMan
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Sat 06/06/09 04:35 PM
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Call CPS. Also call the landlord. In my city we can call the city about problem homes like that. We can also call our alderman. We are not helpless about these situations. There are people to call. The landlord used to be my neighbor. my ex-wife and him hated each other so he hates me. The real irony here is that when I moved here he had hand made signs in HIS window pointing towards our house(s) saying NO SECTION 8. Then he goes and makes his house Section 8. Worse....these people next door make more money on welfare and food stamps then I do working my ass off. They say life ain't fair....but that's just plain wrong! Why are you bringing their financial situation into it? I thought this was about their children and their behavior? What do you mean by "these people"? You can call the city, CPS, and the alderman of your neighborhood. It may shock you but until you actually live beside this kind of thing you can't judge me by what I call them. Seriously. Their financial situation is their will. They choose not to work. I can hear almost every conversation they have(they are LOUD) and I heard them they say they'll never get jobs. I hear their kids say, when I grow up the gov't will send me money. Believe it and lets leave it at that. |
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thank God I live way out in the woods on land owned by my family...no one can move in around me...I LOVE BEING ME I envy you. I was born and raised in the country. Lived between 4 farms. I can go back if I want but I made something for myself here and it took a long time and hard work. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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Call CPS. Also call the landlord. In my city we can call the city about problem homes like that. We can also call our alderman. We are not helpless about these situations. There are people to call. The landlord used to be my neighbor. my ex-wife and him hated each other so he hates me. The real irony here is that when I moved here he had hand made signs in HIS window pointing towards our house(s) saying NO SECTION 8. Then he goes and makes his house Section 8. Worse....these people next door make more money on welfare and food stamps then I do working my ass off. They say life ain't fair....but that's just plain wrong! |
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bad neighbors what to do
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U can call Child Protective Services an remain anonymous. Havin worked for CPS, I would suggest have as much info as possible. Write down times, dates of occurences. Be able to give them names and ages of the children and parents. This kind of info helps out a great deal when doin an investigation. If you are friends with any other neighbors ask them if they would also call. The more complaints they get concernin the family from a variety of people, the better. If it's just one person doin the complainin it's not taken as seriously unfortunately. I can maybe get another (or two) neighbors to call. One of them is moving out soon and I think he'll do it. I can move too.....but I am a man of principle and I lived here first. Why should I have to move? Please call CPS, no 2 yr old should be roamin the streets unattended. That is a very dangerous situation. There should actually be a 1-800 number u can call 24/7. Every state has one. Just remember what I said, as much info as possible. You wouldn't believe some of the reports I've taken that couldn't be investigated because we had no info such as the simple address in which to go investigate. I will call. The other kids aren't much older and use this toy truck thing to slide down the street around a blind corner .....cars are always flying around same corner and one of these they're gonna get hit. The parents do not care. I have asked them to stop riding that thing next to my house but it only lasts for a day or 2. These 'people' believe it's a free country and can do whatever they want. I hear them actually say that. They take ZERO responsibility for their actions and I see this more and more in America and it makes me sick. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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Ok I will call CPS. Or CYS.
Looking for the local number now. |
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U can call Child Protective Services an remain anonymous. Havin worked for CPS, I would suggest have as much info as possible. Write down times, dates of occurences. Be able to give them names and ages of the children and parents. This kind of info helps out a great deal when doin an investigation. If you are friends with any other neighbors ask them if they would also call. The more complaints they get concernin the family from a variety of people, the better. If it's just one person doin the complainin it's not taken as seriously unfortunately. I can maybe get another (or two) neighbors to call. One of them is moving out soon and I think he'll do it. I can move too.....but I am a man of principle and I lived here first. Why should I have to move? |
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When I first moved here it wasn't bad at all.
Seems like no matter where I go they eventually come and ruin everything. 4th time now. I can't do the things I want because I can't concentrate with all the noise. Worse, my taxes pay their rent, food. I lose sleep etc. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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The people next to me moved out since their only son was beat up getting off the bus one day. They still owe on the mortgage, but went and got another house somewhere. so they couldn't rent this place for a long time and now it's Section 8. Then these awful animals moved in. They park their car halfway in my yard. The mother and father don't have jobs and they have 4 kids that scream all day long. The youngest (2 years old!) wanders around the neighborhood and wanders off far a lot. The mother is so lazy she just opens the door and SCREAMS his name. When that doesn't work(it never does) she gets in her car and drives about 80 yards down the street looking for him honking the horn. Today one of them threw a rock at a passing car. Turns out he was an off duty cop. She and the dad totally flip out when the cop gets mad! They argue it was just a pebble! There is so much more but I'm too pissed to type about it. Calling the cops will do nothing. I needed to vent this!! There's alot of that and much much worse in the city I grew up in. They do drug deals literally in the middle of the street in broad day light. Kids run around with no parental supervision. It's horrible. The county I'm in has the worst Children Service, they want keep the child with the mother no matter how unfit she is. They do whatever they have to NOT to do their job. The police are useless and probably half afraid to really do anything. I'm glad I got out when I did. Same here. drug dealers and drive-by shooting once in broad daylight about 50 feet from my place. |
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bad neighbors what to do
Edited by
RealityMan
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Sat 06/06/09 04:05 PM
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Calling the cops may not do much, but calling child protective services sure as hell will. A two year old wandering the neighborhood or even down the street is no joke. Can I remain anonymous? Don't need these assclowns knowing it was me. They'll think it was the cop I'm sure.....but don't they need verification and stuff? Payphone But I would think Child Youth Services wouldn't take it seriously from a payphone. You know how some people just play dirty tricks and they don't like/want false claims. |
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bad neighbors what to do
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colt .45 Tempting.....but there are prisons.... |
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Call Child Protective Services, they'll investigate. I thought of that and even the off duty cop threatened to do that as well. Might just do that Monday a.m. She ended up calling the cops on the off duty cop threatening to sue 'cuz he was off duty and was he really a cop bla bla bla. I heard her tell the cop, I am a WONDERFUL mother! Bull****. |
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Calling the cops may not do much, but calling child protective services sure as hell will. A two year old wandering the neighborhood or even down the street is no joke. Can I remain anonymous? Don't need these assclowns knowing it was me. They'll think it was the cop I'm sure.....but don't they need verification and stuff? |
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