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Topic: crazy questions for ya
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Thu 05/07/09 08:36 PM
I want serious answers!!!!

Can a man be truely in love with a woman yet have feelings for another woman at the same time?

Can a woman Truely love a man and a woman without loving one more than the other?

Can a Triad relationship work?

Clerification....one man and two women living togeather in harmony! A compleate love triangle not a third wheel!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:38 PM
Hmmm sounds like a recipe... for disaster! huh

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Thu 05/07/09 08:40 PM
IMO, don't think it's right, but...to each their own. As long as all parties involved are happy.flowerforyou

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Thu 05/07/09 08:41 PM
Edited by Audie on Thu 05/07/09 08:42 PM
I think he would love neither one and is just enjoying the ride. When you love someone, there can be no others.

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Thu 05/07/09 08:41 PM

I want serious answers!!!!

Can a man be truely in love with a woman yet have feelings for another woman at the same time?

Can a woman Truely love a man and a woman without loving one more than the other?

Can a Triad relationship work?

Clerification....one man and two women living togeather in harmony! A compleate love triangle not a third wheel!


It is a wonderful dream...
But just that for probably 99% of non Mormons...

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Thu 05/07/09 08:43 PM

I think he would love neither one and is just enjoying the ride. When you love someone, there can be no others.



Ditto. flowerforyou

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Thu 05/07/09 08:43 PM

I want serious answers!!!!

Can a man be truely in love with a woman yet have feelings for another woman at the same time?

Can a woman Truely love a man and a woman without loving one more than the other?

Can a Triad relationship work?

Clerification....one man and two women living togeather in harmony! A compleate love triangle not a third wheel!


I do not think so, but just my opinion...

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Thu 05/07/09 08:44 PM
Yes
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Yes

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Thu 05/07/09 08:45 PM
My husband and I have been togeather for more than 10 years, and we are happy but he knows that i have always been bisexual and I am to a point in my life where i feel the need to fulfill that part of me, he is ok with it. I have morals though and dont want to just play with random women, I want to add someone to our marriage. happy

I would love to hear what men have to say about this. Only serious replys though, not just comments on my hubby being a lucky man!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:47 PM
interesting, please elaborate!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:48 PM
Edited by Phuque on Thu 05/07/09 08:50 PM
I have a good friend who was a member of a Triple...as opposed to a Couple...he said it was great...they lived together, went out together, slept in the same bed together...until outside influences started nasty rumors about STD's & super-freaky sex practices...the relationship disolved between the three parties & they don't speak or see eachother anymore...ohwell

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Thu 05/07/09 08:49 PM

Yes
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Yes


sorry i am new at this, i would love to hear what 2kidsmom has to say

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Thu 05/07/09 08:50 PM
Edited by halfpint51 on Thu 05/07/09 08:55 PM
:thumbsup: why not having 2 women and 1 man could be fun and pleasure. halfpint51

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Thu 05/07/09 08:52 PM

I have a good friend who was a member of a Triple...as opposed to a Couple...he said it was great...they lived together, went out together, slept in the same bed together...until outside influences started nasty rumors about STD's & super-freaky sex practices...the relationship disolved between a three parties & they don't speak or see eachother anymore...ohwell


All three split?
Were the couple togeather for very long before the third person joined?
I def do not want any STD's the main reason for me wanting ONE female to be lasting in the relationship. Super freaky...hum...no comment.LOL

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Thu 05/07/09 08:54 PM

I think he would love neither one and is just enjoying the ride. When you love someone, there can be no others.


I agree with Audie!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:54 PM
Triad relationship-
I highly doubt that a relationship like that will have longevity. I would imagine that it would open the doors to uncertainty, an unstable environment and a possible forth person as well on the side... I also think that it could lead to jealousies and other complications in societies eyes as well..

Although, if you all get along great and are all content with each other as a three some then try it out... Sounds like the guy would have allot of fun...I highly doubt it will last for the long haul though... Good luck..

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Thu 05/07/09 08:58 PM

I think he would love neither one and is just enjoying the ride. When you love someone, there can be no others.


But i do love my husband, this is all my idea though and he is just going along with it. Am i being selfish to want both?
I have the option to have my girlfriend on the side and him not be involved but i want him to be a part of anything in my life!

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Thu 05/07/09 08:58 PM
Yep! All three went their seperate ways...basically, I guess they succumbed to the social pressures & stigma...the gossip became too much for them...& this was in NYC...where you'd think people would be more open-minded. They were very open about their relationship & whether it was jealousy or just mean-spiritness...their friends & aquaintences really turned on them. If you're really serious about this, I'd suggest you make sure ALL parties are secure enough in the relationship...cuz it might turn out that the only people you'll have is eachother...in the long run...

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Thu 05/07/09 09:03 PM

Yep! All three went their seperate ways...basically, I guess they succumbed to the social pressures & stigma...the gossip became too much for them...& this was in NYC...where you'd think people would be more open-minded. They were very open about their relationship & whether it was jealousy or just mean-spiritness...their friends & aquaintences really turned on them. If you're really serious about this, I'd suggest you make sure ALL parties are secure enough in the relationship...cuz it might turn out that the only people you'll have is eachother...in the long run...



I am still looking for my lady, i am talking to a few people but i am very picky because i do want for all parties to understand things fully and be on the same page before starting anything. We have also surrounded ourselves in the past few months with very open friends who are accepting of what we want to do. I have tried to think of everything to prepare our marriage for this.

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Thu 05/07/09 09:13 PM
All I can tell you is Good Luck! Marriage is initially between two people...when you bring in a third party, the whole dynamic changes. I fear that your husband, your woman, or both are gonna end up getting jealous...it's gonna be tough, no matter what they say, for you to spread yourself so thin. You say your husband is "just going along with it"...so what happens if he doesn't fall in love with her or she with him? It would be a shame to lose both of them...but your husband was there first...

I'm not saying that Triples can't work...but I don't think they work out often... Just food for thought...flowerforyou

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