that is very long and one day i intend on reading it

marry her

My 2 cents:
1. She seems to not care about you even as a friend
2. She is not a true friend and she is using you
3. Here's a bridge: get over it and say buh bye to the past....
4. 2. Run the other way/forget about her and move on

You dont need ta save her chum. She's doin exactly what she want to be doin...by the way...just cuz she good lookin dont mean she aint a dirtbag herself. I wonder if she's done time. I wonder if she likes these excons cuz they gots the best dope. hmmm.

I have a very close female friend who is 23, intelligent, classy and absolutely drop dead gorgeous. She is honestly one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen and I used to have a serious crush on her; Hell, I'd still love to get with her lol, however she has some issues when it comes to guys.

You don't have to have money, or be goodlooking, or treat her with respect to get her. In fact, it's a prerequisite to dating her that you have been to jail, are addicted to hardcore drugs(preferably heroin), have at least 86 tatoos, are a white trash scumbag, and treat her like ****.


I met her through a kid that used to be my friend and he was a heroin addict who is in jail right now and he stole from her, lied to her, etc. so even though she still loved him I encouraged her to date other people.

So the first guy she finds is a short and borderline fat dirtball, who just got out of jail, has tatoos on his neck and FACE, and is addicted to painkillers.


They stopped seeing each other when he told her to meet him somewhere one night, never showed up and never called her again. Now she is with another guy who just got out of jail and is one of the biggest scumbags I've ever seen but that isn't my problem with him.


First, before they were seeing each other I had met his friend at a party and he seemed cool so we exchanged #'s and decided to hang out sometime. Well, when I called him to see if he wanted to do something, he kept pushing for me to bring this girl with me and I knew he was married and she wouldn't be interested in him anyway so I asked him who was coming and he named two girls.


Come to find out later, he wanted me to bring her because the scumbag was going and wanted to make a move. It was a setup. Then last Sat. night I get a call from her at midnight hysterical telling me the scumbag left her alone at a subway station in the middle of the worst neighborhood in Philadelphia and she was worried.



I know that place and you don't leave a pretty, young, nieve, white girl there in the middle of the night! So then she texts me that he came back high on heroin and she was crying. He left her there alone while he went off bought heroin and got high! So she told me he was paying for a cab for her to get home, otherwise I was gonna pick her. Well, I thought she was done with him. Then Mon. she texts me asking me not to tell anyone about what happened Sat. night.


To make a long story short she got back with him!!!?? I kind of exploded on her but I told her to have some self-respect and that I cared about her and didn't want to see guys do this stuff to her, that she was better than that. She responded angrily and we haven't talked since. I don't know what to do.


Is it my place to intervene? Is there anything I can do but watch her make the same mistake over and over again? I want to help her but I don't know how...

I've broken up your post, my eyes almost fell out of my skull, trying to read it...no offense...+ {add hangover)




alright,here is the short version:

-You know a girl who looks really good and you know her for a while.
-She dates a scumbag out of jail,a drug addict.
-You want to know how you can help her.


Answer: She is 23, if she wants to date the scumbag let her learn it the hard way. Tell her you warned her many times, and she refuses to change her mind, than it's her fault from this point on.

but she REPEATEDLY DATES SCUMBAGS only, over and over again and they all **** her over and she still goes for them?