I'm gonna sit and read through threads, or also thinking about watching a movie, don't know what though...I'm also in sort of a pain..due to a chemical burn injury on my back. And the damn chinese cookie I had today said: " You are having a wonderful day! Congratulations! "

Oh well..

so am i! I'm not doing anything tonight except chatting on here with a few people ...there is nothing to do in al .lol

I have a very close female friend who is 23, intelligent, classy and absolutely drop dead gorgeous. She is honestly one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen and I used to have a serious crush on her; Hell, I'd still love to get with her lol, however she has some issues when it comes to guys.

You don't have to have money, or be goodlooking, or treat her with respect to get her. In fact, it's a prerequisite to dating her that you have been to jail, are addicted to hardcore drugs(preferably heroin), have at least 86 tatoos, are a white trash scumbag, and treat her like ****.


I met her through a kid that used to be my friend and he was a heroin addict who is in jail right now and he stole from her, lied to her, etc. so even though she still loved him I encouraged her to date other people.

So the first guy she finds is a short and borderline fat dirtball, who just got out of jail, has tatoos on his neck and FACE, and is addicted to painkillers.


They stopped seeing each other when he told her to meet him somewhere one night, never showed up and never called her again. Now she is with another guy who just got out of jail and is one of the biggest scumbags I've ever seen but that isn't my problem with him.


First, before they were seeing each other I had met his friend at a party and he seemed cool so we exchanged #'s and decided to hang out sometime. Well, when I called him to see if he wanted to do something, he kept pushing for me to bring this girl with me and I knew he was married and she wouldn't be interested in him anyway so I asked him who was coming and he named two girls.


Come to find out later, he wanted me to bring her because the scumbag was going and wanted to make a move. It was a setup. Then last Sat. night I get a call from her at midnight hysterical telling me the scumbag left her alone at a subway station in the middle of the worst neighborhood in Philadelphia and she was worried.



I know that place and you don't leave a pretty, young, nieve, white girl there in the middle of the night! So then she texts me that he came back high on heroin and she was crying. He left her there alone while he went off bought heroin and got high! So she told me he was paying for a cab for her to get home, otherwise I was gonna pick her. Well, I thought she was done with him. Then Mon. she texts me asking me not to tell anyone about what happened Sat. night.


To make a long story short she got back with him!!!?? I kind of exploded on her but I told her to have some self-respect and that I cared about her and didn't want to see guys do this stuff to her, that she was better than that. She responded angrily and we haven't talked since. I don't know what to do.


Is it my place to intervene? Is there anything I can do but watch her make the same mistake over and over again? I want to help her but I don't know how...