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Fri 05/08/09 12:17 AM
Hi ladys i am new to mingle and just checking everything out, i found its link on Nashville's GLBT site but i havent really found any interesting open people yet. Help me out please, am i in the wrong place?

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Thu 05/07/09 11:43 PM
i found a link to mingle on a bi/lesbian website, but there doesnt seem to be any open people on here, am i in the wrong place?

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Thu 05/07/09 10:51 PM
yep but in the mean time tell your ex if he shows up at your house your gonna put a BOOT in his BEEP!:wink:

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Thu 05/07/09 10:39 PM
NOT SHOES.....BOOTS!

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Thu 05/07/09 10:18 PM
how many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop.
laugh laugh

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Thu 05/07/09 10:14 PM
hum.......not sure what other women think about but i think about my babies, my husband, my family, and if there is anything i can do to make life better for them. About housework and what i can do to make it look better, about organizing junk drawers. About the state of the world we live in and if it is fixable. About wishing i were camping and fishing right now instead of sitting here. When i have thought all those things to the max i think about what book i am going to read next, what happened to the people in the last book i read when it ubruptly ended, and when i am not thinking about any of that i am thinking about sex and other women.

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Thu 05/07/09 10:03 PM

Begging for disaster. Lack of consideration. Desire and manipulation for control. Forced equality. Manipulation of relationships. Under the guise of sharing. No thanks. I feel sorry for your husband. He's in for a bad ride on a broken rollercoaster. Good luck!



calm down there fella......i do not desire to manipulate or control anything or anyone....please dont compare me to some damn weirdo you knew. Thanks

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Thu 05/07/09 10:01 PM

Nope. I don't think you are understanding what I'm implying. In my instance my bi chick wanted a relationship with me first. Then a working triad. Then wanted us to serve her as she became queen. She had no consideration towards others at all once she got what she wanted. She became queen c*nt. Wipe my ass. Rub my feet you minions. We just quietly left. She's a codependent selfish idiot that needs professional psychiatric help and is receiving it. We are in BI- queen recovery and doing well. We make lots of jokes about it.



okey...i get it....but i am definatly not needing anyone to wipe my ass or lick my feet. But vice versa......hum....no comment. laugh

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Thu 05/07/09 09:57 PM
to me thinking outside the box means takeing what is considered normal and maxing it out. For instance.......it is normal for a lady to lay underneath a tree in the park....think outside the box and climb the freggin tree. Thinking outside the box is not watching the river roll by but jumping in and rolling with it. It is continueing the story even after you have finished the book. flowerforyou

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Thu 05/07/09 09:47 PM
Sure thats when i get creative, and start comming up with crazy questions to ask people on here :tongue:

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Thu 05/07/09 09:35 PM

Buy a cat.


I think you are being a little scynical..oops ..and no thanks i am alergic to kitty cats i prefer Pu**y!
I really do not think i am being selfish because if i were i would have me a couple of girls on the side and let him just wish he were a part of it. I LOVE SHAREING! drinks

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Thu 05/07/09 09:20 PM

All I can tell you is Good Luck! Marriage is initially between two people...when you bring in a third party, the whole dynamic changes. I fear that your husband, your woman, or both are gonna end up getting jealous...it's gonna be tough, no matter what they say, for you to spread yourself so thin. You say your husband is "just going along with it"...so what happens if he doesn't fall in love with her or she with him? It would be a shame to lose both of them...but your husband was there first...

I'm not saying that Triples can't work...but I don't think they work out often... Just food for thought...flowerforyou


Thanks so much for your inputflowers

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Thu 05/07/09 09:03 PM

Yep! All three went their seperate ways...basically, I guess they succumbed to the social pressures & stigma...the gossip became too much for them...& this was in NYC...where you'd think people would be more open-minded. They were very open about their relationship & whether it was jealousy or just mean-spiritness...their friends & aquaintences really turned on them. If you're really serious about this, I'd suggest you make sure ALL parties are secure enough in the relationship...cuz it might turn out that the only people you'll have is eachother...in the long run...



I am still looking for my lady, i am talking to a few people but i am very picky because i do want for all parties to understand things fully and be on the same page before starting anything. We have also surrounded ourselves in the past few months with very open friends who are accepting of what we want to do. I have tried to think of everything to prepare our marriage for this.

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Thu 05/07/09 08:58 PM

I think he would love neither one and is just enjoying the ride. When you love someone, there can be no others.


But i do love my husband, this is all my idea though and he is just going along with it. Am i being selfish to want both?
I have the option to have my girlfriend on the side and him not be involved but i want him to be a part of anything in my life!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:52 PM

I have a good friend who was a member of a Triple...as opposed to a Couple...he said it was great...they lived together, went out together, slept in the same bed together...until outside influences started nasty rumors about STD's & super-freaky sex practices...the relationship disolved between a three parties & they don't speak or see eachother anymore...ohwell


All three split?
Were the couple togeather for very long before the third person joined?
I def do not want any STD's the main reason for me wanting ONE female to be lasting in the relationship. Super freaky...hum...no comment.LOL

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Thu 05/07/09 08:49 PM

Yes
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sorry i am new at this, i would love to hear what 2kidsmom has to say

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Thu 05/07/09 08:47 PM
interesting, please elaborate!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:45 PM
My husband and I have been togeather for more than 10 years, and we are happy but he knows that i have always been bisexual and I am to a point in my life where i feel the need to fulfill that part of me, he is ok with it. I have morals though and dont want to just play with random women, I want to add someone to our marriage. happy

I would love to hear what men have to say about this. Only serious replys though, not just comments on my hubby being a lucky man!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:36 PM
I want serious answers!!!!

Can a man be truely in love with a woman yet have feelings for another woman at the same time?

Can a woman Truely love a man and a woman without loving one more than the other?

Can a Triad relationship work?

Clerification....one man and two women living togeather in harmony! A compleate love triangle not a third wheel!

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